Soft Size

[BruceSter]

Hi there,

recently my g/f mentioned that she gets a turn-on on seeing my dick soft. I am among those who don't add much length during erection (hard: 8.5"x6", roughly - soft: 6"x5.5").

Surely that improves your self-esteem when in shower rooms, locker rooms etc. but I never had a gal or lady admitting to thrive on my soft dick.

How do you other ladies/guys think about that? Post your opinions.

Yours all,
Bruce

 

[Kimahri]

I used to work in gym in VA. My roommate always made comments about dudes soft in the lockerroom, but I never really cared. Until oneday. There had always been this dude that everyone checked out because he was that hot, guys/girls, everyone looked at him. Well, oneday I had to go into the lockerroom to find a member. I come around the corner and here he comes..no towel. So, being the so called cool kat, I took a quick glimspe downstairs. Big mistake. Soft, he was hanging about 3/4 the way down to his knee and thick. I regained my composure and looked up to see if he noticed. He was looking dead at me with this...."Yeah, i got a big dick" look on his face and a smile on his lips.

Yes, hanging big soft is almost as impressive hanging big hard. He had no esteem issues, but was definitely the source of some major penis envy.

 

[jonadkins]

Originally posted by Kimahri@Jan 6 2005, 06:00 PM
I used to work in gym in VA.  My roommate always made comments about dudes soft in the lockerroom, but I never really cared.  Until oneday.  There had always been this dude that everyone checked out because he was that hot, guys/girls, everyone looked at him.  Well, oneday I had to go into the lockerroom to find a member.  I come around the corner and here he comes..no towel.  So, being the so called cool kat, I took a quick glimspe downstairs.  Big mistake.  Soft, he was hanging about 3/4 the way down to his knee and thick.  I regained my composure and looked up to see if he noticed.  He was looking dead at me with this...."Yeah, i got a big dick" look on his face and a smile on his lips.

Yes, hanging big soft is almost as impressive hanging big hard.  He had no esteem issues, but was definitely the source of some major penis envy.

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"Oneday I had to go into the lockerroom to find a member" - seems as though you succeeded!

 

[Kimahri]

Originally posted by jonadkins+Jan 6 2005, 02:59 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(jonadkins &#064; Jan 6 2005, 02:59 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Kimahri@Jan 6 2005, 06:00 PM
I used to work in gym in VA.  My roommate always made comments about dudes soft in the lockerroom, but I never really cared.  Until oneday.  There had always been this dude that everyone checked out because he was that hot, guys/girls, everyone looked at him.  Well, oneday I had to go into the lockerroom to find a member.  I come around the corner and here he comes..no towel.  So, being the so called cool kat, I took a quick glimspe downstairs.  Big mistake.  Soft, he was hanging about 3/4 the way down to his knee and thick.  I regained my composure and looked up to see if he noticed.  He was looking dead at me with this...."Yeah, i got a big dick" look on his face and a smile on his lips.

Yes, hanging big soft is almost as impressive hanging big hard.  He had no esteem issues, but was definitely the source of some major penis envy.

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"Oneday I had to go into the lockerroom to find a member" - seems as though you succeeded&#33;

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You know...til you said that, it didn&#39;t dawn on me about that. Impressive...most impressive.

 

[BCH]

I think it&#39;s MUCH more important than hard size. I am 8 hard and only 3-4 soft. There are times when I am relaxed and it&#39;s warm that I hang about 5-6 soft and I feel like a total stud. I would rather, or settle, for 8 soft and hard than 3 soft and 10 hard.
See, it&#39;s a guy thing to compare (like tits on women) and we never (usually) see hard dicks. Just to make my ego better, I can grow from 3 to 8 inches, where some guys that are 6 might only grow to 7. Then we have the total lucky bastards that have the best of both worlds like a friend of mine.
My partner has an awesome soft (and hard) dick. He hangs fatter and longer soft than I do (hard he&#39;s also a little fatter too) but I outgrow him by about an inch...but he is the only one who knows that. At the gym, he looks like a MAN and I feel I look like a boy.
I&#39;ll share a story - we (our only three-way, jack off thing) meet this guy and get naked and I think my partner has a better looking dick, but the guy only gets into mine? Made me feel good
Something else, my b/f wears a leather cockring to give him an awesome bulge in his pants ( I just discovered this after 5 years as I thought it was just him, but it is him held higher) and I am sure that many other guys do this too.

 

[Kimahri]

Getting more comfortable with my size and / or lack there of. But I can safely say, there are some poor dudes that aren&#39;t average. Met a dude last night that was really small...maybe 1-2" hard and not very thick at all. then I comtemplated my own issues with mine and suddenly realized I needed to stop.

I still need to get my soft measurements. I&#39;ll ask my ex.

 

[jonb]

Maybe he had a bad circumcision. An overzealous mohel can cause the skin of the scrotum and mons veneris to become shaft skin. The resulting webbing makes intercourse painful.

 

[txquis]

I have always been envious of the "show-ers".
I am a grower, and most of my boyfriends have been as well.
My softie would not turn too many heads.
But you just can&#39;t tell what it is going to grow to.

One of my exes had a 3 inch softie that grew to 8.5.
People who saw him soft in a locker room would have
called him not hung,and he was.

You cant judge by a flaccid penis.

 

[13788]

Big load: flaccid penises are not important, I know guys who are 2-3" soft and grow to 6 or 7" when erect. I myself am only 3.75" (roughly) soft but grow to a max size of 7.25" when erect, as long as you can please your woman i dont think it matters how big your dick is

 

[Freddie53]

Originally posted by Big load@Jan 6 2005, 07:34 PM
flaccid penises are not important, I know guys who are 2-3" soft and grow to 6 or 7" when erect. I myself am only 3.75" (roughly) soft but grow to a max size of 7.25" when erect, as long as you can please your woman i dont think it matters how big your dick is

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i can&#39;t agree. Maybe in todays teen world that may be true, but not when I was growing up. The only people who saw your penis was men and other guys until you were seen by your partner on a hot date. And that was in senior hi school or later.

But in gymn classes in juninor hi the flaccid penis was there for all to see in the dressing room and the showers made fun of the growers. So it didn&#39;t matter if it was 12 inches erect, if it was the smallest flaccid one there, well.....

And that is what influences the development of personality. And even now down at the fitness center it is next to impossible not to be seen in the nude briefly when changing if you use the swimming pool and get dressed there.

It affected my circle of firends. I didn&#39;t play football to avoid being seen in the nude in the locker room because my flaccid penis wasn&#39;t large. I avoided pledging a fratnernity in college that I really wanted to pledge because I had heard stories.

So yes, flaccid length does make a diference. And some people are turned on by the bulges as well. And while the actual size of the penis may not be easily determined in most pants, most foks can tell if it is thin and less than 5 inches flaccid or 6 or seven thick penises flaccid. Hard to hide that fact.

 

[KinkGuy]

I think all men judge each other. And a quick visual measurement of the other guys penis determines, at least in our primitive mind, our physical superiority or inferiority. King of the jungle, alpha male kinda&#39; crapola? And since we rarely see another males erect penis, the judgements are made on flacid size.

 

[13788]

Big load: I agree to a point but i thikn anyone who judges a man by the size of their flaccid penis is a bit sad. I dont think it matters that much nowadays, like i said my penis when flaccid isnt that big (you wouldnt guess i&#39;m a grower) but i never had any problems at school

 

[BruceSter]

flaccid penises are not important, I know guys who are 2-3" soft and grow to 6 or 7" when erect. I myself am only 3.75" (roughly) soft but grow to a max size of 7.25" when erect, as long as you can please your woman i dont think it matters how big your dick is

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[/ no problems about pleasing her... she is a girl of size, digging big dick (not really a thoroughbred sizequeen, but almost one) and I can provide that. however, it was new to me.

I have never been a grower, my soft and hard size never were too far apart from each other. But I&#39;d say the flaccid size matters when it comes to heat her... after all, the whole bulge thing (namely a big bulge) really attracts ladies.

yours,
bruce

 

[lapdog2001]

Originally posted by txquis+Jan 6 2005, 07:30 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(txquis &#064; Jan 6 2005, 07:30 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>I have always been envious of the "show-ers".
I am a grower, and most of my boyfriends have been as well.
My softie would not turn too many heads.
But you just can&#39;t tell what it is going to grow to.

One of my exes had a 3 inch softie that grew to 8.5.
People who saw him soft in a locker room would have
called him not hung,and he was.

You cant judge by a flaccid penis.

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txquis,
Other than being envious of &#39;growers&#39; I agree 100%&#33; I used to be concerned about my flacid and erect size, but being here the last 6 months or so, I&#39;ve learned to be very happy with what I&#39;ve got and how it works&#33; I&#39;d rather not have the problems associated with being flacid-hung, and definitely wouldn&#39;t want the problems that many of the &#39;extra hung&#39; have (9" or greater to me). Would I be upset if I grew to 8" overnight? No, but I wouldn&#39;t want to go any bigger

Originally posted by Big load@Jan 6 2005, 07:34 PM
flaccid penises are not important, I know guys who are 2-3" soft and grow to 6 or 7" when erect. I myself am only 3.75" (roughly) soft but grow to a max size of 7.25" when erect, as long as you can please your woman i dont think it matters how big your dick is

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Big Load,
I agree. This is a case where you cannot judge a book by it&#39;s cover&#33;

<!--QuoteBegin-Freddie
But in gymn classes in juninor hi the flaccid penis was there for all to see in the dressing room and the showers made fun of the growers. So it didn&#39;t matter if it was 12 inches erect, if it was the smallest flaccid one there, well.....

And that is what influences the development of personality. And even now down at the fitness center it is next to impossible not to be seen in the nude briefly when changing if you use the swimming pool and get dressed there.

It affected my circle of firends. I didn&#39;t play football to avoid being seen in the nude in the locker room because my flaccid penis wasn&#39;t large. I avoided pledging a fratnernity in college that I really wanted to pledge because I had heard stories.

So yes, flaccid length does make a diference. And some people are turned on by the bulges as well. And while the actual size of the penis may not be easily determined in most pants, most foks can tell if it is thin and less than 5 inches flaccid or 6 or seven thick penises flaccid. Hard to hide that fact.[/quote]

I can see your point Freddie, and yes that schoolboy stuff can be traumatic to the victims. Personally, I think large &#39;showers&#39; are fairly rare, so in my school and Fitness center lockerooms almost all of us were the same general size. I don&#39;t remember any seeing micro or macro peni (?)

LapDog

 

[D_Harry_S_Taint]

I&#39;m glad to have a 6-6.5" soft cock, and I get many positive remarks from women (and guys ) about it. It&#39;s a turn-on for some of them, and the other ones doesn&#39;t really care about it.

 

[Knight-7x6]

Well my dick is 5" soft and can probably sneak to near 7" semi hard and appear soft to some people. Lots of people do judge on flaccid size just to assure themselves or make themselves happy. Before I came here I never knew there was such a thing as a &#39;grower&#39; or at least not to the extent seen here. I can also honestly say I&#39;ve never seen a penis that I thought was small, most seemed about the same and a few were big. Of course I havent seen all that many penises, mostly at swimming baths...

 

[Lex]

Different poeple will view this differently. I think hanging huge when soft can be erotic for some people. I really could care less, but I have gotten comments/stares in restrooms (I hang 4.5-5 x 4.5 soft) and from GFs, etc. I show and grow. I think we have all been socialized by the images of men hanging huge soft--makes us think this is what we should expect all the time, when clearly it is not. Men and cocks come in all shapes and sizes. Diversity makes the world a MUCH more interesting place.

 

[Freddie53]

Originally posted by lapdog2001+Jan 7 2005, 01:29 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(lapdog2001 &#064; Jan 7 2005, 01:29 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by txquis+Jan 6 2005, 07:30 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(txquis &#064; Jan 6 2005, 07:30 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>I have always been envious of the "show-ers".
I am a grower, and most of my boyfriends have been as well.
My softie would not turn too many heads.
But you just can&#39;t tell what it is going to grow to.

One of my exes had a 3 inch softie that grew to 8.5.
People who saw him soft in a locker room would have
called him not hung,and he was.

You cant judge by a flaccid penis.

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txquis,
Other than being envious of &#39;growers&#39; I agree 100%&#33; I used to be concerned about my flacid and erect size, but being here the last 6 months or so, I&#39;ve learned to be very happy with what I&#39;ve got and how it works&#33; I&#39;d rather not have the problems associated with being flacid-hung, and definitely wouldn&#39;t want the problems that many of the &#39;extra hung&#39; have (9" or greater to me). Would I be upset if I grew to 8" overnight? No, but I wouldn&#39;t want to go any bigger

<!--QuoteBegin-Big load@Jan 6 2005, 07:34 PM
flaccid penises are not important, I know guys who are 2-3" soft and grow to 6 or 7" when erect. I myself am only 3.75" (roughly)  soft but grow to a max size of 7.25" when erect, as long as you can please your woman i dont think it matters how big your dick is

[post=272732]Quoted post[/post]​

Big Load,
I agree. This is a case where you cannot judge a book by it&#39;s cover&#33;

<!--QuoteBegin-Freddie
But in gymn classes in juninor hi the flaccid penis was there for all to see in the dressing room and the showers made fun of the growers. So it didn&#39;t matter if it was 12 inches erect, if it was the smallest flaccid one there, well.....

And that is what influences the development of personality. And even now down at the fitness center it is next to impossible not to be seen in the nude briefly when changing if you use the swimming pool and get dressed there.

It affected my circle of firends. I didn&#39;t play football to avoid being seen in the nude in the locker room because my flaccid penis wasn&#39;t large. I avoided pledging a fratnernity in college that I really wanted to pledge because I had heard stories.

So yes, flaccid length does make a diference. And some people are turned on by the bulges as well. And while the actual size of the penis may not be easily determined in most pants, most foks can tell if it is thin and less than 5 inches flaccid or 6 or seven thick penises flaccid. Hard to hide that fact.[/quote]

I can see your point Freddie, and yes that schoolboy stuff can be traumatic to the victims. Personally, I think large &#39;showers&#39; are fairly rare, so in my school and Fitness center lockerooms almost all of us were the same general size. I don&#39;t remember any seeing micro or macro peni (?)

LapDog

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There is a reason. Most guys with micro penises go to great lengths to keep other guys from seeing them in the nude. I didn&#39;t realize how small some adult penises can be until I visited the Getting Aong with a Small Penis site. I think that is the name of it. I was surprized to see how small some penises are both soft and erect. There are guys with less than three inches erect penises. They have major emotional issues as a group.

And I thought I was small because all Isaw were the showers in high school and the playgirl magazines. And that is what is happening to our teen boys. The only peniss they see are porn stars. Many of them have never seen a penis other than their own. So over at the small penis forum the teens come and complain how small they are and will they grow some more and they are 6 or 6.5 inches long and they are concerned they are small. The media they see has them convinced that all guys are 8 inches long and if you are not then you are small.

I don&#39;t know what the answer to that is. That is another thread. But flaccid length can reallly concern young teens more than erect sizes. Later when they are sexually active then the concern changes for obvious reasons.

 

[13788]

Big load:

Originally posted by Freddie53@Jan 8 2005, 03:57 PM

There is a reason. Most guys with micro penises go to great lengths to keep other guys from seeing them in the nude. I didn&#39;t realize how small some adult penises can be until I visited the Getting Aong with a Small Penis site. I think that is the name of it. I was surprized to see how small some penises are both soft and erect. There are guys with less than three inches erect penises. They have major emotional issues as a group.

And I thought I was small because all Isaw were the showers in high school and the playgirl magazines. And that is what is happening to our teen boys. The only peniss they see are porn stars. Many of them have never seen a penis other than their own. So over at the small penis forum the teens come and complain how small they are and will they grow some more and they are 6 or 6.5 inches long and they are concerned they are small. The media they see has them convinced that all guys are 8 inches long and if you are not then you are small.

I don&#39;t know what the answer to that is. That is another thread. But flaccid length can reallly concern young teens more than erect sizes. Later when they are sexually active then the concern changes for obvious reasons.

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i think that site&#39;s called "getting through life with a small penis" i visited it a few times because I was curious as to how people with less than average penis&#39; coped with it in a world where it seems if you arent 8+ then there&#39;s something wrong with you. I honestly dont see the problem with having a small dick, its only like a woman with small tits, if you love them enough something stupid like that shouldnt bother you. Sure if you&#39;re just after sex then go for whatever you like but you cant help who you fall in love with.

 

[madame_zora]

Maybe I&#39;m a weirdo, but I really don&#39;t like flaccid penises of any size very much. I mean, I like them fine, but I know very well that they&#39;re no indication of erect size. In the vast majority of cases, erect penises don&#39;t vary that greatly in size. Sure, here on lpsg they do, but amoung nearly 85 to 90% of men, they are going to be betweem 5 to 6.5" and that&#39;s just the facts. I find a hard dick far more arousing because it looks ready for action&#33; To me a flaccid penis looks disinterested.