Does "soft" swinging exist, or is it just a euphemism for 'swinging' in an effort to take away the guilt?
I think that soft swinging basically means playing about with others but only fucking your other half -- no partner swapping. Lots of watching and touching but strictly no intercourse between people who aren't a couple.
Just goes to prove how uneducated in these matters I am. I would have said that "soft swinging" was describing a pendulous, flaccid cock swinging between a pair of beefy, hairy thighs.......durrrrrr
swinging is a horrible word.
all i get is a mental image of tubby middle aged office workers with their house wives in tow on vacation from ohio mixing and mingling with past expiration date trophy wives pimped out by cuckold'd sugar daddies.
or the club scene - women with plastic tits, botox and facelift scars. men with hip and hair replacements holding off the midlife crisis for another year. and why are they always so tanned?
ml
sos maybe thats a lil mean to say. but ever so true too often. if you're under 25 and female you need a security escort.
Well, this was fairly inconclusive.
So, soft swinging is either:
1. Mild, part-time swinging
2. Two couples playing with their own partners
3. Stricltly oral sex
soft swinging would be a couple into the scene attending parties, mixers, clubs or functions while remaining sexually exclusive to each other. they might want to engage in sexual activity with other couples in the room.
soft swingers = one part experimental dabblers and one part voyeuristic enthusiast? they'll engage outside play partners to a point. up to or maybe including oral as the limit. girl on girl seems to the gray area on where ya draw the line.
like every kink how ya define ya interest or participation is up to personal limits. ask for clarification before getting involved seems a good way to go. s'all about negotiation.
ml