I was wondering what a few of you think about this: Me and my ex had dated for more than three years. It was a beautiful relationship; no fighting, cheating, etc. We got along great and everyone in the world thought we were perfect for each other. However, She was a virgin before we met and was worried about missing out on things (classic story). We broke up back in February with no hard feelings. We still love each other and have slept with and hooked up with each other since. She is coming back to town in a few weeks and has made it obvious she wants us to spend time together. But, when i bring up the possibility of us dating again she seems to become nervous about it; not necessarily negative about it just incredibly nervous. She is the first one to admit that us hanging out will lead to us hooking up and possibly dating but still wants to wants to spend time together. Women are so hard to get a read from. Is she using me for physical and/or emotional gratification? or are her feelings genuine and she is just scared of us being together for a really long time? (we are relatively young 23 and 22). She just really has a hard time communicating with me about these things. PS-she has hooked up/slept with guys after our breakup. but has always continued to come back to me. however, things havent been right for us to get back together because of mileage distances until a few weeks from now when she moves back here. We had merely hooked up on her visits to the city.