Ok, so im bi, but i haven't really come out as anything other then straight to my friends... Although I have been told by some of my friends that at one point or another, they thought i was gay... So basically, even though i haven't ever admited to being attracted to other guys, some people have picked up on it. So here's my situation. I met a friend of mine about a year or so ago. And yes, I totally have the hots for him. We hang out a couple times a week and everytime, I sense sexual tension between us, but of course I don't know if it's just me, or if its actually real. He has staighted he's totally straight, and loves the poon, but sometimes I wonder... For instance, when we go to the movies, we don't have the typical "gay chair" between us... (For those who don't know, most men won't sit right next to eachother at the movies, they always leave an open seat between...) And when we have gone to the movies, we sit right next to eachother, and during the movies I have noticed that we actually lean against eachother, like a weight against weight pressure lean. (comfortable thing??? or contact thing???) If we are watching TV, and sitting on the same couch, there has been many times where we are touching eachother, his feet against my leg, or my shoulder against his, and so forth, basically we have LOTS of "random" bodily contact yet it's slight enough where im confused on if it's just that, contact, or if it's a possible sign of more... We constantly joke about penis size, masturbation, sex, and all the typical "guy" stuff, but I often wonder if he's hinting and hoping I pick up on it... Lately, I know I have been hinting more and more about maybe doing stuff together, but I don't know if he's just dumb and not picking up on it, or if he is and is just ignoring it. SO long story short, here's my question... I want to see if this is something more, but I am to chicken to actually come out and say "Hey, I want you..." or ask him more specifically.... I would rather have him as a friend then freak him out accidentaly and loose him totally... What's some advice, subliminal hints, obvious hints without going overboard, or whatever that you guys and girls might think would help me figure this out????