Hey i'm a female, I have been using anal plugs for a week, but I have not made any progress. it still hurts like hell. I don't seem to be making any real progress. I can get it in, I use lots of lube, but I seem to be getting no where. I look at a lot of forums on here. the anal plug is 3 inches around, and 4 inches long I can get it in with no problem. but when it comes to stroking it, it hurts really bad there's absolutely no pleasure. my boyfriend is out of town for about 3 more weeks and he's been wanting to do anal and I wanted to surprise him with anal. we've measured his penis and it is 7 inches and 6 1/2 inches around (Midshaft) the tip is 6 inches. I just really haven't made any progress with the plug and since his dick is much bigger than the plug. I haven't been rushing or anything I know it takes time. I have been massaging my ass so the muscles will relax. I just want to know what else is there to do to help get my ass ready for anal. Thanks in advance!