This is a semi rant, so feel free to move on to more important things if you don't wanna read it. Let me paint you a picture: A guy drops his keys in the parking lot of a gay bar. I see them and go inside to give them to their owner. I find him with a group of guys, tap him on the shoulder and say "Excuse me". The guy turns around, gives me a once over and says "I don't think so!". He laughs. I walk away, join my friends and have a good time. As I'm leaving, I see the guy in the parking lot frantic, because he doesn't have his keys. I walk up, tell him I've got his keys and that's why I spoke to him earlier. He grabs them, doesn't say "Thank you" or anything and just goes. So, I go to a 24 hour laundromat last night and who is there, but the same gym queen. Of course, he doesn't remember me and I just go about doing my laundry. He raps on my window and bums a smoke, then proceeds to try to get me to go in the bathroom and "have some fun". It's a cool night. He's really red and really sweaty. Meth anyone? I say (exactly) "I have a boyfriend. We're monogamous. Sorry." (I do and we are) He says (exactly) "Nobody is monogamous in Fort Lauderdale. You probably just have a little limp dick". So, bolstered by 7-11 coffee and being already upset at having to have to be at a laundromat at the buttcrack of dawn, I tell him about the night at the bar. Then I tell him exactly what I think about him and his "I'm too hot for you", his overplucked eybrows and his piss poor attitude. He was...upset. He said some pretty nasty things. I try to believe there is some good in everyone. That people can change and grow. That just because you meet someone and they are rude, nasty or whatever...they might just being having a bad day, a tough time or be dealing with some hidden pain. I now believe that some assholes will ALWAYS be assholes.