I know the kind of thing, but not sure I can help.
There's at least one website that does this stuff for men - try a Google search ?
Some of the proper women's stuff might "fit" well enough, but some won't. I think you'd possibly have to try two or three options to find out ...
I myself have thought about black fishnet stockings, one of those suspender belt things, and tight lacy underwear. But that mood comes across me very rarely, and I've not actually taken the plunge ... sorry :smile: