Some Plainly Stated Truths, Like Them or Not

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It's not as if confident guys are more likely to be hung or something (there's an interesting study waiting to happen).

A VERY good study. You see so many guys out on a friday or saturday night that are VERY confident or VERY arrogant and they can't all have big cocks otherwise the size stats would be way off. Furthermore don't tell me every friend of mine that is good with the ladies has a big cock. Not on your nelly!
 

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A few items I take issue with. Beginning with No. 6, yes, I am bashful in a locker room or being nude with strangers or friends for the exact opposite reason you list. It gives me no thrill to be gawked at or commented upon. I was tormented in high school by jocks who made me feel very inferior for being a freak.

No. 7 follows that train of thought. I'm not exceptionally proud of something I had very little to do with, and it's never increased my salary or social standing, and I've never used it as bait to mate.

I'll concur somewhat with No. 8 in that my physician suggested I might be interested in Viagra at some point because in "men your size" sometimes a little help is needed.

I've got to think about No. 9, not for myself, but for how others might react. I get no thrill from seeing another man's penis and I'm not into porn. But I've had requests in the past from men I assumed to be straight who wanted to see or touch it. It sure made me feel better about myself and helped me get over the high school "freak" mode.

As regards No. 10, despite the earnest wishes of my wife I wear dark baggy slacks, too lose swim trunks or long shirttails to take attention away. Sometimes I may become a little too relax, and that's sure to elicit a wolf whistle from Wifey, and I embarrassingly cover it up.

Yeah, I'm probably a head case when it comes to my penis, but I don't let it own me anymore.
 

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I liked the first 5, then it got kind of weird.

I don't like being naked with other guys because I'm scrawny and pale, and because I'm an only child and never had to shower in gym class so I never ever did in my life. Really has nothing to do with my dick. And I certainly don't want to get naked with my dad, and I don't think that's "irrational".. that part of the post was just odd.
 

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2. Penis size does matter to most people, and the bigger, the better. Generally, well hung men more easily attract and satisfy sexual partners. Although passion of feeling varies, most people view small dicks with regret, disdain, or pity.

As a good-looking, well-built guy with a small dick, I agree with most of what's been said, except for the assertion that well hung guys more easily attract sexual partners. Except for nude beaches, naked pool parties, hot tubs, and other situations where the clothes come off, I have no trouble picking up chicks. In fact, if there was an Olympic competition for that, I'd probably medal gold.

However, I'd have to agree that well-hung men normally have the advantage in the sack.
 
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A good summation, I feel, although the average penis length is overstated. Average is about 4 to 6 inches, and 7 inches is above-average. I disagree with the comments on Asian and African, as the size studies I have seen do show a consistent difference in size, particularly in girth. Differences in length are less substantial, but difference in girth is notable. As we all know, women are more interested in girth than length.
 

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As a good-looking, well-built guy with a small dick, I agree with most of what's been said, except for the assertion that well hung guys more easily attract sexual partners.

Couldn't agree more. Here's the thing though, a guy with a smaller package has a more difficult time getting "repeat customers." That is, I'm scrawny and pale and short, so I have some trouble attracting (attractive) women. But once we've done the nasty, they usually stick around, thanks in part to my package (and maybe even how I use it).

Whereas if you're built and hot, the women will flock to get your clothes off, but once they find out that there ain't a whole down there, it's probably more difficult to get them to stay.

This is total speculation on my part. Women are complex creatures. But it's plausible.
 
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Couldn't agree more. Here's the thing though, a guy with a smaller package has a more difficult time getting "repeat customers." That is, I'm scrawny and pale and short, so I have some trouble attracting (attractive) women. But once we've done the nasty, they usually stick around, thanks in part to my package (and maybe even how I use it).

Whereas if you're built and hot, the women will flock to get your clothes off, but once they find out that there ain't a whole down there, it's probably more difficult to get them to stay.

This is total speculation on my part. Women are complex creatures. But it's plausible.

My experience of women is a couple of decades longer than yours, and I have observed a similar trend, but given feminine complexity I dpn't think it's quite so black-and-white. I too am short and slim and didn't easily attract women, but like many smaller and slimmer men I am quite well endowed.

Many men find their relationships becoming less sexual over time, but this has never happened to me. My marriage is heading towards 23 years, and we are as sexual today as when we first met, which is not what a lot of men I know have experienced. I don't think it's a concious thing on the part of my wife or on the part of my previous girlfriends, but I feel that if sex feels good, or better than they have experienced before, then they keep returning for more.

Maybe size matters for men in terms of how good our sex lives will be throughout our lives.
 

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. . .A guy with a smaller package has a more difficult time getting "repeat customers" . . . If you're built and hot, the women will flock to get your clothes off, but once they find out that there ain't a whole down there, it's probably more difficult to get them to stay.

True. I conceded in my previous post that "well hung men normally have the advantage in the sack." However, although I may not be the greatest lay in the world, I was never in want of "repeat" dates, girl friends or serious relationships. I have been happily married for three-and-a-half years.

Why? I don't know. But I suspect it has to do with the following:

1) Although cock size is very important to some women, it isn't the critical factor for all. Plus, if necessary, there are other ways to please a woman.

2) Sex may be an Olympic event on a one-night stand, but once a basic level of sexual satisfaction has been reached, I think "repeat" engagements are based as much on the other things that make up a man, such as personality, chemistry, compatibility, etc.

But, as Bonky pointed out, this is speculative. Frankly, I have never understood women at all.
 

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My experience of women is a couple of decades longer than yours, ..... My marriage is heading towards 23 years,

Correction: your experience with A WOMAN is a couple of decades longer than mine ;)