some say gay=unnatural

[Smaccoms]

if sex in humans was purely for procreation and not bonding, why can't men smell when women are fertile and only desire sex with them then?
and why do women accept sex when they're not fertile?

sex doesnt infact promote bonding, have sex with someone you don't like over and over again, and you'll feel some sense of connection despite your hatred for them. Trust me, I've experienced the phenomenon first hand (ugh). Friends with benefits? I like to sex with normal friends, but they're still just my friend. Sexuality is such an interesting subject...

 

[Kybele]

if sex in humans was purely for procreation and not bonding, why can't men smell when women are fertile and only desire sex with them then?
and why do women accept sex when they're not fertile?

Ummmm there have been several studies that show that when a woman is ovulating men are more attracted to them and women are more likely to have sex...

 

[dolfette]

Ummmm there have been several studies that show that when a woman is ovulating men are more attracted to them and women are more likely to have sex...

more but not exclusively, you dippy moo.
we waste energy, shagging when we're not fertile.

a bitch is only horny on heat.
a woman can get horny any time.

 

[Kybele]

more but not exclusively, you dippy moo.
we waste energy, shagging when we're not fertile.

a bitch is only horny on heat.
a woman can get horny any time.

but we are hornier when we are ovulating

 

[dolfette]

but we are hornier when we are ovulating

and menstruating.
and pregnant.

in fact most women i talk to {who aren't freaks like me} say that preggers is the horniest time ever.
the only explanation is stregthening the bond.

 

[dreamer20]

Ummmm there have been several studies that show that when a woman is ovulating men are more attracted to them

Ummmm. Please post a link to such a study in the thread below:

http://www.lpsg.org/81232-menstruation-and-libido.html

 

[Kybele]

and menstruating.
and pregnant.

in fact most women i talk to {who aren't freaks like me} say that preggers is the horniest time ever.
the only explanation is stregthening the bond.

well I agree sex is partly about strengthening bonds, but I was responding to your assertion that men don't know when a woman is ovulating

 

[dolfette]

well I agree sex is partly about strengthening bonds, but I was responding to your assertion that men don't know when a woman is ovulating

they don't know. consciously.
and they want sex all the time.
there's just a little more draw towards the fertile ones...which makes sense.

 

[Kybele]

Ummmm. Please post a link to such a study in the thread below:

http://www.lpsg.org/81232-menstruation-and-libido.html

give me a bit I'm perving on YIM at the moment and I'll have to search for it again...:tongue:

 

[Kybele]

they don't know. consciously.
and they want sex all the time.
there's just a little more draw towards the fertile ones...which makes sense.

they are men, dummy. of course they don't do it consciously. they never do anything consciously when it comes to sex

 

[dolfette]

they are men, dummy. of course they don't do it consciously. they never do anything consciously when it comes to sex

or they wouldn't pull those faces!

 

[Kybele]

or they wouldn't pull those faces!

do you suggest they do a zoolander face?:biggrin1:

 

[Colorado8]

For a different perspective on dolfette's original question, it's generally accepted in contemporary psychology that humans are naturally bisexual.

 

[433784]

For a different perspective on dolfette's original question, it's generally accepted in contemporary psychology that humans are naturally bisexual.

Choose a side, mofo!

 

[mitchymo]

Homosexuality is unnatural insofar as it does not lead to new life.

Ok...i think you're progressing...you've gone from homosexuality is un-natural to attaching an addage to the sentence, certainly less offensive,
but it must be said that the new statement is a pointless one as you can omit the 'un' part of unnatural and therfore be promoting evryone elses view that it IS natural....AND BESIDES....you are not listening, read my last posts prior to this....homosexuality is perhaps irregular, is uncompatible to reproduction relating ONLY to gay sex (we can still make babies) but it is NOT un-natural.

Your comment is basically equivalant to me saying rocks are unnatural insomuch as they are not born, reproduce and die.
Rock is natural, its purpose is not a life-form...i'm really trying to hammer home to you that natural things are not connected to reproduction yet you continue to link anything that lives to that end simply because thats how living things exist....its a pre-requisite for life but not necessary for nature.

i.e Life is to living as natural is to nature
stop confusing the two as reproduction relates to the former more than the latter

 

[mitchymo]

For a different perspective on dolfette's original question, it's generally accepted in contemporary psychology that humans are naturally bisexual.

This is my future vision..a total bisexual humanity.....in the year 4509 maybe but still.....i have often felt that bisexuality is the perfect way to be and sometimes wished i was too but the important thing is it is right for now so i'm very very happy!

 

[B_1youngboy]

Done posting because my post are being reported and i'm being warned.

 

[Kybele]

For a different perspective on dolfette's original question, it's generally accepted in contemporary psychology that humans are naturally bisexual.

does that mean being gay is therefore unnatural?

 

[B_VinylBoy]

Vinyl, I'd like you to come over right this minute. We can spend the whole day attempting to reproduce. Naturally.

Talk about an offer you can't refuse!! :biggrin1:
But who would be the godparents?

 

[Colorado8]

I think it means that if it feels good, we human animals do it. The gay/straight divide is a product of social restraints, like religion and macho culture. I'm sure that there's a continuum of same sex/opposite sex attraction. Nature wants variation. She/he never knows what will work best. In an overpopulated world, gay works better and better.