Some tips for a (tight) beginner

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Hey i havent been with a guy of size yet, bt im really looking forward to it! any tips on postions to start with if ur very tight? i dont want to get hurt.
 

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Well what do you mean guy of size? (8+, 9+ inches?)... Just make sure you're really turned on, lots of foreplay and use lube if it still feels uncomfortable
 

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yeah i mean 9 ive been on a few dates with a guy and he is big ive done oral and stuff but i havent hd sex since my ex, and that was 2 months ago and he was about 6 and hes the only guy ive been with lol
 

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I would suggest to start in the missionary position for intercourse. But, make sure you are relaxed to begin with, horny (duh), and wet. Otherwise you will need lube. My last partner was very tight, or I guess normal for a 21 year old, but regardless, I made sure to give her plenty of oral first, and then what I typically do is to use my cock's head to stimulate the clit. So after about 10-20 minutes of pussy licking and toung slirping, I take my cock, rub it gently around the vagina entry, especially against the clit, by that point my parnter was shaking and begging for it. Still, I gently entered one inch at a time, in a smooth in and out motion until my whole cock was inside her. Usually, if you are horny and turned on, at that point you will be lost in absolute bliss. Now I'm not 9 inches like your potential partner, but I am over 8 inches and pretty thich at about 6 inches around, so you should be fine, have fun!:wink:
 

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coming from personal experience, i think you should start out on top, that way you have more control over how much you can take at first and he's not just layin on top of you pounding the shit out of you when you're not ready
 

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coming from personal experience, i think you should start out on top, that way you have more control over how much you can take at first and he's not just layin on top of you pounding the shit out of you when you're not ready

Good point. If you start the way I did, that would be assuming your partner is willing to listen and communicate. Personally, I have found it difficult for women to start on top with me because of my thickness, but I think as long as you pregame right like I said, then starting on top is not a bad idea:smile:
 

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Hey i havent been with a guy of size yet, bt im really looking forward to it! any tips on postions to start with if ur very tight? i dont want to get hurt.

The best thing that I can tell you is to RELAX!!!! If you are relaxed, your vagina will put up WAY less resistance to his penis which will feel REALLY good for you. Get plenty of foreplay and make sure that there is some passion happening. You will need to be plenty lubricated, but I find that getting a woman close to orgasm through oral sex gets her ready for easy penetration. Being highly aroused makes the vagina expand and kind of shift, providing a much larger cavity for his penis, if he makes you horny and gives you good foreplay, this will take care of itself.

Make sure that you try missionary (if he's gentle) and you on top. I find that doggie style kind of scrunches up the vagina if you don't arch your back properly... plus you can't see anything goin' on, which you might need to your first few times with a large penis. Good Luck.
 

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A good way to stretch out prior to penetration is to have him push two fingers in you and you tighten up your PC muscle and have him push against it and then relax, his fingers will begin to have a looser fit. Do this for a few minutes and i promise fitting him in the first few times wont be as bad.
 

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OH MY GOD... I just checked out your gallery JadeAnna... YOU.. ARE... INCREDIBLE...
 

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Jadeanna,
I suggest you take hold (and control) and not let it deeper than you want.
The guy will understand and enjoy that too.
I make sure my partner is well exited (no need for lube) before making an entrance - and I'm checking all the way of course. One false move or a sudden jab at the wrong angle is painful and sets you and her back 10mins or its even game over!
One trouble I have is that if I make her come first and then enter, she is tighter but wetter so i just go in slow and let her guide me. Then it fun fun fun!
 

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I hate it when someone wastes my time answering questions. Do they get off on people trying to sincerely help them?

Go find another hobby. I havent time for people like this. There has been an influx of male registrants under the guise of pornstar looking members. It's a crock.
 

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im not amy18 u can look that bitch up, that isnt me, and im 20 bi cuz me and my hunnie have threesome, and im all female, cunt
 

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Start out doggystyle, and make it absolutely clear to him that he should only try to get the head in, and nothing more. This WILL hurt, because you don't know how to relax yet, and he's bigger than most guys. Before you even think of getting fucked for real, start fingering yourself, run hot water on your butt in the shower, etc etc to loosen and condition yourself..

It'll take about 3 tries in order for him to comfortably get in you. You'll be able to take about 3-4" of it before you can take the whole thing. And remember: if it hurts, stop because you're doing it wrong.
 

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im not amy18 u can look that bitch up, that isnt me, and im 20 bi cuz me and my hunnie have threesome, and im all female, cunt

Yeah lol, pull the other one, it's got bells on it. Go troll another board, retard. You're no female, you're just a guy looking for attention and wasting people's time here. Looks like you've just created a 3rd account as musicchick18. Funny how every topic is basically the same. Let's examine the wonderful grammar and spelling, heh. :biggrin1: :rolleyes:

Hi

My first thread on here, i am curious to know if you guys get annoyed when u r wiv a girl and its just 2 big!!! Seeing the size of some on here i would be on edge if i came across 1 like ive seen on here. My point is that i like a good shag!!!!!, by that i mean really going 4 it, (headboard banging etc) but surely some of u guys cant do that cus of your size. I have had 2 tell a guy 2 take it easy wiv me, and that he couldnt fully insert it all, which i dont think he was 2 pleased. Is this a downside 2 being big??? Does this annoy u????

On the other hand i just want 2 say that it really turns me on seeing pics of big ones, and if i had 2 choose between small and big it would def be big

AMY xxx

Hey i havent been with a guy of size yet, bt im really looking forward to it! any tips on postions to start with if ur very tight? i dont want to get hurt.


i have a problem fitting most guys dicks in me cause im to tight. i dont know what to do
 

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Hey i havent been with a guy of size yet, bt im really looking forward to it! any tips on postions to start with if ur very tight? i dont want to get hurt.

From my own experience, the best position for your first time (assuming you want to be able to relax as much as possible) is to be flat on your stomach. Being on your back with your legs in the air may make you too worried about farting or whatever to be able to truly relax and let your guy in.

And use LOTS of lube. Better to use too much the first time than not enough. In time, you'll figure out how much you really need.