Honey, for a gay man the place for you is Midtown... its the upscale queer section of town.
Bars in the area...
Blakes (the pretty boys bar)
Burkharts' (the average guy bar)
Bulldogs (lots of mixed couples)
Eagle (leather bar and loads of bears)
Heretic (dancing and a "back room")
Restaurants:
Cowtippers (steaks)
Einsteins (American fare)
Joe's (wings and pub food -great patio)
Gilbert's (3 doors down from Blakes)
I hope this short list helps! Have fun in town!