Some truth from a new member

Discussion in 'New Member Introductions' started by Imported, Sep 6, 2004.

  1. Imported

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    lobotomy: I am a new member to this board and after reading alot of the posts, I just had to speak my mind.

    First of all, I am a 39 year old married (16 yrs) hetero male with a penis size of: 7 3/4 inches long and 6.5 inches wide at the base and 5.5 inches wide just before the glans begins.

    I have had sex with about 8 women. Every woman I had sex with said that I had the largest penis they had ever been with. This shocked me evertime because I just felt like my penis was very average if not small.

    I wanted to list the advantages and disadvantages of having my penis.

    Disadvantages: 1. My girlfriend in college for 2 years always had pain when having sex because of my length hitting her cervix. We parted ways, she ended up with her old boyfriend who had smaller penis, but she admitted to me when we dated that HIS penis did not hurt her. Did my penis have something to do with her leaving, probably. It was for the best, however.
    2. My wife loves my penis because of the girth at the base and the length, however, it hurts her everytime we have sex. In our yonger years, she always bled after sex because I was hitting her cervix. She had to get a hysterictomy several years ago after three kids. She feels that part of the reason for the surgery was because of my penis constantly hitting her cervix. Her gynocologist asked her if I had a large penis because of the bruising inside of her and because of the state of her cervix.

    Advantages: 1. Ego. Nothing more.

    What am I trying to say? You don't need a huge f*cking King Kong Dick to make your woman happy. If you have dick around 6 inches, be thankful that you can have sex in any position with anyone and not hurt them. A woman will love you for who you are and not your dick size. If you want a dick that is bigger than what you have, you are doing for your own ego and nothing else.

    Even though I am plenty big and have caused lots of pain to women because of it, I have gone through times of heavy penis enlargement exercises. I have jelqed, hung weights from my dick, pumped, you name it. Why? EGO and nothing else. We also need to quit listening to pumped up and inflated measurements that some people claim. If my dick was 10 inches long and 8 inches thick, my wife and I would have a crappy sex life, because it would hurt her like hell and I could never get it in all the way.

    Please, take my advice if you feel inadequate about your penis size, quit reading forum like these unless you can handle listening to guys brag about the size of their dick. Often, they are just not telling the truth.

    I don't want anyone to think that I am preaching, I just wanted to maybe help some people that are going down the roads that I have already gone down. I have spent many, many of hours jelqing, hanging (up to 40 lbs at one time), and pumping. I am bipolar and have done lot's of crazy stuff. I have a prince albert piercing with a 6 gauge CBR and about 1/2 of my body is tattoed.

    I guess I'm nut's but I have been around long enough to see how reckless decisions can effect your life and the life of others that live with you. Ego can be your worst enemy. If you dick is average then consider yourself lucky that it is not tiny or gigantic and move on with your life. Love you wife and kids and yourself, the way you are. If you want to do something to improve yourself, go work out.

    See ya, Dan
     
  2. GottaBigOne

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    my cock is about an inch bigger than yours (not saying this for bragging purposes) but about a half inch skinnier and I can definately see what you mean by the disadvantages. Having a big cock is not all its cracked up to be, and I for one do get annoyed by those that say they have 14" inches and that its great. Thats how You can tell that they're fake, anyone with a 14" penis would not like having it, unless they were living in denial and lying to themselves. But those that have a large penis know that it isnt always good times, and that it does complicate sex sometimes, but not always. For example with my gf it really hurts her if we do it any other position than missionary and cowgirl, i just go too deep in those other positions. we do have great sex other wise but I can see how she would maybe ebjoy it with other men smaller than I, but not just because they are smaller, only because she might feel more comfortable and not be afraid that it might hurt. There is another girl that I'm having sex with (My gf and I have an open relationship) who has no problem taking my entire penis inside her in any position. She says it hurts a little, but that it also feels really good and that no other guy can make her feel the way I do because of my size. I can't fuck her deep for too long though as the sensation gets to be too much for her, and she just cant take it. I guess its the intense pleasure along with the intense pain thats gets to her. So having a penis is also and advantage other than for the ego, you just have to find the right girl.
    other girls have had problems with my size, but you can learn to work around length, girth can be a problem, though for those that are really tight.
     
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    You guys spoke very plainly and very honestly. I have always said size is really a matter of ego and i am glad to hear others finally state the same thing.
     
  4. BobLeeSwagger

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    It seems to me that if sex hurts her every time, then you should change what you're doing, whether that means not going in as deep, slower thrusts, more foreplay, whatever. If you actually injured her because of it, I'm puzzled as to why she would allow you to keep doing it.
     
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    Hung, size over a certain point is definately a matter of ego, over 7" you really dont need in order to satisfy your average woman. those that want 10"+ want it because of competition with other males, not in order to satisfy women, or even male partners.
     
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    My first wife complained of the same pain. We found that with her on top she controlled my depth of penetration. I'm alittle over 9 inches in length and alittle over 6 around at the base. I made her bleed too at first. My favorite position of "doggie style" was way too much for her. So our love making was very limited. She suffered a ruptured fellopian tube which she blamed on me and thus became my ex. I invested in some donuts which help but limit my enjoyment. My second wife turned Lesbo so I'm in-between wives right now. Some women can't get enough and some scream in pain. Go figure!
     
  7. Imported

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    lobotomy: aloofman,

    To answer your question about why my wife would continue to have sex if it hurt. She says that when we are having sex it is a 'good hurt'. She is always sore after, sometimes more than others. but she says that it is worth it. The long term effects caused cervix problems. I guess she feels the satisfaction of sex is worth the pain. Since her hysterectomy, she does not have that same kind of pain because her cervix is gone.

    The other thing is, that it feels so darn good to have your dick all the way inside and your pubic bone pressing against theirs, that I would often take it to the hilt when she probably wasn't ready or in the right position. I feel sorry for guys that can't put in all the way and grind it, there is nothing better!
     
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    Thank you gentlemen,

    This is what LPSG is all about! You have really laid it out there for a number of our members who have great feelings of inadequacy that they really should not be allowing to rule their lives.I mentioned many of the men on this site who are here because they are trying to cope with the double sided blessing of having a cup that truly runneth over. I think too many men literally make their penis the total expression of their maleness. Yes it is the distinguishing characteristic but it is just one of a number of things that make a man a man. IWas shot down on another thread when I mentioned that there was a difference between the aesthetic and the functional. We are all attracted to anything that is outside the norm in size. We have from time in memorium seen over sized genitalia depicted for fertility rites. But in reality, one wishes for such a intimate act involving these parts to be pleasurable. I hope that all of the men of LPSG will read this thread and reflect upon their reasons for wanting to enlarge their organ or the constant need to compare and prevaricate about their size. Size does matter, but sometimes not in the way you think!

    Naughty
     
  9. philberttrw

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    Naughty, you rock. Lobotomy, you seem like an awesome guy. FINALLY, I see this forum used for it's true purpose!

    :D
     
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    Workin' up a good pot of mad!
    Well thank you Philbert TRW!

    I try my best to keep it real here on LPSG!


    Naughty
     
  11. BobLeeSwagger

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    OK. Gotta specify when you mean 'good hurt'!
     
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    I've noticed that this seems to be an ongoing subject and I don't know why. It's tiring to see and hear that so many people want to say that they are well endowed but cannot blend their story/explanation of why they are here with any sort of accuracy. Nor can they back up their measurements with unedited photos that haven't been pirated from a porn site. I've also noticed that when someone comes on this board and starts spreading bullshit, everyone flocks to it to identify it and attack the guy. These bullshitters need to be ignored and eventually they'll go away. Those of us who are here for a legitimate reason are basically preaching to the choir. I've said that I'd like to have a little more than 4" hanging around when I'm soft, but as Lobotomy said, it's all about the ego. For most guys who have to brag about what they have or want, (13"+) leave them alone and don't give them the attention that they want. There are other places for them to go for the lies. The largest cock in history, documented, to my knowledge was 12". If you're bigger than that, proud of it, and really need the attention, go to the Guiness Book of Records. Have it measured, pictured and published! This site IMHO is for people who have difficulties because of legitimate reasons or have an obsession with true size. Unlike most things in the world where, if it weren't one man's possession, it wouldn't be another man's dream, this is not the case at LPSG.
    Anyway, Lobotomy, you and I have a lot in common except for the jewelry and tats. Welcome.
    Aloofman, a good hurt is one that is on the borderline between pleasure and pain.
    Just enough for her to say/think, "Holy Sh!t, or Oh My God!" and still feel extremely good. Maybe some of the women here can expound on that.
     
  13. hungthick

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    This is what every man wants his partner to experience. :) :)
     
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    This is what every man wants his partner to experience. :) :) [/b][/quote]
    Lordy, hungthick, I think I wanna experience YOU! I gotta put my pic up on here... Maybe it'll attract some of you HOT top men.
     
  15. BobLeeSwagger

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    Incognito, I know what he means by it. I just wanted some clarification because in his first post he left out the "good" part.
     
  16. Mr.Stout

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    I felt like I should leave a comment on this topic. I am 10 x 8 as mentioned in the first post. I have however NEVER have reported ANYTHING good about it. My wife and I have never had sex with anyone else before we were married and until I poated my pics no one else had ever seen mine. I can here for support! I am a teacher in HS, I teach Science this is a big problem for me! Yes my enis is big, its is disproportioned but so is the rest of my body it is how I was put together. Even though we have been married 6 yrs I have only had intercourse 5 times! We try and have fun and do! But come on 5 times in 6 yrs! there is nothing great about that or having to where restricting straps all day long just to conceal the 8 x 6 soft penis that juts out from my horrific body. Yes, I have issues and its not just about having a big DICK either. Just look at my previous post when my user name was lomejorhombre.
    That is why I came here! B)
     
  17. MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK

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    You'll have to forgive my wise-ass attitude for this one, but you put it to the question, so here it is.

    Yous say your dick is in the 7" range right? And you've experienced some women who've exerienced pain to the point of bleeding after intercourse? Either you must've dated midgets, or you are plain doing something very wrong. 7 inches and it hurts them? Try to imagine stuffing in 10.5x7.5 in with someone who isn't prepared, and see how they gasp at the sight of it first, then yelp in the middle of sex.

    I'm never one to really slam anybody here doesn't deserve it, and I know you don't, but seem to me that 7" sounds average, at least for this group.
     
  18. pmpn8ez

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    Chuck, maybe you should get out more. There ARE women out there that arent built to accommodate large or even average sizes. Is it that difiicult to believe considering that penis size can vary so wildly from man to man, that vagina depth can also vary. Im small for this group, 7 x 6, and have experienced women that I have to be careful with. Maybe in this case, hes only been with women with average to small vaginas. [they are out there]
     
  19. TaMarquis

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    I've been reading the various posts in this thread, and the majority of the posts made some very good points, but in the end, that one issue that plagues Message Boards such as this came up once again: Lying about your penis size. I've been on this site since early last year, and the general consensus I've been getting is that those people who "brag," as some of you say, about having penises over the 10 inch mark, are all liars who never post their pics. I'm sorry, but I just don't see the full spectrum here of everyone who doesn't have unedited or unaltered pics of their dicks being some sick, demented liar looking for attention and compliments. I've posted my size on here when a thread has prompted it, nothing more. I feel there is nothing to brag about, to be honest. I have a large penis, and that's that. I highly doubt it will matter much in anything other than sexual matters (And Internet Message Boards congested with bullshit assumptions and generalizations) and something as petty as "Competition between Men." Yes, I've never posted a picture of my penis, but that is only because 1) I don't have a scanner (That's probably what you were expecting me to say, but guess what? For once, it's actually the truth. 2) I have no reason to lie to anyone on here, on and/or offline, about how big my penis is ( :eek: Shocking! I know). And 3) Taking pictures of my dick to try to appease complete strangers is suprisingly not at the top of my "Internet To-Do" List, believe it or not.

    So, what I'm basically getting at here is--Not everyone on here who has a dick over the 10 inch mark (Or any above-average size, for that matter) and doesn't post pics of it just to get some kind of satisfaction from the many skeptics on here isn't lying, well, on their dicks. Take what I said as you want, as I have done the same with others...
     
  20. hungthick

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    I am irritated by you TaMarquis you come off immature and a posting fraud.

    One doens't need a scanner to post a nude pic so your excuse is T - I - R - E - D !

    OMFG -- I don't care if anyone and everyone is a fake, but it is not unreasonable for a dude wanting to see pics of the larger endowment on a LARGE PENIS site. I don't care if you are str8, bi, gay or female you want to see the larger endowments. Be true to yourself.

    Come on people this talk goes in circles here. Post a pic or don't post a pic but if you aren't going to post a pic shut up about your fucking 10-12 inch cocks. YOU KNOW, I AM CURIOUS TO KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE CLAIMING TO BE 7 INCHES HAVE GOTTEN SLACK FOR NOT POSTING A PIC. My money is that they DO NOT.

    HOW MANY GUYS CLAIMING THEY CUT WOMEN AND HURT THEIR PUSSIES ACTUALLY FUCK WOMEN? My cock may not be terribly long but it is bout the thickest i have and others have come across and i can fuck women without troubles. I can slam 8 inches pretty much without discomfort for the woman (or the man). Now to the longer guys i can see your troubles. PERHAPS YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO FUCK RIGHT.

    In some instances the shorter guys i can understand but you guys speak like every woman has such great difficulties in taking in a cock. Come on, get real and check yourself at the door. Women probably 'act' for you...i know when i am with a smaller guy i stroke their ego by fake gagging on their cock or i tell them my jaw hurts. ALL LIES!!! Harmless but still lies. I have told women they were tight when i felt like i couldn't feel much gripping.

    I love this site but lets get beyond who's faking and go a little deeper. (pun is intentional). I am guilty of discussing the fakers also so i point the finger at myself as well.

    :wacko: :blink: :wacko:
     
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