Somehow I got talking about penis size with my GF

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Most ( not all) women are as fascinated about a huge cock as men are about big booty or tits.
After the fascination wears off, there is ussually hardly anything left cos the size was the main attraction anyway.
I mean, i've had folks say to me, 'just show me your cock, please, i just want to see how big it is'. Some want to feel it, others want to just see it then, there are those who want to fuck a huge dick just for the hell of it.
My wife tells me she had someone whose cock was harder than mine; and like Olp79 said, it can be a turn on.
I say, relax, enjoy and take things in your stride.
 
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My should you care it you were the biggest she has been with, you are with her now for a reason. My girl has been with a few guys, we had that conversation before and she said I wasn't the biggest but I am the best she has been with. I don't know if that really is the truth but I don't care because I am with her now so that is all the counts to me.
 

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If the biggest had truly been so great she would probably still be with him. Size isn't everything, and as previously mentioned there are many girls that find bigger penises very uncomfortable. You're dick is probably the perfect size for her and more importantly you know how to use it.
 

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I've asked my wife before. I'm not the biggest she's had. Her first was 8-9" and her biggest. She's had probably 10 guys. My wife is petite.5'4" and size 6 pant. She said her smallest was less than 3" hard. She could make it disappear in her hand. Lol.

She said that if I was bigger that we would have less sex because it would make her sore. I'm 7x5. So. I guess 7 is the lucky number for her. She says I'm the best lover she's ever had. And that I make her feel great. I can go balls deep and rub her clit with my pelvis. Grinding it in the perfect situation makes her cum. However in doggy I have to be careful as I've hit her wrong. So I have to go slow at first and work my way in.

I wish I was maybe an inch longer and a bit thicker to bottom out. But who knows. She may not like that. She was riding me on the couch the other night and I believe my head was hitting her cervix. She came like crazy and her juices were running all over my balls. However this didn't feel the best for me and almost made me go limp. Lol.
 

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I've asked my wife before. I'm not the biggest she's had. Her first was 8-9" and her biggest. She's had probably 10 guys. My wife is petite.5'4" and size 6 pant. She said her smallest was less than 3" hard. She could make it disappear in her hand. Lol.

She said that if I was bigger that we would have less sex because it would make her sore. I'm 7x5. So. I guess 7 is the lucky number for her. She says I'm the best lover she's ever had. And that I make her feel great. I can go balls deep and rub her clit with my pelvis. Grinding it in the perfect situation makes her cum. However in doggy I have to be careful as I've hit her wrong. So I have to go slow at first and work my way in.

I wish I was maybe an inch longer and a bit thicker to bottom out. But who knows. She may not like that. She was riding me on the couch the other night and I believe my head was hitting her cervix. She came like crazy and her juices were running all over my balls. However this didn't feel the best for me and almost made me go limp. Lol.

If you have to be careful in doggy, then why would you want to be an inch longer? That means you're already a little bit too long. Be happy with what you've got.
 

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If you have to be careful in doggy, then why would you want to be an inch longer? That means you're already a little bit too long. Be happy with what you've got.

Doggy isn't her favorite position, because I curve up. With a full, hard as a rock erection, my penis will almost touch my stomach when standing up. And NO I have 0 belly as I'm pretty skinny..

She says that it feels like my penis is rubbing on her rectum and at times very uncomfortable. I usually have to lay on her back while doing doggy. Having my torso 90 deg to her torso isn't very good for her or me. Sometimes bending my dick down with such a hard erection hurts me too..

Oh. And to answer your question about why I want a larger cock.. Don't all guys! LOL.. I'm not wanting a larger tool to hurt her in any way. Just want that extra inch to know what it feels like to hit rock bottom.. :)
 

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it feels awesome
I am both long and thick so i have to totally clear my mind to get fully hard and that does take some time.
you might want to add some thickness but be happy with what you have
 

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Thanks for all the input folks. Like I said, I'm not really obsessing over this, it's just something that was on my mind a bit. We actually just finished having sex about an hour and a half ago, and it was another home run! :wink: We really have a great time together in bed (and out of bed too!) so I'm not really worried about it.

And to clarify, she didn't just come out and tell me how I compared, nor did I just come out and ask her. We were just lying in bed after a few times going at it one night, chatting about all sorts of things and somehow she wound up saying it was interesting to compare. She was content to leave it at that, but I thought that since it was brought up, we might as well explore it a little. Pretty innocent, as I said.

(Question for you: Has your girlfriend ever asked if she has the biggest/best pair of breasts compared to all the other girls you've been with? Would she ask you this?)

Well I've not been with any other girls, so I can't say for sure, but she also hasn't asked what I think of her breasts. She is very petite, so it may be a sore spot with her, but I couldn't be happier. She's absolutely perfect for me! I do see your point though. As I said above, I didn't just come out and ask her, it just sort of came up while we were talking.

I've had big, average and small. And to this day, the best cock is attached to the man I'm in love with. When my feelings are involved, I will honestly say that my guy has the prettiest, most perfectly sized cock. I would never compare one penis to the other with a guy I'm involved with. Never. There are size queens, but I think a lot of women, care about the man far more than his size.

So be happy in your relationship and remember that 7 inches (in the grand scheme of things) is big!

This is very nice to hear, and I think you're probably right. We are very happy together, plus she always goes on about how I feel amazing an such, so I really couldn't ask for more. As others have said, it is just one of those "guy" things to be obsessed with size. And thanks for saying 7 inches is big! :wink:

She has commented that I can last a very long time and that I can get hard and go at it again quickly after cumming, so I guess I've got that going for me! She's said that she's had sex with me more times in one session than with any other guy.

So thanks again for all your insight people. I feel pretty good about everything and and glad to be in love with a fantastic girl!
 

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Honestly, you have to live with the fact that if she's been with that many guys before you, you aren't the best sex she's had. She might love you more, care about you more, etc etc, but in all likelihood she has been fucked better before, and you just have to face the fact that she may never cum as hard with you as she did with a real alpha male in her past.

I'm in the same boat as you, I'm not small by any means, but not huge, and I have a girlfriend who has a colorful sexual past. It just sucks knowing that those huge orgasms she had in a one night stand with some big dicked stud will always be in the back of her head while with you. If you can't deal with that, then you have to end the relationship because it will slowly corrode it until it ends badly anyway.
 

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Most women best like the size of the penis they're with - whatever that size may be.

And I really don't think it's a good idea to ask the 'Am I your biggest?' question if you aren't prepared to hear her say 'No'.
 

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Doggy isn't her favorite position, because I curve up. With a full, hard as a rock erection, my penis will almost touch my stomach when standing up. And NO I have 0 belly as I'm pretty skinny..

She says that it feels like my penis is rubbing on her rectum and at times very uncomfortable. I usually have to lay on her back while doing doggy. Having my torso 90 deg to her torso isn't very good for her or me. Sometimes bending my dick down with such a hard erection hurts me too..

Oh. And to answer your question about why I want a larger cock.. Don't all guys! LOL.. I'm not wanting a larger tool to hurt her in any way. Just want that extra inch to know what it feels like to hit rock bottom.. :)

That's not true, not all men want to be larger, although after being on LPSG for this long I'm beginning to wonder if my guy is a unicorn.

You don't want to ruin sex with your mate because you think a bigger cock would boost your ego. That's just silly. Your cock is big enough. It's already larger than average. Like I said before, be happy with what you've got.

Honestly, you have to live with the fact that if she's been with that many guys before you, you aren't the best sex she's had. She might love you more, care about you more, etc etc, but in all likelihood she has been fucked better before, and you just have to face the fact that she may never cum as hard with you as she did with a real alpha male in her past.

I'm in the same boat as you, I'm not small by any means, but not huge, and I have a girlfriend who has a colorful sexual past. It just sucks knowing that those huge orgasms she had in a one night stand with some big dicked stud will always be in the back of her head while with you. If you can't deal with that, then you have to end the relationship because it will slowly corrode it until it ends badly anyway.

Where do you guys get this stuff from? You can't just shove a big cock into us and automatically he's some sort of sex god. That assumption is just wrong.

I don't understand how men think. :rolleyes:
 
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Blaquehorse makes a good point about booty and tits as does Petite. Women want a lot more than a big dick. Even when it comes to penises specifically, they want more than just size.

Consider a woman's breasts, for instance. The nicest pair of breasts I've seen were absolutely not the biggest. In fact, the largest pair (36dd) were actually some of my least favorite. They were fun to play with but a little unpractical and not nearly as attractive as some of the 32b's that I've encountered. Do I miss the big ones every once in a while? Sure. Would I trade what I have now to have them back? Not a chance.

There's a novelty aspect to size but that doesn't last very long. Ultimately, other factors are more important.
 

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Honestly, you have to live with the fact that if she's been with that many guys before you, you aren't the best sex she's had. She might love you more, care about you more, etc etc, but in all likelihood she has been fucked better before, and you just have to face the fact that she may never cum as hard with you as she did with a real alpha male in her past.

I'm in the same boat as you, I'm not small by any means, but not huge, and I have a girlfriend who has a colorful sexual past. It just sucks knowing that those huge orgasms she had in a one night stand with some big dicked stud will always be in the back of her head while with you. If you can't deal with that, then you have to end the relationship because it will slowly corrode it until it ends badly anyway.

Wow. That might be the way some (most?) guys think that women think, but I don't think that's even close to accurate.

Here's an idea. Be a nice guy. Be honest. Be caring. Don't be a pushover, but attend to her needs. Tell her how you feel, then show her how you feel.

Then you'll be the only "alpha male" that she wants.
 

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Wow. That might be the way some (most?) guys think that women think, but I don't think that's even close to accurate.

Here's an idea. Be a nice guy. Be honest. Be caring. Don't be a pushover, but attend to her needs. Tell her how you feel, then show her how you feel.

Then you'll be the only "alpha male" that she wants.

I don't disagree that women like those characteristics for a relationship, but that is irrelevant here. I fit your description above perfectly, but that doesn't make me the most physically attractive man to her. She might feel secure with me and be happy with me, but it would be idiotic to assume that none of the 7 guys prior to me fucked her better than me and gave her an orgasm intensity greater than I ever can. It's just nature, why sugarcoat it?
 

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Don't be CHASING AMY (kevin smith movie)

Don't let her past ruin your present. Those guys are in her past and she doesn't talk to them anymore. She wants to be with you and loves you. Don't let anything that happened years and years ago ruin it.
 

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This is probably true. It's some of the other parts of your post that people are reacting to.

^ This. Could a woman easily have had a more compatible/skilled/hung/better lover than you? Sure. Does that mean he is in the back of her mind when she's with you?

No, absolutely not. Plus, I consider it my job to do my best to make her forget all about the others. :)
 

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Don't be CHASING AMY (kevin smith movie)

Don't let her past ruin your present. Those guys are in her past and she doesn't talk to them anymore. She wants to be with you and loves you. Don't let anything that happened years and years ago ruin it.

great movie!!!! great advice too. i've been Holden Mcneil toooooooooooooo many times..LOL!!
 

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sometimes my cock size was discussed immediately in a relationship, and other times it was mentioned much later. when I had sex with my now wife, she didn't say anything about it, other than liked me, liked the sex. after about 2 weeks, she said something like "you're hung like a horse" after pile driving her. "pillow talk" revealed I was the biggest she ever had, that she almost freaked out when she saw how big it was, she loved my over 6" girth, she had her first (2nd, 3rd ) orgasms ever with me the first time we fucked. my previous gf had initially told her gfs I was huge, but before we broke up, she ran me down, said I was stupid, little cock, poor in bed. so she wasn't sure if what I had, but she thought I might be on the big side. she said it wasn't all that important, but she did check me & my bulge out a few times. she had 6 partners before me. I reluctantly told her I had been with about 50 women. I thought she might get upset, but she said, " I can see why, having a big cock and all." that was surprising.