Some history I guess. I have been in a relationship with my partner now for around 5 years (a bit more). Since the beginning I am always the one that initiates sex and now I find myself getting irritated that I am ALWAYS the one to start whatever sex we have together. I usually start it because I am attracted to him, I enjoy getting him off, I enjoy listening to him, basically I just love to be with him. Why doesn't he initiate being with me for the same reasons? I find myself quickly tiring lately of always being the initiator because I want him to see in me what I see in him if that makes any sense and then to take it from there. I swear sometimes if I didn't initiate sex (we probably have sex 4-6 times a week) we would probably never have sex. Should I be aggravated and is this a normal thing in gay relationships?