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Point taken Dp
Please understand I was not having a dig at you personaly and what you have received from counselling
Geuss i was comming from the angle that her Son was confident enuf to come out to his Mum & perhaps a next step could be the information gathering /sharing from a Decent Gay Commmunity
Am assuming he is not a fragile boy, even saying to his Mum "No Way' re counselling apparently
We all cope differently of course,and if you happened to be in a more fragile state than this guy..and gained heaps from counselling .. then that worked well for you Dp
I am pleased.
Forgive me..i have a BIG hangup re some Counsellers..especially the Sex Abuse Counsellors..(Opening myself up here but wtf)
I have had a huge amount of inexperienced counsellors fcking up the lives of persons..where my basic hands on approach ( with my employers 100% support) has pretty well recitified quite a few in a bad situation
I am HAPPY it all worked out for you Dp .. as i feel time and age will work out in the best interests for Sandras son
NO denying it .. get the wrong Counsellor...and yr pretty well Doomed.
We all survive.
Regards
enz
(last post from me .. on this (unless you have specifics ffeel free to PM me)
Please understand I was not having a dig at you personaly and what you have received from counselling
Geuss i was comming from the angle that her Son was confident enuf to come out to his Mum & perhaps a next step could be the information gathering /sharing from a Decent Gay Commmunity
Am assuming he is not a fragile boy, even saying to his Mum "No Way' re counselling apparently
We all cope differently of course,and if you happened to be in a more fragile state than this guy..and gained heaps from counselling .. then that worked well for you Dp
I am pleased.
Forgive me..i have a BIG hangup re some Counsellers..especially the Sex Abuse Counsellors..(Opening myself up here but wtf)
I have had a huge amount of inexperienced counsellors fcking up the lives of persons..where my basic hands on approach ( with my employers 100% support) has pretty well recitified quite a few in a bad situation
I am HAPPY it all worked out for you Dp .. as i feel time and age will work out in the best interests for Sandras son
NO denying it .. get the wrong Counsellor...and yr pretty well Doomed.
We all survive.
Regards
enz
(last post from me .. on this (unless you have specifics ffeel free to PM me)