Soo my fwb takes the bbc over me

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Ok so I eat her out and pound her good usually once a week. She likes that I'm chubby and says I have a nice cock. I'm drenched in her cum Everytime she rides me. She gets off soo much and sucks me off great. Now out of nowhere she's seeing this guy she met off plenty of fish. I searched for this guy on Facebook and he's this 6'5 six pack guy with dreads. I called her flipping out because she said we weren't going to be hanging anymore. She got super defensive and told me my "short dick" wasn't sufficient. I'm 6 inches I mean wtf!! Im sure he's huge and beating it up but wtf!! I'm going to miss that nice bubble butt
 

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Mayhaps you should have offered her something more than mere friendship.

She's hoping for a bigger better deal... and its not just his dick she's thinking of.

Guys who 'believe' in the FWB scenario always end up getting dumped for just about ANYONE more willing to commit.
 

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You weren't in a relationship with her, so I don't see the big deal.


When you're just friends with benefits, I think you have to accept the fact that the woman will break up with you when she meets someone that she wants to have a relationship with.
 

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Ok so I eat her out and pound her good usually once a week. She likes that I'm chubby and says I have a nice cock. I'm drenched in her cum Everytime she rides me. She gets off soo much and sucks me off great. Now out of nowhere she's seeing this guy she met off plenty of fish. I searched for this guy on Facebook and he's this 6'5 six pack guy with dreads. I called her flipping out because she said we weren't going to be hanging anymore. She got super defensive and told me my "short dick" wasn't sufficient. I'm 6 inches I mean wtf!! Im sure he's huge and beating it up but wtf!! I'm going to miss that nice bubble butt

Don't worry there are plenty of other nice bubble butt ladies out there for you. She was looking for a good time with sex and another guy happened along, she felt some need to test drive him and for now wants him.

Let her go. Who knows she might come back in a week or a year or 2 and want to be back with you at which time you can tell her 'no way.'
 

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Dickhead answer!!

On a site about large penises...what were you expecting?

In all seriousness, the OP got dropped from a casual relationship, I thought one of the key points of "casual" was that anyone could come and go. I have never seen a woman talk down a guy's dick unless she was on the spot and just wanted a cheap shot at your pride. Assume you gave her no cause to jump dick, and she didn't have anything to really say.

You can get upset, OP, or you can go find some more casual pussy (assuming you don't want a "relationship") the choice is yours.
 

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I couldn't have been too small she was the aggressor in our sexual relationship. She would get off a couple times when we did it. She was definitely taking a cheap shot. I've never had complaints but I can respect a woman for liking a little pleasure and pain. But the cheap shot was uncalled for. I didn't point out how small her boobs were lol. Or the fact that she couldn't deep throat a 6 incher lol
 

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You weren't in a relationship with her, so I don't see the big deal.


When you're just friends with benefits, I think you have to accept the fact that the woman will break up with you when she meets someone that she wants to have a relationship with.

Exactly right. Fuck around without a relationship, you have no expectation of the respect from her that a girlfriend would give you. Your hurt reaction to her rejecting you proves one of my theories: you cannot have an ongoing sexual relationship with someone that doesn't involve emotions.
 

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Exactly right. Fuck around without a relationship, you have no expectation of the respect from her that a girlfriend would give you. Your hurt reaction to her rejecting you proves one of my theories: you cannot have an ongoing sexual relationship with someone that doesn't involve emotions.

I agree.

I think casual meets are ok. Even a few repeat meets with the same person. Even if you also have a primary relationship ( so long as there are no secrets )...

But an ongoing "friends with benefits" deal is virtually impossible I think. Emotions and possessiveness just will emerge somewhere along the line ...