My wife and I have been married for almost 29 yrs. I am quit a bit larger than avg. She is 60 and I am 53. In our younger yrs we used to make love at least 3 times a week (sometimes every nite). Now if we make love more than once a week it is unusual. The reason is that she gets sore and she needs time to "recover" before I penetrate her again. We use PLENTY of lube and she is excited enough to have multiple orgasms most of the time. Can any of the ladies help us with this problem? Please men I know you what to put your .02 in but let the ladies answer this please.