"sore" & "tired"

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  1. hornymofo

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    (random background... skip down a bit for question)
    its about 50/50 whether this happens to me in a relationship. this is bad because usually I just move on to someone else at this point but the girl im with i have feelings (not just a boner) for her.

    Untill reading some size stuff online I had always considered myself about average (6.25 long with a little over 6 girth) till i heard that 6"+ girth was big. ive been told I was big a few times before without thinking much of it. Also I have a very high sex drive with a dick that stays hard up to 4+ in a go.
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    Some girls love having sex with me (like the one who ive been seeing on the side and not feeling too good about it) while others like my GF stop after i cum once (im just getting started at that point). She complains shes sore and i beat off a few times dissatisfied. Ive also had complaints of wanting sex too much. *i do cuddle if th chick wants it after so idk what i do wrong*
     
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    Sounds like you're just a hornymofo. Not a thing wrong with that. You just need to find a partner that can keep up with you.
     
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    I dunno - sound pretty perfect to me! Maybe you need to find some older women who have the same type of stamina :wink:
     
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    Isn't the early 30's the sexual peak for a woman ?
     
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    No, it's more like mid/late 30s into the 40s or 50s. 4 hours a go sounds pretty good to me.. lol.
     
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    I always thought it was too until I reached my mid 40's. There's not a minute that goes by I'm not thinking about it and craving it. If there's more of a peak than this there is no way I could stand it! This can be maddening!

    I think I may be worse than an teenage boy!
     
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    Common misconception. Late teens & early 20s are actually a womans sexual peak. The reason for the incorrect perception is because women that are older are less concerned with being seen as a slut by their friends. They also have to give it up more to compete with younger women on the sexual market as they're looks are fading.
     
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    :rolleyes:
     
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    is there anything i can do to make her more willing to go longer? (i know it aint cause I suck either.. she usually cums 3-5 times before i do) when I first met her we screwed for about 5+ hours... then it was kit or miss on her being good... then rarely.

    only reason i have this problem is theres this connection emotionally i dont usuallly get with other chicks. usually I would have just moved on after this.
     
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    Workin' up a good pot of mad!

    Are you speaking as a woman who knows?:wink:
     
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    lol, if there was an easy fix for women's sex drives then it'd be as big as viagra!

    sorry, mate. more than 90 minutes and i'm just sore and bored. nothing will change that.
    you've no idea how uncomfortable a raw, tender vag is!
    i need a warm bath with a handful of salt in it and at least 48 hours recovery.

    you have an abnormally high drive. i'm not saying that's a bad thing, but you're going to have a hard time finding a girl who'll keep pace!
     
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    Don't have to be. There's mountains of research on this in social psychology, evolutionary psychology, and gender studies.
     
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    Then I'd like to see it because my understanding is that the late teens early twenties are the peak years for fertility, not sex drive. speaking from personal experience (and that of some of my close friends - studies be damned) I've never had a higher sex drive than I do now and I'm 47. And, btw, I'm way hotter in my 40s than I was in my 20s :wink:
     
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    In your pics, you look in your 20s HOT :wink:
     
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    Why thank you - I appreciate that! :biggrin1:

    But, my being hotter in my 40s has more to do with being in touch with my own body, not feeling the need to play games, having come to terms with who I am and what I like, forgiving my physical flaws, and understanding there is SO much more to people than the outward physical stuff AND...liking myself and who I am regardless of what others think. :wink: It also has to do with not having the same sexual inhibitions I had when I was younger and enjoying sex for the pure sensation of it all which was sometimes lost in my early years amongst the worry about the *relationship*. I am fully/totally comfortable in my sexuality - and that's what makes me hot/sexy!

    Oh, and I forgot...I find it interesting to read we have to give it up more to compete with the younger women. I have at least 3 times the options at this age as I did at a younger age and nearly all of them are far younger than me. There is something quite appealing, I think, about a mature woman who knows her way around the bedroom and is in touch with her sexuality.
     
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    Yeah me too, except it isn't just my mid 40s that I do/did this. All through my teens, twenties, thirties... Early 40s not so much because I had two different major health problems during that time, and my sex drive went way down because of that, but in my mid-40s, when I recovered from those illnesses, my sex drive came back full force! And what's worse for me is that I go a long time without any sex, and pretty much have my entire life. I'm shy, and afraid of psychos (the latter only comes into play if it's a guy I don't really know, though).

    Oh, and my sex drive went up after I had my tubes tied (in my early thirties), but I think that was psychological because I didn't have to worry about pregnancy anymore. (And it was high before; just even higher after!)

    That said, I do get sore sometimes if it's a longer session/more times with a big guy (I'll love it while it's happening, though!!! But I might have to take a little break. By that I don't mean once a week or anything - more like I might have to take a break for a couple of hours. :biggrin1:)
     
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    Absolutely agree 100%, and I discovered this one when I studied evolutionary psychology. A woman's sexual peak is the same age range as a mans, and her willingness to explore further boundaries in middle-age is a sign of maturing emotionally rather than physically. In primitive cultures younger women were up for anything, and also in many contemporary cultures today.

    Getting back to the point in hand, I too have a 6" girth, and if I take too long my wife gets sore as well, regardless of how well lubricated she is or how much artificial lube we apply. She gets bored in any case, so we keep it to about 10 minutes three times a week and all's good. But in my experience, regular lengthy sex doesn't work well with a thick penis.
     
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    Sorry if I'm repeating anything, I just skimmed. But it might just be a matter of adjusting. I'm quite thick as well, and whenever I wanna have sex again after cumming, or even to go at it again the next morning, my boyfriend usually said no when we first started having sex. Similar concept, if your girlfriend isn't used to a thicker dick, it will take her body some time to get used to it. The benefit in YOUR case is that lots of foreplay can arouse a woman more and cause her vagina to expand to its maximum potential, whereas with us gays, the ass has a tendancy to just want to stay tight lol. So just try and be patient, and put lots of attention into foreplay. Some lube may help too.
     
  20. D_Ellerby Eatsprick

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    I wish men could keep up with me. The men that I've dated or have had sex with, once they cum, they are done for the night and, I'm just getting started. I find it very frustrating.
     
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