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I've been dating this lady for 5 months now. We have a great and wonderful sex life and our chemistry is out of this world. One thing I've noticed though is, she will NOT tell me, "no" or deny me sex. I have a rather high libido, but I try to temper it. She self lubricates really well, and sometimes I use astroglide to help her out too, especially if we're in the throws of a marathon experience.
On the otherhand, she gets really sore with me. She seems to always be sore the day after. This does not deter her from sleeping with me, but I don't want to keep her pertetually sore. She often wants me to orgasm twice, so this usually means an hour + of continuous sex. She has multiple orgasms when we have sex, and admits that I am the first man to have ever made her orgasm through penetration.
I just don't know what to do about the soreness. Like I said, she lubes well and I will use additional lube when necessary. Is it just a matter of tempering my libido? How long does it take for a woman to recover from soreness? I'm 7 x 6.5, and she feels quite snug on me, as other lovers have in the past.
Any thoughts?
Not that it matters, but I'm 39, she is 29.
On the otherhand, she gets really sore with me. She seems to always be sore the day after. This does not deter her from sleeping with me, but I don't want to keep her pertetually sore. She often wants me to orgasm twice, so this usually means an hour + of continuous sex. She has multiple orgasms when we have sex, and admits that I am the first man to have ever made her orgasm through penetration.
I just don't know what to do about the soreness. Like I said, she lubes well and I will use additional lube when necessary. Is it just a matter of tempering my libido? How long does it take for a woman to recover from soreness? I'm 7 x 6.5, and she feels quite snug on me, as other lovers have in the past.
Any thoughts?
Not that it matters, but I'm 39, she is 29.