Sort Of Awkward. Need Advice

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Ok so something happened few months ago that's been on my mind. Went out to a bar to watch a football game with my friend. Not one of my best friends, but someone I hang out with every now and then. I'm bi and he doesnt know it. I usually dont find any of my friends attractive , something about this guy is just hot hes an alpha Male he gets girls whenever he wants/needs. This couple walked in the bar to meet us I didnt know them, but he was laughing telling me he used to bang the girl (she was good looking probably a 7 or 8/10) he hooked them up and now they're together. After the game we were figuring out what to do and went back to their place. It was just the four of us just drinking listening to music as more drinking went on my friend and the girl got kind of touchy feely. The couple went outside to smoke he was like man they want a 3 some I'm not up for that tonight. I said we can always leave, we stayed and drink some more my friend and the girl are seriously feeling each other he was telling the guy bro I'm gonna fuck ur girl tonight he just laughed and shrugged his shoulders. I pretended to be passed out they all went in the shower together. All 3 were laughing my friend was ready to get his dick sucked the girl just wanted to shower lol so I'm on the couch "sleeping" they all come out clothes on nothing happened just a shower. We drink some more girl and bf go in the bedroom I'm "passed" out again but I got one eye open I see her come out grab my friend's hand she's got a big smile on her face she pushes him in the bedroom she comes out and puts her hand on my thigh and I still act like I'm asleep. They proceeded to do the mmf I heard the whole thing it was really hot the door was cracked but the bed was at an angle where I couldn't see anything. Once it was over we drank some more me and my buddy left he was laughing like man that guy has a small dick and was telling me how his was at least 7in. We go to some friends and end up going to sleep. The next morning I texted him that he wanted me to suck his dick last night (was not true) I asked him about it he was like dont worry I was probably just real fucked up I was kind of hinting at it and he walked me to my car and opened the garage. I thought our friendship might be over, but we're fine it's just never been brought up again.
 

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Ok so I know it's a long story. I really wish I would have jumped in that night the worst that could of happened is they tell me to get out. I want to talk to him about it like us finding a girl and doing our own mmf, but not sure how to bring it up. Any advice?
 

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Next time your out drinking and watching the game mention you seen a porn video of a mmf and it really turned you on.
Maybe he will get some idea about it too and find some hot chick that you two can bang together.
Sucking his dick with the girl there is risky. Many girls think its gay and want no part of it. If you 2 can creampie her offer to clean up her pussy. That might be as close to cock as you can be the first time.
 

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Ok so I know it's a long story. I really wish I would have jumped in that night the worst that could of happened is they tell me to get out. I want to talk to him about it like us finding a girl and doing our own mmf, but not sure how to bring it up. Any advice?
In my experiences.....you may just have blown your chance.....again....in my personal experiences....wild nights like this "just sort of happen"....try to plan them and they never work out

However you can increase chances by putting yourself in situation where it can. "Just happen".....

This time...just go for it...nothing lost nothing gained
 

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When she touched my thigh I wasn't sure if she wanted me to get up and join or just make sure I was asleep didnt want to risk it not happening if she knew I was up. I should of just walked in while they were doing it.
Do you think it would be a good idea next time we're together to bring up the story and talk about how I wish I could of joined?
 

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Your friend may not be into any M/M action, so if part of your purpose in a threesome is to engage in direct activity with him, you should know his wishes first or risk losing a friend.

I agree however that the chances of ending up in the same situation again are not necessarily great, so if this is what you want, stay sober enough to enjoy and participate.
 

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I was sober enough I was just scared to hop in. Contact with him isn't necessary I just want to mmf with him or at least watch him