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I think at its best the South has that rather illusive and illusory quality of charm. I must apologize for making it seem disingenous. I do not think that every Southerner automatically has it or exhibits it across the board to everyone with whom they intereact.
It may also have a socio economic component as well. As you can see from this board as people move around the country and globe they may or may not assimilate these characteristics. I do think that as in any culture, this being regional, certain characteristics may be prized more highly than others. So even if one is not naturally gracious ,sweet and kind there may be more pressure to hide one's outward lack of gentility because of social pressure. Also depending upon where in the South one comes from other factors may effect social custom and behavior.
I cant help but think about what might make a group of people adhere to a set of standards which perhaps in other cultures may not be as highly prized or seen as detrimental to achieving one's personal goals?. It may all go back to the fact that after a devastation such as the American Civil War where no longer in most cases were families of wealth and privilege surrounded by the outer trappings of gentility it became even more important to adher to traditions of graciousness and civility to remember and rever from whence one came.
It may also have a socio economic component as well. As you can see from this board as people move around the country and globe they may or may not assimilate these characteristics. I do think that as in any culture, this being regional, certain characteristics may be prized more highly than others. So even if one is not naturally gracious ,sweet and kind there may be more pressure to hide one's outward lack of gentility because of social pressure. Also depending upon where in the South one comes from other factors may effect social custom and behavior.
I cant help but think about what might make a group of people adhere to a set of standards which perhaps in other cultures may not be as highly prized or seen as detrimental to achieving one's personal goals?. It may all go back to the fact that after a devastation such as the American Civil War where no longer in most cases were families of wealth and privilege surrounded by the outer trappings of gentility it became even more important to adher to traditions of graciousness and civility to remember and rever from whence one came.