Spanks penis related musings......

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by soccerfanatic, Feb 15, 2005.

  1. soccerfanatic

    soccerfanatic New Member

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    I'm still a virgin so I'm no expert on the female anatomy, quite the opposite, but from what I've gathered the average vagina is only about 7" deep? Is that right, or am I getting mixed up? If so, why do plenty of women prefer a guy who's packing 9" to one who's got 7"? Surely there shouldn't be any difference at all, seeing as the 9" guy won't be able to fill the woman up any more than the guy with 7", so most of his added length will be going to waste? Is it purely for visual stimulation, or is there another reason?

    Btw, I'm aware that some women, including some members of this site, are a lot deeper than average, so they'd need a really long cock to be filled, but they're an exception. For women who can bottom out with a cock that's not that much above average, how come women tend to be less impressed with a guy who can just fill them perfectly rather than a guy who's got too much for them to handle? If its not just because they prefer to look at a huge one then I'm stumped :blink:

    And finally, I'd always expected girth to be much more important than length, seeing as it could most probably bring the women to an orgasm whereas a long but pencil-thin one couldn't. Apparently most women prefer a long one though, any ideas why?
     
  2. godiluvabig1

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    here's my 2 cents (yet again, but this time, more comforting than the last...)

    1. i learned from a guy i chat with on yahoo messenger (he's from here, nonetheless), that a woman's vagina can stretch for longer penises, which is why some women take more then 7 inches... also, he told me that the vagina does this thing, called the tenting effect... that when a woman gets horny, her vagina deepens to be able to take the length of a guys penis... also, he said that it will get shorter depending on the length of the guys penis, but will not get any more shallow than her depth when she's not turned on... and some women actually prefer smaller guys (which, in my opinion, is as a result of either inexperience with the reality of a well hung guy or plain old preference)

    2. about girth... girth is important... very important, but like i said, a woman's vagina changes with the size of a penis... girth is what makes sex... but for me... which brings my 3rd point...

    3. i know, personally, that i am VERY turned on when a guy "hits bottom" so to speak... i find it very stimulating when a guy's penis is long enough to go all the way in and hit the end... it's even made the difference as to whether or not i climax before...

    well, this is what i have to say, but if anyone else knows better, feel free to correct me...
     
  3. InsertHere

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    godiluvabig1 got it right on!

    I LOVE it when my guy bottoms out and he is average size. I have been with bigger guys and didn't feel like they were too big, so I have experienced the stretching/accomodating that I've heard of.

    A larger girth would make oral more difficult...not that I wouldn't try until I dislocated my jaw!
     
  4. Pene_Negro_Grande

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    Spank - how old are you...Can't believe you are still a virgin - you got some serious equipment...A woman would love to have you I am sure...
     
  5. madame_zora

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    Spank, I think every woman's very different. While many women claim to want a 9" guy, they've probably never seen one, so they think a 7" guy is that size. The average woman's depth is from 5 to 6.5'', but it can stretch some to accomodate. That being said, ask any 9'' guy how many women have been able to accomodate his whole length!

    I personally am one of those cursed with having a vagina that allows for easy entry of a penis that size, and although I've never had one much bigger than that, I really don't know how large of a penis I could accomodate, so I guess my curiousity gets the best of me. I need the length because the cervix bumping thing is what really gets me off, girth feels good but won't cause me to orgasm.

    I wish you lived closer.......
     
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    I'm comin Zora! :D

    Actually I'm in the same boat as Spank, so this has been a great thread. Thanks ladies!
     
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    All Ohio area Interstates have mysteriously become jammed with traffic, all heading inbound. State Highway officials have no comment at this time.

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  8. soccerfanatic

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    I wouldn't say being blessed with a very deep vagina is a curse Jana. Obviously smaller guys will be intimidated by it and you'll find it more difficult to find a man who can really satisfy you, but when you do it'll be a blessing in disguise lol.

    Personally I'd love a girl with that quality, even with copious amounts of lube the average woman would struggle to fit me inside at all without a hell of a lot of stretching and an equally large dose of pain, and even then I'd not be able to put much more than half my length in without bottoming out every time.

    However, a girl like you would be just perfect for me lol, so all you need to do is find the American version of me, albeit with a few improvements hopefully, and then you'll forget that it was ever an issue :p

    Just out of interest, are women like you and LeahCat wider than average as well, or just deeper?

    And I'm 18 and a half PNG, I've no confidence and very few redeeming qualities though, so I'm not exactly in demand lol. Plus my "serious equipment" is more of a problem than a bonus as far as most girls seem to be concerned, that's why I joined this site lol :p

    And I know Jana, I wish I lived closer too, we could have some serious fun ;)
     
  9. madame_zora

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    Well, my size is as much of a curse as yours is to you, my dear friend. I can't be satisfied by an average size guy, which has left me with some rather nasty options. I don't have the luxury of meeting "some nice guy", getting to know him as a person, letting myself love the little things about him, only to find out he is not the "one in a million" I need, and then having to accept being sexually unsatisfied for the rest of the time we're together. So now I get to seek men based on size, and THEN hope I can find someone with whom I can be compatible in other areas of my life. I'm 42, that should give you a clue of how easy it is.

    Hmm, meanwhile I get to go to concerts, not talk to men, but occasionally notice some beautiful thing I would love to get to know... and walk away sad.
     
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    wow, zora... i thought you were a lot younger!!! you look MUCH younger :eek:
     
  11. boywonder

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    Here is something I will add, I read this on webmd.com

    And I will just summarize it. The average vagina length when the woman is not aroused is close to 3-4 inches. When aroused it is 5-6 inches. Very close to the average penis size. However it also said that even though this is the size of the vagina when a woman is aroused, it can still stretch from this point. In fact most all women when aroused enough and enough care is taken take take up to 9" at the most. Then there are some than can take more than that. But almost all woman CAN take 9" if care when entering is taken. Only a very very small % of women cannot accomadate this size. (Many choose not too when they really could if they tried) And after say child birth it is much easier to take a larger penis than before because the vagina has been stretched out. Which means also that just simply being used to a larger penis will make your vagina be able to accomadate more. In most cases even a woman who can't accomdate much, when given a lover that is well endowed and if they work at it, over time she will be able to accomadate more and more of him. It's like working out in the gym. You're able to do more and more the heavier weights you use. Well sort of...........
     
  12. soccerfanatic

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    I know what you mean sadly :(

    I'm not in a rush to find someone to sleep with, but even so my lovelife currently consists of posting my measurements on here and on chatrooms and asking for anybody that is interested if they'd wanna chat. Its not cos I'm arrogant or big-headed, its just really difficult to find a woman who can handle one my size, but people don't see to believe that and I usually get called a liar or big-headed.

    I think its probably due to porn, most pornstars who claim to be 12" are about 9" and so women think that its big but nothing that could cause pain or damage. Yet if they'd seen or handled a real 12" they'd know that very few women will be able to take that. Plus I'm 8.5" around so that's probably more of a problem than the length. Most women don't seem to understand exactly how big those measurements make me though, so usually by the time I've got to know them and finally show my pics I'll have more than they expected and they'll not be able to handle it after all. That happens with the majority of women I talk with, the rest are mainly horny teen girls who wanna see pics of it and block me after they have done.

    I've had a few successes, none of them were what I was looking for though, either due to them living in the USA, being a lot older, thinking its fake or just generally not being nice people. So I know where you're coming from Jana, and I feel for you *hugs* :(

    You'll be fine though, you're a wonderful person, very funny, very intelligent, sweet, caring and stunningly beautiful with breasts that could stop traffic. And when u finally do find a guy with a monsterous cock and an equally breathtaking personality, I'm sure he'll be powerless to resist you lol. Good luck though :)
     
  13. Dr. Dilznick

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    Do you know this from personal experience, or is it merely from hearsay? I'd very much like to hear other's opinions and experiences.

    I hope one day I'll be able to fully penetrate my girlfriend. We already notice a difference, but that doesn't necessarily mean she'll be able to accomodate more and more of me. Guess I'll have to keep stretching her pussy to find out. LOL.
     
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    Spank, you are really an awesome guy! You very nearly made me cry, so shame on you (lol), but I appreciate the kind words because I know you mean it and you deal with it just like I do.
    In reading this thread, perhaps I should have pmmed you instead of making this public, but it feels really nice to have you reach out across the ocean in friendship to me. I guess we do have a kinship of sorts. FWIW, I think you're right on the money about most women havng no clue whatsoever about what a 12'' dick looks like, and I'm so sorry for the ignorance and jealousy of others who accuse you or anyone of lying about something like that. Anyone having such an endowment would never brag about it for attention, more likely (like you) they'd be looking for ways to deal with it. I also wish you great luck in finding the right girl who will love the whole guy that is you- big dick and all!

    *pinches Spank's cheeks and gives noogies*
     
  15. Imported

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    dijstra:
    Do you know this from personal experience, or is it merely from hearsay? I'd very much like to hear other's opinions and experiences.
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    My wife cunt was as tight as hell (hurt me as much as her) when we got together; she still sometimes has trouble but thats normally cos I'm in hurry and haven't done enough foreplay to get her really wet. Now she normally has not trouble but is she spasms or orgasms when I'm inside it can hurt like hell unless I'm ready for it; think vice clamping down on your cock or someone pulling a cabletie tight around you! That clampdown almost always causes me to cum so its not unwelcome.

    We spend more time with just my knob head inside her and her wanking my shaft cos thats what I like most

    Dij
     
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    I'll suggest a carpool to get to Zora's house!! :D
     
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    Sometimes I wonder how you keep such a positive demeanor sweetheart. I unfortunately don't fall within your sexual needs for a man, but it makes my heart ache to imagine sadness stretched across such a lovely face.

    I may not be able to offer what you need sexually, but I AM a world class hugg/cuddler who has a knack for knowing what people need most to warm their hearts.
     
  18. boywonder

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    Do you know this from personal experience, or is it merely from hearsay? I'd very much like to hear other's opinions and experiences.
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    if you read at the top of my post it says I found that info on webmd.com Which happens to be one of the worlds largest and most accurate medical encylopedias. So that information did come from people who speak from experience I'm guessing.
     
  19. Imported

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    berlioz: hello Mr spank the monkey,
    I have red your messages and I cannot help but being surprised and feeling sorry.
    I happened to have seen your pictures, like most people on this site I guess... and I do not understand why you get such a headache about your penis size:
    most men your age (and older) would do anything to have such a nice and huge cock.
    I understand you worry about women's vagina, but it seems to me secondary;
    the way you focus on your penis is interesting : you look at the same time very proud of it and embarrassed by it. Somehow , your penis seems external to your body, like something strange has grown on you and it is more "something" than a part of your own body.
    What I feel is that your anxiety has a little to do with how to satisfy women; but a lot more to do with your coming to terms with being a kind of "superman". You must have been aware that having such a cock provaocates admiratin, when it is not worshiping ! And I quite understand it is not easy to deal with that; someone gifted might wonder why he is and not the other; what have I done ? did I deserve it ?? Especially if you are not selfconfident enough. I have heard pretty similar stories but of being hung the guy was either very beautiful, or very clever and so on.
    I have to say in your case you seem to gather all these qualities;
    I would be pleased to talk to you,
    sorry about my english ( i am french)
    It was nice reading you and meting you; you're very frank and honest;
    cheers
    guillaumethomas@yahoo.com
     
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