Speaking of bottoms ...

[arliss]

which type of bottoms do gays perfer no tan lines or jock srap tan lines g string tan lines or tighty whity tan lines??

i think tan lines are gross no matter what they are from....... g-string ........ jock strap........etc...

 

[Young Pumper]

Hmm, interesting question.
My opinion is sort've an amalgamation of different answers. I believe that wanting to be a bottom is born, where becoming a great bottom takes time and patience.

For becoming a great bottom, I believe two things are essential- learning to make it pleasurable for yourself and making it pleasurable for the other person.

To become used to the sensations and make for easier and more comfortable penetration, I bought a dildo slightly larger than my boyfriend's cock and used it to train how to effectively relax muscles and such.

As for making it pleasurable for the other person, that should come naturally.

It comes down to the whole nature vs nurture debate, one I feel will never be resolved!

 

[BigSean]

With me, it took me time. The first time I took a cock I was terrified but practise makes perfect. As a total bottom, I know I am a good one. I am often told. Guys in dark rooms love fucking and fisting me and let's face it there it is just about sex

 

[EddieAztek]

Only some guys will let another man fuck him in his ass. Only a few. Some men are not letting another guy fuck them, no matter what! One time, we caught my brother getting a blowjob from his best friend and made the guy suck all our dicks too, and there were five of us home then. We said "do it or we'll tell your abuelita we caught you," and he did it! WTF? Everyday for 2 weeks, he came to our house before my mother found out and beat the shit out of all of us. One day all of us, except my little brother, fuck my brother's friend in his ass, and this fool came back the next day, and 8 more days. Eight? Most guys would have quit after the first day! We were young, still in school but I don't think it mattered. I can understand one time, but coming back every day?! Naaa. He did the same shit we did, messed with the same girls, but maybe he liked it a little bit.

 

[Principessa]

a tan firm bubble butt on a well hung stud is awesome and even the babes agree....... only guys some of us know how to use those glutes and squeeze the cum right out of a bi or str 8 bro....

I don't mean to hijack this thread; but some of us girls can do that too :smile:


I have always enjoyed anal stimulation, but it wasn't until last year that I actually had anal sex. He was about 7x5 and the first time we did it he slid in so easy I almost asked if he was in. :tongue: It wasn't until he was balls deep that I felt some pain; but the next thing I remember was realizing that this was bliss and I was backing up to meet each of his thrusts. :biggrin1:

What can I say, a true butt slut was born that day. :flirt::05: I used to beg him to fuck my ass hard, really ream it good. Fortunately, I am in the minority of women who have orgasms from anal sex. I call them my analgasms and I can have multiples. My analgasms are stronger and longer than my vaginal or clitoral orgasms. I also learned to control my anal muscles while being fucked to maximize both of our pleasures. :smile:

Oddly, I knew from that first afternoon that I could handle a bigger cock than his. :redface:

Why is it so hard to find a nice straight or bi-guy to fuck my ass?
To answer the original question, this bottom was definetely born not made. :biggrin1:

 

[hypolimnas]

Why is it so hard to find a nice straight or bi-guy to fuck my ass?
To answer the original question, this bottom was definetely born not made. :biggrin1: [/quote]


Hey thanks for the reply, right on topic!

Hug :tongue:

 

[Scott8361]

I remember my early years of puberty of exploring anal pleasure. I liked to feel things penetrate my ass. So maybe I am in the "born, not made" camp. I liked to explore bigger sizes and always remember loving to feel things go in my ass.

I didn't get to really explore anal pleasure until I had a lot of privacy when I got my first apartment by myself after college. I did have a couple guys fuck me, but they were awkward one night things that never went well. Guys and women have commented on liking the looks of my ass!

I hope someday I get to be bottom to a really well endowed guy. I really like THICK dildos. I hope to find a nice fat cock I can take my time with someday.

 

[Stealthblade]

An interesting thread. As willing as I was to bottom when I was first sexually active in college, neither I, nor my first several partners, knew what the #&!# we were doing. They just rammed away, it hurt like hell, and I thought I hated it. Subsequently, I had a boyfriend who was a total bottom, and a superb teacher: with hands, eyes, and coaching, this young man got me into the right positions/angles, slowed me down, sped me up, to guarantee he'd get maximum pleasure out of sex when I'd top him, so, from the perspective of being a top, I learned from him vicariously what to do to receive anal pleasure by giving it. Later, with a more seasoned lover, who, like novice btm's, talked me through things gently and caringly (literally with "The Joy of Gay Sex" on the bedstand), I was able to revisit bottoming, this time with complete success. Once you learn how to groove on the intensity of having your prostate massaged--WOWZA! But, for some of us, it took practice, time, and coaching.

 

[hot-rod]

This bottom was definitely born that way.......from the time I knew I was attracted to men I've always wanted to take dick.....especially wanted to accomodate those men with something extra who had difficulty finding bottoms able to take them.:biggrin1:

LOL You're a tramp, I love it! LOL

 

[Balljunkie]

Bottoming is hard. The first time, the guy fucked me hard and it hurt like hell. The second time, the guy was gentle and it was some good shit. Third time, it sucked and hurt like hell. Fourth time, it was good.

I think that a good bottom is born that way. I prefer topping, and some of the bottoms I have met can ride a dick like a champ. I had this one guy ride the shit out of me, he came, I came, he jumped off, and said, let's go. I was like, what a champ. When I met him, I never would have thought he could get down like that.

A really good bottom, is born that way. You can learn, but a true bottom is born that way.

 

[B_josiah852]

I have known several bottoms that were perfect for the job. I think guys that prefer to bottom have a deffinate ability to show how much they love it.

 

[EddieAztek]

Babies, if you got the right guy, a good guy like my friend, any man can be a bottom. And this weekend I had the sore ass to prove it.

 

[Bbucko]

As a top with no talent for bottoming whatsoever, I'm gonna have to say born, not made.

I tried for most of my teens...just never worked out for me. But I gotta dip my hat to all the powerbottoms posting in this thread.

 

[B_AndyA]

You know how in psychology they say we all go through this anal stage when we're babies and very young? Well, the anal stage revolves around our bowel movements and whether we can hold them in time to get to the toilet or if we still need diapers. It becomes somewhat of an obsession even though we're too young to even realize that.

Do you think that guys who are bottoms never got over that stage?

Also, with all I've read about anal sex I wonder if it's healthy at all. Of course it's the easiest way to get AIDS and other STD's if you're not in a monogamous relationship. And if you don't clean yourself thoroughly before each encounter, it pushes feces way up into your system which can't be good with all the fecal bacteria. You obviously have to keep it well lubricated during the encounter. If not, it can hurt the recipient and also cause the condom to break. A rectum is just a dry canal and unable to produce it's own lubrication like the vagina.

And what about the damage it can do to your anus? We pass a bowel movement but that only takes a few seconds. Something going in and out and bigger than a stool could possibly do damage and the rectal muscle may lose its elasticity. We've all heard stories about gays who can't hold their bowels when they age.

Anal sex seems kind of odd. It's almost like a man pretending he's a woman but he has no vagina between his legs, so his anus becomes a pretend vagina.

Some say the anus is an erogenous zone, but whenever I've seen a guy getting anal in porn he's not even hard which is kind of odd. Shouldn't he be hard if it's an erogenous zone? Just talking about sex, kissing, nipple play or touching gets me hard, but those guys are flaccid throughout the entire encounter.

I'm not sure what to make of any of this.

 

[EdWoody]

I'd say you have very limited experience.

The anus IS an erogenous zone. You can't have seen much porn, because plenty of guys stay hard while getting fucked. I know I always do. The nerve endings around the anus and the prostate up inside the rectum make for astonishingly erotic sensations, not to mention the psychological arousal of just having sex in the first place.

If you're trying to get fucked while there's feces in the rectal canal, then of course it's going to be uncomfortable. But the only time there should be feces in the rectal canal is just when you're about to take a crap. Before you get to that stage it's way higher in the colon, out of reach of all but the most insanely oversized penises. So if there's feces there, have yourself a nice normal bowel movement, expel it, and away you go.

And very few men would thank you for telling them they're pretending to be a woman. There's nothing inherently feminine about enjoying all the sensations the body can give you. Them's fighting words.

 

[Dinky7X7]

I'm 60 year old, I learned at a fairly young age to top and bottom, I'm only 7" but I'm a 7" er in circumference and I'm been told many times that I feel so good going in and out. I agree that a huge penis is easier to bottom for than a thin guy. Nothing like feeling a big guy cum deep inside my butt.

The largest guy I've ever bottomed for was a 12" uncut monster, he must have been 8"+ in circumfrence. He helt so good, met him in Vegas, and remember what happens in Vegas, stays in vegas.

 

[BigSean]

I always get comments about my bottoming talents. I have never wanted to top and have been bottoming for years with positive feedback

 

[B_AndyA]

I'd say you have very limited experience.

The anus IS an erogenous zone. You can't have seen much porn, because plenty of guys stay hard while getting fucked. I know I always do. The nerve endings around the anus and the prostate up inside the rectum make for astonishingly erotic sensations, not to mention the psychological arousal of just having sex in the first place.

And very few men would thank you for telling them they're pretending to be a woman. There's nothing inherently feminine about enjoying all the sensations the body can give you. Them's fighting words.

When you say I have limited anal experience you are right. I have none and don't want any.

I've seen plenty of porn and the bottom is usually playing with himself trying to get hard but not getting hard until the end when he usually cums on himself. When he's riding the guy his penis is flopping around as flaccid as can be. I was recently reading a website about frot and it mentions the same thing.

Gays should really put an end to anal. It's such a filthy act and causes problems later in life. It's a way to pass a bowel movement and not an entrance for anything, never mind a penis. And it has nothing to do with being gay, and just feminizes the bottom. It makes him a "woman". Gay guys should both be masculine and equal and forget about tops and bottoms.

I'd advise all gays to read the frot website.

My brother in law is a urologist in a practice in Boston, and he was telling me that he and his partners are seeing many guys coming in with major rectal problems from anal sex. He examines them and obviously their prostate and all that, but there's nothing he can do about the anal problems, so he and his partners are referring them to surgeons. They have tears, bleeding, scarring, they're losing their ability to hold in their bowels movements. And anal sex also increases the risk of getting anal cancer.

He and his partners have asked these guys what is going on and they all say the same thing. They read on the internet that anal sex is okay. And they saw anal in porn movies, so it must be okay. The popularity of the internet over the past 10 years has influenced so many guys and not in a good way.

After he told me this I did some investigating of my own, and found the same thing. All of the gay websites are promoting anal which is really sad. It's very irresponsible. These same websites advise people not to use drugs because they can cause your body damage, but in the same respect advocate anal which harms your body in other ways.

 

[B_AndyA]

I always get comments about my bottoming talents. I have never wanted to top and have been bottoming for years with positive feedback

That's nothing to be proud of Sean. Sure they may be enjoying you, but you only have one body and the long term damage you experience may be hard to fix.

 

[Male Bonding etc]

Babies, if you got the right guy, a good guy like my friend, any man can be a bottom. And this weekend I had the sore ass to prove it.

Eddie, can we now safely say that your homosexual experiences did NOT end after high school? No judgement here, just a little observation on how things can change.