Speaking of bottoms ...

[hypolimnas]

I always get comments about my bottoming talents. I have never wanted to top and have been bottoming for years with positive feedback

Cool, great you are a confident bottom, thanks for your post.:biggrin1:

 

[houtx48]

my dream is to bottom for bucko.............wooof
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[Principessa]

Eddie, can we now safely say that your homosexual experiences did NOT end after high school? No judgement here, just a little observation on how things can change.

Male Bonding, sounds to me like Eddie is definetely bi-sexual. Too bad our puritanical society has led him to believe that is a bad thing.:redface:

 

[Principessa]

Babies, if you got the right guy, a good guy like my friend, any man can be a bottom. And this weekend I had the sore ass to prove it.

Is it my imagination or did you just recently change your %'s to 90% Gay/10% Straight ?!?

Did it have something to do with this friend and getting your butt properly plowed. :tongue: Care to share that story with the rest of us?

 

[B_AndyA]

No, it means that I didn't know how to completely loosen up my anal muscles. I also wasn't enjoying it very much, which contributed to the tension in my ass. As a result, anal sex was always painful. I had already learned how to prepare (clean) my rectum for anal, I just wasn't enjoying the actual sex. It wasn't until my first huge cock encounter that I learned of my love for extra large ones....then came the ability to relax and let myself get fucked, then came the enjoyment. It all naturally fell into place after I came to know what I loved and needed...in my ass that is.

I have a relative who's a doctor and you may think you're enjoying that, but the damage it's doing may be irreversable. This doctor sees guys with anal problems all the time and has to refer them to surgeons. You say it was painful at first. Of course it was painful at first. It's supposed to be. That was a hint to stop. Your body was sending you a signal. What you did by relaxing your muscles was to allow your body to do something it didn't want to do. And that's not a good thing.

 

[Principessa]

When you say I have limited anal experience you are right. I have none and don't want any. So why are you spewing your bilious negative thoughts in every thread on anal sex that you can find?

I've seen plenty of porn and the bottom is usually playing with himself trying to get hard but not getting hard until the end when he usually cums on himself. When he's riding the guy his penis is flopping around as flaccid as can be. I was recently reading a website about frot and it mentions the same thing. Hmmm, me thinks you dost protest too much for a man who enjoys watching so much gay porn.

Gays should really put an end to anal. It's such a filthy act and causes problems later in life. It's a way to pass a bowel movement and not an entrance for anything, never mind a penis. And it has nothing to do with being gay, and just feminizes the bottom. It makes him a "woman". Gay guys should both be masculine and equal and forget about tops and bottoms.

I'd advise all gays to read the frot website.

My brother in law is a urologist in a practice in Boston, and he was telling me that he and his partners are seeing many guys coming in with major rectal problems from anal sex. He examines them and obviously their prostate and all that, but there's nothing he can do about the anal problems, so he and his partners are referring them to surgeons. They have tears, bleeding, scarring, they're losing their ability to hold in their bowels movements. Perhaps those men were raped or engaged in more risky sex behaviors. I have a few gay friends. One has been having anal sex for over 25 years and he has never had a polyp, hemorrhoid, or fissure. And anal sex also increases the risk of getting anal cancer. Are you aware that Farrah Fawcett has anal cancer and she is NOT a gay male.

He and his partners have asked these guys what is going on and they all say the same thing. They read on the internet that anal sex is okay. And they saw anal in porn movies, so it must be okay. The popularity of the internet over the past 10 years has influenced so many guys and not in a good way. I agree, but I think the negative effect of porn is worse on straight men. They seem to believe no matter how ugly, stupid, or hairy they are, they deserve to be with a super model. Also porn positions are done for camera angles not comfort or pleasure. After he told me this I did some investigating of my own, and found the same thing. All of the gay websites are promoting anal which is really sad. It's very irresponsible. These same websites advise people not to use drugs because they can cause your body damage, but in the same respect advocate anal which harms your body in other ways. If anal sex bothers you so much, then don't do it!

 

[CUBE]

Interesting that some here think only gay men like anal. Lots of straight guys like some ass play becasue they are just sensual. It is not a "gay" activity. It is just another sexual position. Of course, like any physical activity...one must be careful.

 

[Matthew]

Good points, CUBE & njqt. And the argument you guys are disproving is really just a way to condemn, sugar-coated with falsely dispassionate reasoning.

LOL.

 

[cklover]

I love and am attracted to bottoms. Cegro27 is just about the most luscious one around these days. It's a personal and private thing among gay men.

 

[B_AndyA]

Interesting that some here think only gay men like anal. Lots of straight guys like some ass play becasue they are just sensual. It is not a "gay" activity. It is just another sexual position. Of course, like any physical activity...one must be careful.

Of course it's not entirely a gay thing, but straight people have another option: a vagina. More gay men are going to engage in anal than straights.

 

[B_AndyA]

So why are you spewing your bilious negative thoughts in every thread on anal sex that you can find?

Hmmm, me thinks you dost protest too much for a man who enjoys watching so much gay porn. I have a few gay friends. One has been having anal sex for over 25 years and he has never had a polyp, hemorrhoid, or fissure. Are you aware that Farrah Fawcett has anal cancer and she is NOT a gay male.

I agree, but I think the negative effect of porn is worse on straight men. They seem to believe no matter how ugly, stupid, or hairy they are, they deserve to be with a super model. Also porn positions are done for camera angles not comfort or pleasure. If anal sex bothers you so much, then don't do it!

I'm trying to help people. That's what these boards are all about. And who said I enjoy watching gay porn? I've watched it as well as straight porn. Why comment on something I've never seen? Your friend who's had nothing in over 25 years is very fortunate, but he's not a doctor who sees patients with rectal problems on a daily basis. And yes Farrah does have anal cancer. I have no idea if she got it from anal or if she just got it period. Either way is really sad. Anal cancer does not discriminate. And I don't do it.

 

[CUBE]

I don't agree tht anal sex creates anal cancer... anyway...

Not all guys like anal either...just not wired like that for many. Yes straight guys have more options. A straight guy that is curious for some light ass play is in for a treat. Your dick will feel huge and your orgasm will be so intense. You will have an amazing time. Just enjoy and don't get caught up in "Is this manly?" Just enjoy your gals service if she goes there.

Be careful...you just don't pound a fist in there. You have to be excited, well lubed, just play with the rim for a long while...and if you like it..go for a finger...slowly...then take it easy. You would actually be surprised hot masculine you feel while doing it.

As my friend says..."Anyone can be a top...it takes a real man to bottom."

 

[ashlar]

I'm trying to help people. That's what these boards are all about. And who said I enjoy watching gay porn? I've watched it as well as straight porn. Why comment on something I've never seen? Your friend who's had nothing in over 25 years is very fortunate, but he's not a doctor who sees patients with rectal problems on a daily basis. And yes Farrah does have anal cancer. I have no idea if she got it from anal or if she just got it period. Either way is really sad. Anal cancer does not discriminate. And I don't do it.

Clearly you've been misinformed, or your just completely stupid. Cancer, anal or otherwise, is not caused by anal sex. It's a genetic disorder. It's caused by genetic predisposition and/or exposure to certain chemical agents. If you'd simply done a little simple research you'd have realized this. I did a search on google for cancer to make sure I wasn't mistaken on this. One of the first sites to come up was cancer.orc (The American Cancer Society) here is a quote for you Andy in regards to the basics of cancer:

<i>"
Normal body cells grow, divide, and die in an orderly fashion. During the early years of a person's life, normal cells divide more rapidly until the person becomes an adult. After that, cells in most parts of the body divide only to replace worn-out or dying cells and to repair injuries.
Because cancer cells continue to grow and divide, they are different from normal cells. Instead of dying, they outlive normal cells and continue to form new abnormal cells.
Cancer cells develop because of damage to DNA. This substance is in every cell and directs all activities. Most of the time when DNA becomes damaged the body is able to repair it. In cancer cells, the damaged DNA is not repaired. People can inherit damaged DNA, which accounts for inherited cancers. More often, though, a person's DNA becomes damaged by exposure to something in the environment, like smoking."</i> ACS :: What Is Cancer?

 

[B_AndyA]

Clearly you've been misinformed, or your just completely stupid.

I'm misinformed or stupid?? Maybe you're in denial. Here's the topic from the CDC, but maybe people will say that we shouldn't believe the CDC because they hate gays or something ridiculous like that.

STD Facts - HPV and Men

HPV and Men - CDC Fact Sheet

Genital human papillomavirus (HPV) is a sexually transmitted virus. There are more than 30 types of genital HPV that can infect the genital area of men, including the skin on and around the penis or anus.

Most men who get genital HPV do not have any symptoms. However, some types of HPV can cause genital warts. Genital warts are single or multiple growths that appear in the genital area. They may be raised, flat, or cauliflower shaped.
In men, genital warts may appear around the anus or on the penis, scrotum (testicles), groin or thighs. Even men who have never had anal sex can get warts around the anus. Warts may appear within weeks or months after sexual contact with an infected person, or not at all. A person can have the type of HPV that causes genital warts, but never develop any warts.

Genital HPV is passed on through genital contact &#8211;such as vaginal and anal sex.
Both men and women can get HPV &#8211; and pass it on - without even realizing it.
Genital warts can also be passed on by a person who has HPV but no visible warts. Since the virus can be &#8220;silent&#8221; for a long time, people can have genital HPV even if years have passed since they have had sex.

Certain types of HPV have been linked to cancer of the anus and penis in men. These cancers are rare &#8211;especially in men with healthy immune systems. The types of HPV that can cause genital warts are not the same as the types that can cause penile or anal cancer.

Over half of sexually active men in the United States (U.S.) will have HPV at some time in their lives.
About 1% of sexually active men in the U.S. have genital warts at any one time.
The American Cancer Society (ACS) estimates that about 1,530 men will be diagnosed with penile cancer in the U.S. in 2006. In this country, penile cancer accounts for about 0.2% of all cancers in men. It is especially rare in circumcised men.
ACS estimates that about 1,910 men will be diagnosed with anal cancer in 2006. The risk for anal cancer is 17 times higher among gay and bisexual men than among heterosexual men. The risk is also higher among men with compromised immune systems, including those with HIV.

At the moment, there is no test approved to detect HPV in men. However, there are ways to detect the most common problem caused by HPV in men, genital warts. Genital warts are usually diagnosed by visual inspection. Some health care providers may use a vinegar solution to help identify flat warts, although this test is not specific for warts. That means the test may falsely identify normal skin as a wart.

There are currently no tests approved to detect early evidence of HPV-associated cancers in men, as there are for women (Pap tests). Nonetheless, since anal cancer is more common in gay, bisexual, and HIV-positive men, some experts recommend routine anal Pap tests for those populations. The anal Pap test is used to find abnormal cells in the anus (caused by HPV) that could turn into cancer over time. However, it is not yet clear that finding and removing abnormal cells from the anus will effectively prevent anal cancer from developing in the future. CDC does not recommend anal cancer screening.

There is no treatment or cure for HPV. But there are ways to treat the health conditions associated with HPV in men, including genital warts, penile cancer and anal cancer.
Visible genital warts can be treated with medication, surgically removed, or frozen off. Some of these treatments can be applied by the patient, while others must be performed by a health care provider. No one treatment is best. Warts might return, especially in the first 3 months after treatment.
It is not known whether treatment of genital warts will reduce the chance of passing the virus on to a sex partner. If left untreated, genital warts may go away, remain unchanged, or increase in size or number. They will not turn into cancer. For these reasons, some individuals may choose not to get treated, but to see if the warts will disappear on their own.

No. HPV is not like other sexually transmitted infections (STIs), which need to be detected and treated. HPV is a virus that lives in the skin, rather than in your body. There is no clear health benefit to knowing you have this virus&#8212;since HPV is unlikely to affect your health and cannot be treated. For most men, there would be no need to treat HPV, even if treatment were available&#8212; since it usually goes away on its own.

While most men will not develop health problems from HPV, some men are at higher risk of disease from HPV. HIV-positive men are more likely to get severe and prolonged cases of genital warts, which may be more resistant to treatment. They are also more likely to develop anal cancer.
It is also important for men to realize that they can unknowingly transmit HPV to their female sex partners. Compared to heterosexual men, women are at higher risk of developing disease from HPV&#8212;most notably, cervical cancer. Cervical cancer in women is much more common than anal or penile cancer in men. According to ACS, more than 9,700 women will be diagnosed with cervical cancer in the U.S. in 2006.

Because HPV is so common but usually invisible, the only sure ways to prevent it are not to have sex, or to have sex with only one uninfected person, who is only having sex with you. You can lower your risk by limiting your number of sex partners and choosing partners who have had few or no sex partners. Condoms may also lower your risk of HPV-associated conditions. Condoms may provide some but not complete protection against HPV, since HPV can infect skin that is not covered by a condom. Condoms have been shown to reduce the risk of genital warts and cervical cancer. Condoms can also reduce the risk of HIV and some other sexually transmitted infections, when used all the time and the right way.


I hear there's a HPV test for women, but not for men. Why not?
There is now an HPV test for women, which can be used as part of cervical cancer screening and management. This test is not a general check for HPV, and it is not designed to find HPV in men.
There is no general test for HPV that can tell a man or woman his or her &#8220;HPV status&#8221;. There is no clear health benefit to knowing if one has the virus&#8212;since it usually causes no health problems and goes away on its own.
My partner just found out she has HPV...

• What does it mean for me? Partners usually share HPV. If you have been partners for a long time, it is likely that you already have HPV. The types of HPV that put a woman at risk for cervical cancer very rarely cause any health problems for heterosexual men.
• What does that mean for her? This probably means she has a type of HPV on her cervix that could put her at risk for cervical cancer. She should follow up with her doctor or nurse as advised, so that she does not develop cervical cancer in the future. Also, she should know that most of the time, HPV goes away on its own without causing any health problems.
• What does it mean for us? HPV is not a sign that you or your partner has been unfaithful in the relationship. HPV can be silent in the body for many years before it is found on a test. She may have had HPV for many years, and there is no way to know when or from whom she got HPV.

 

[Principessa]

Of course it's not entirely a gay thing, but straight people have another option: a vagina. More gay men are going to engage in anal than straights. I think you are a narrow-minded whack job! I am a 100% straight woman and I LOVE a good anal reaming by a nice big cock. I always use condoms and proper lubrication and I have no intention of stopping something that gives me so much pleasure.

I'm trying to help people. No you aren't! You are prosletyzing! That's what these boards are all about. And who said I enjoy watching gay porn? I've watched it as well as straight porn. Why comment on something I've never seen? Huh? You just contradicted yourself.:tongue: Your friend who's had nothing in over 25 years is very fortunate, but he's not a doctor who sees patients with rectal problems on a daily basis. Nor are you. You are merely parroting the information you have received from a medical professional. And yes Farrah does have anal cancer. I have no idea if she got it from anal or if she just got it period. Either way is really sad. True Anal cancer does not discriminate. And I don't do it. ROTFLMAO Everything you have said here has been both discriminatory and inflammatory. LPSG is at least 50% Gay men. You are barking up the wrong tree. Go spew your hatred some place else.

 

[B_AndyA]

I think you are a narrow-minded whack job! I am a 100% straight woman and I LOVE a good anal reaming by a nice big cock. I always use condoms and proper lubrication and I have no intention of stopping something that gives me so much pleasure.[ You just contradicted yourself.Nor are you. You are merely parroting the information you have received from a medical professional.. ROTFLMAO Everything you have said here has been both discriminatory and inflammatory. LPSG is at least 50% Gay men. You are barking up the wrong tree. Go spew your hatred some place else.

Narrow minded. Get a life! I'm entitled to these boards just as much as you. All you do is spew hatred towards me. If you enjoy anal, go for it. But if you develop problems after a while, you have nobody to blame but yourself. And I'm not sure how I'm contradicting myself. Nothing I've said is discriminatory or inflammatory. I have gay friends and relatives. How dare you say that to me. I'm well aware of the amount of gay men on here.

 

[Balljunkie]

What I am trying to figure out is why aren't you telling this to women or straight men? I know plenty of straight men that have anal sex with their girlfriends. They tell me that the anus is sometimes tighter than their girlfriend's vagina.

That is what kills me. People always talk about gay men having anal sex, and all of the problems that it causes. They never once mention the problems that it will cause women. I guess that is because it is "hot" to plow a woman in her ass.

 

[hypolimnas]

I'm entitled to these boards just as much as you.

The rest of us are entitled to question your errors of fact and your motivation.

Have you ever wondered why you are obsessed with anal sex between men? All the reading, watching all those unhealthy vids, talking to your 'relation who is a doctor', and getting into arguments about things you have no experience of?

Have you even tried living?

 

[Principessa]

I'm entitled to these boards just as much as you.

The rest of us are entitled to question your errors of fact and your motivation.

Have you ever wondered why you are obsessed with anal sex between men? All the reading, watching all those unhealthy vids, talking to your 'relation who is a doctor', and getting into arguments about things you have no experience of?

Have you even tried living?

I was wondering the same thing! He is definetely obsessed with anal sex. Perhaps he is the type of person Sigmund Freud referred to as being anally retentive. :tongue:

 

[B_AndyA]

What I am trying to figure out is why aren't you telling this to women or straight men? I know plenty of straight men that have anal sex with their girlfriends. They tell me that the anus is sometimes tighter than their girlfriend's vagina.

That is what kills me. People always talk about gay men having anal sex, and all of the problems that it causes. They never once mention the problems that it will cause women. I guess that is because it is "hot" to plow a woman in her ass.

It is for whoever wants to listen. That is, people who are open minded and willing to listen to both sides of the story. As the other poster mentioned, about 50% of the men on this board are gay, so I am directing it at them (the ones who are recipients of anal). The tops don't care. They're not going to suffer the damage. Not all gay men are even into anal.

Yes, there are straight men that love to have anal with women, but they also have another alternative: a vagina. And many of those straight men are selfish and only care about their own needs and not those of their partner. They are just as bad. I know women who have been dumped because they wouldn't have anal with their boyfriends. That's how mixed up this society has become.