- Joined
- Aug 28, 2007
- Posts
- 164
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 32
- Points
- 163
- Location
- Dallas, Oak Cliff, TX
- Sexuality
- 99% Gay, 1% Straight
- Gender
- Male
I posted this in another post this morning:
I had a gay friend years ago that was not exposed to hugging and it showed when I hugged him. He'd get stiff as a board. It was awkward but I persisted in comings and goings and he eventually got over it and came to be completely relaxed about it. I think he grew to enjoy this simple act and it became the only method of our greeting and parting. I have a straight German (a formal society) friend that was like that too and he's relaxed about it now.
I enjoy the act of hugging a guy (women too but guys are better:wink. There's something satisfying about it. It's a non-sexual contact and seems to strike an internal cord which suggests that "I care for you".
What have your experiences been? Did it come natural for you either on the give or receiving end?
I did a superficial search on the topic and didn't find much so I thought I post something on this to see what your experiences had been.My family was never demonstrative so we never hugged. When I moved out and into the gay community that changed. It seemed the gay boy's preferred manner of greeting and parting company was a big hug. I suppose we were making up for all the lost opportunities for simple non-sexual male contact. I enjoy the act of hugging. It's a fulfilling and bonding experience. Where it sometimes gets a tad awkward is when I'm among straight acquaintances and I forget that they're straight and automatically open my arms for a hug. Then you can't decide to quick switch to a handshake or force the hug. Fortunately that hasn't happened too often and one of my straight buds never had an issue with it.
I had a gay friend years ago that was not exposed to hugging and it showed when I hugged him. He'd get stiff as a board. It was awkward but I persisted in comings and goings and he eventually got over it and came to be completely relaxed about it. I think he grew to enjoy this simple act and it became the only method of our greeting and parting. I have a straight German (a formal society) friend that was like that too and he's relaxed about it now.
I enjoy the act of hugging a guy (women too but guys are better:wink. There's something satisfying about it. It's a non-sexual contact and seems to strike an internal cord which suggests that "I care for you".
What have your experiences been? Did it come natural for you either on the give or receiving end?