Spencer Stew Of (spencervipx And Spencerstew7)

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We are going to need LOTS of stats and reference sources for all the above. Or is it just one person's opinion, presented as fact? Peace and thanks.

I didn’t present what I said as “facts”. But it’s mere common sense. Never mind that I took a couple of queer theory classes. (I don’t like to throw that around, because I don’t think it validates anything I say). It’s rather silly in 2024 to still be hyping up “gay4pay” or to not understand how individual “sexuality” and people’s psyches are or to dismiss how vast and varied the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum is. I personally don’t care about identity. And I recognize that men who are truly hetero and “straight” can indulge queer behaviors. But the only folks still hyping up “gay4pay” are queers who are into that fantasy fully, dudes with queer dimensions who still want to be “straight presenting”, and monosexuals who don’t understand the “quirks” of the spectrum.
 
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I didn’t present what I said as “facts”. But it’s mere common sense. Never mind that I took a couple of queer theory classes. (I don’t like to throw that around, because I don’t think it validates anything I say). It’s rather silly in 2024 to still be hyping up “gay4pay” or to not understand how individual “sexuality” and people’s psyches are or to dismiss how vast and varied the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum is. I personally don’t care about identity. And I recognize that men who are truly hetero and “straight” can indulge queer behaviors. But the only folks still hyping up “gay4pay” are queers who are into that fantasy fully, dudes with queer dimensions who still want to be “straight presenting”, and monosexuals who don’t understand the “quirks” of the spectrum.
Good, because it wasn't factual or "common sense", just as queer theory is theory and not factual or common sense. Glad we agree. Only point left is that you mentioned people who are into "fantasy", as though porn is anything else BUT fantasy. Like fake boobs - everyone knows they are fake, but plays along.
Or most everyone. Maybe not those who have studied "boobs theory"? :D Peace.
 

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Ok so I am completely new here but reading through this thread I had to speak up. Cashgod Spence is NOT spencer, but a known catfish. It’s the exact same catfish that has the “alpharickyx” Twitter page (using all of Rocky Yarborough’s pics) and cashgod Blake (using all of Blake hoffman’s pics) and that’s just a few of the catfish accounts. The braxtonstonevip Twitter page IS Spencer.
Correct. Everyone go and report cashgodspence.
 

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I don’t believe male sexuality is fluid. I think straight men would never have sexual contact with another man unless they have lowered their inhibitions by drug and alcohol use. 99% of these men are closeted gay men or bisexual men who play a role to make them more comfortable. Men having sex with men is not acting, it’s performing sex acts and your body is aroused and capable of doing.

I used to think just like you. That is, until I experienced fluidity myself. Arousal, desire, enjoyment, passions very well can waver for a lot of people. And it can also take time for someone to truly understand the dimensions of their “sexuality” and of the gender, emotion, romantic, relationship contentment aspects of themselves. Because we’re so obsessed with sexual behaviors and identities, and because sex is so connected to ego for most men, it can take a very long time for men to completely understand themselves. Some never get to that place of self-understanding or self-comfort. That’s even for many “out” guys. They think embracing an identity or having sex with guys is the be-all of their journey then get frustrated later. But yes, “fluidity” is a thing and a potential aspect of many people’s “sexuality”. It’s not just some theory many people decided to collectively make up.

However, yes, a lot of these men claiming to be “gay4pay” or “curious” or “open-minded” or claimed to experience fluidity are lying. Many have and have always had fairly stable dimensions. They just weren’t willing to accept it. Many have a lot of insecurities and mental health issues and constantly deal with internalized phobias and misandry. Many are ignorant when it comes to dimensions and the spectrum. The ultimate problem is that there’s still too much weight put on sex and identities. While there’s still a lot of social equity attached to “straightness” and masculinity, even among “queers”. That’s why pushing “gay4pay” is still a thing. That’s why masculine/“straight passing” privilege and worship is still a thing. That’s why “queers” trying hard to stay attached to hetero-normalcy and hetero appeal is still a thing.
 
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