sperm or egg donation

[ManlyBanisters]

I've seen this topic before. It's been discussed here on numerous occasions, maybe not in Women's Issues, but I've seen it before.

I once dated a woman who selected her breeding partner in part because of his height, and in part because of his big cock. She knew the size of the man's other sons' (from his first marriage) genitals, too. I never asked her how she knew that, but I gleaned that she fucked at least one of them while their dad wasn't home. She "wanted her son to have a big dick". She also had him circumcised because she "didn't want the girl who gave him his first blowjob to be put off or laugh at him". Howzat for creepy? That shallow, narcissistic bitch and I did not last long, and I am glad.

Yes, love - but she was shit-house crazy and beyond. So I don't believe she counts as anything other than the exception proving the rule.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I said, Good DAY, sir!!

Wait, isnt that a line from a movie?

 

[B_Hickboy]

Wait, isnt that a line from a movie?

I think Bilbo Baggins said it to Gandalf more than once.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Wait, isnt that a line from a movie?

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, the Simpsons, Tootsie, Jon Stewart uses it on the Daily Show, That 70s Show... take your pick.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Charlie and Chocolate Factory!

 

[yman74]

Take your pitiful tripe elsewhere. You aren't going to get support for your supposed "designer" genital thoughts. That was something YOU thought about when you heard about donor sperm and eggs. Not us. You were hoping your pathetic thoughts were shared. But most of us are mothers and we find it very stupid that you'd place your own bizarre thoughts on our minds as a burden.

You are judging other people in your posts in this very thread. Don't preach to us about not judging you. Stop and think for 2 seconds how stupid your question was and how it negates the actual thoughts and concerns of a couple trying to get pregnant and the priorities on the list.

Wanting a person who graduated from Harvard is a more honorable and desired trait than a guy who fucked the deepest pussies in all of porn history.

Have you ever set foot in a doctors office? These clinics that take these samples don't ask for things like "Penis length and girth" "Do you have low hanging balls" "Are your breasts large?"

If they did they would be considered perverse and unprofessional. Many of us also have a medical background, a maternal background or even an background in infertility. So when you got your nuts handed back to you, you could have just moved on and realized you didn't put a semi-intelligent thought about the subject before asking about it.

Your mind is what referred to the dick size, so maybe you are the one with the issues. Maybe we are the disappointed ones, not you.

If you had this so called backround you speak of, you would know there are women and couples who pay big bucks for eggs privately. These are people looking for exact features. Since, this forum is about large penises and people who have an interest in the topic.

If you are not one of those people its fine and its fine to state that. However, you are not the final answer on this topic and there might be men and women who disagree with you. I can tell you are not a tolerant person. I asked this question to this board because I thought I would find people on here that would judge the question, not the person who asked it.

I am the kind of person who often argues points I don't nessessarly agree with, just to see what people are thinking.

LPSG please show that some of you are more open-minded than this lady.

 

[B_Hickboy]

It is a creepy question.

 

[HiddenLacey]

If you had this so called backround you speak of, you would know there are women and couples who pay big bucks for eggs privately. These are people looking for exact features. Since, this forum is about large penises and people who have an interest in the topic.

If you are not one of those people its fine and its fine to state that. However, you are not the final answer on this topic and there might be men and women who disagree with you. I can tell you are not a tolerant person. I asked this question to this board because I thought I would find people on here that would judge the question, not the person who asked it.

I am the kind of person who often argues points I don't nessessarly agree with, just to see what people are thinking.

LPSG please show that some of you are more open-minded than this lady.

I just took the question at face value. If I wanted donated sperm would I care if the donor had a large package.

It would have never crossed my mind to think of it. I personally, would rather base my selection on other things.

The question itself didn't bother me. It would not surprise me if someone has not specifically asked for this before.

 

[petite]

I would have never thought of it. It would have never occurred to me if you hadn't brought it up, and now I wish you hadn't. In order to think along those lines, you'd have to wonder about your own son's future sex life, which you just made me do, and I don't appreciate that.

I just realized that if I have a son that he'll probably be hung like his daddy. I wish I could erase that thought from my mind. I feel sort of gross right now.

Yes, it's a creepy question! It's a creepy "white elephant" sort of question that makes you think of things you wish you could unthink!

 

[yman74]

Where do we draw the line at creepy. Is choosing sex creepy? Is choosing physical features creepy? Is choosing a donor based on IQ creepy? My personal opinion is yes. I can see people having issues with themselves and choosing to try to have a baby based on their own inadequacies.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

What you are describing may make some feel uncomfortable.

Trying to involve yourself in your children's sex lives, in whatever way, is creepy.

 

[RLSteve]

This is one judgmental group. I was just asking a question. Parents who order "Designer" babies and pay big money worry about or sorts of weird things like what college they go to, what gpa they have there, are they an athlete. Does any of this stuff really matter? I was just asking a weird question. My personal feelings are that there are alot of needy children out there that need a loving home for adoption.

People who have money for the "designer" babies have a right to be picky. At least they're being responsible and they're not bringing children into the world that they can't take care of, that they have to put up for adoption.

Also, yes, I'd say that that stuff does in fact matter if you want to increase your child's chances of having opportunities. You are trying to give your child the best attributes that you can give.

 

[1kmb1]

yeah, the first thing any expecting parent thinks of is the future size of their sons cock.

 

[B_Hickboy]

People who have money for the "designer" babies have a right to be picky. At least they're being responsible and they're not bringing children into the world that they can't take care of, that they have to put up for adoption.

Also, yes, I'd say that that stuff does in fact matter if you want to increase your child's chances of having opportunities. You are trying to give your child the best attributes that you can give.

Random and subjective.

 

[rob_just_rob]

I was hoping for a open-minded sounding board. Guess I was wrong.

Your question is creepy. But you're right about this place not being open minded.

 

[B_jeepguy2]

Let me ask you instead: If you were hoping to conceive after repeated failing in this area- would you prefer an egg from a woman who had big tits and would you want your daughter to have big tits also?

HELL NO! I don't want a daughter with big tits because in about 13 years I DO NOT want to have to deal with a bunch of horny teenage boys with perpetual hardons who all want to fuck my daughter because she has the biggest set of hooters in the whole high school.

When I donated sperm they were concerned about my educational level. How long my parents, grandparents, and great grandparents lived and what they died of, and any medical problems that run in the family. I did give them a set of photos of me from when I was an infant up to my high school senior picture that was my most recent photo at the time.

 

[1kmb1]

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, the Simpsons, Tootsie, Jon Stewart uses it on the Daily Show, That 70s Show... take your pick.

i dont remember that being in Charlie and the crap factory remake. although ive only seen it once.

just the original.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

i dont remember that being in Charlie and the crap factory remake. although ive only seen it once.

just the original.

Did I say it was in the remake?

 

[dolfette]

this thread is just plain creepy.

yuck!

 

[B_Craiggers]

I am currently listening to a npr program about egg donation. This caused a weird thought in my head. If you were looking for a sperm donor would you want to know his cock size? Not for you of course, but if you had a son would you want him to be hung?

The choices made with respect to physical appearance are generally done so that the child's appearance would be more likely to fall into the spectrum where people who didn't know might view him/her as the biological offspring of the parent raising him/her.

For most parents, what you want most for your children to be happy and healthy. Considering the value that most guys put on having big dicks, I don't think it at all unusual for guys to hope their sons are well endowed because they think their sons would be happier in life that way. I can say it wouldn't be a consideration for me if I had to use a sperm donor, but I don't think it strays into pedophilia if some guy's thinking about it. They just have a notion, possibly a misguided one (but possibly not), that their son would be happier that way.

I don't think women put the value on it that men do and most would rightly scream at you "WTF are you talking about you pervert!!" when you run this thought by them. Putting this question in women's issues was a dumb move

Girls with big breasts are a different story, because as much as guys may like them, they're just as likely to cause unhappiness for the girl herself. A lot of early bloomers I knew got teased & picked on mercilessly by other girls growing up. They can cause back issues, and I know more then a handful of women who've had their breasts reduced surgically because of it.