Spit or swallow

[502855]

If they don’t swallow, then I want it back. Spit in my mouth nowhere else.

 

[bwhip1011]

They can do whatever the fuck they like to me. If I don't like it then they're the first to know. Second to know is anyone in a five block radius. Lastly the ER.

 

[muskokan]

@ malakos and RowanB; do not get my statement misconstrued. I do not or would not tolerate any violation of my rights or autonomy, rather having my nose pinched shut and forced to swallow is something that i relish-not your cup of tea, fine by me but please do not look at my life through your lens because i do not judge yours through mine.
Anytime a cock goes in my mouth there is an expectation on my behalf to swallow, if he is rough with me(within reason)all the better. Parse that statement however you want but i like a bit of rough stuff. That is just me and my myriad of problems.

 

[kinkboy]

Swallow. Otherwise whats the point!?

 

[Infernal]

I don't swallow. Don't even want it in my mouth. If I'm getting blown, the guy sucking me can do what he wants with it. Getting me off from a BJ is hard enough. If he can actually do that, he can do whatever he wants with it.

 

[cedarizzo]

Always swallow. The only reason I would spit is if it had a horrible taste. I sucked a guy off a few times and each time, his cum has the most horrible awful taste to it. It tasted bad enough that i knew I didn't want it in my body. After the second time that happened, I didn't suck him anymore.

 

[linniejr]

I'd rather have the person spit it out than throw it up

 

[deine_huendin]

Always swallow. The only reason I would spit is if it had a horrible taste. I sucked a guy off a few times and each time, his cum has the most horrible awful taste to it. It tasted bad enough that i knew I didn't want it in my body. After the second time that happened, I didn't suck him anymore.

there is no taste at all if he explodes deep in the throat...
no chance to spit if he comes staigjt down the throat, not in the mouth...

 

[LGEN]

I'm married (to a woman) and have a buddy that's also married to a woman. A few years ago we began jerking off together when watching porn and this evolved into sucking off one another. Both of us swallow and like it. Its really hot having that warm cream pumping into your mouth. Although for the times I've been away on business and have hooked up with a dude, I'd never consider swallowing or having an unknown cock in my mouth without a condom as I don't want any sort of disease. Ya never know. On another note, I go away a lot and need to stay at hotels. Its crazy how many straight married guys wind up in one or the others room and either jerking off together, jerking each other off or sucking cock.

 

[cedarizzo]

there is no taste at all if he explodes deep in the throat...
no chance to spit if he comes staigjt down the throat, not in the mouth...

I should have added that most of the time that happened was through a glory hole. You are only able to suck as much as they stick through the hole. Sometimes you can get them to shoot it down your throat. Other times, they will pull back just enough that it hits your tongue. And unfortunately sometimes they pull completely out when they shoot.

 

[deine_huendin]

I should have added that most of the time that happened was through a glory hole. You are only able to suck as much as they stick through the hole. Sometimes you can get them to shoot it down your throat. Other times, they will pull back just enough that it hits your tongue. And unfortunately sometimes they pull completely out when they shoot.

o.k. i understand.
i was kneeling in front of a dom straight, my head in his heavy hands...in the moment of coming he hold my deep down...

 

[cedarizzo]

o.k. i understand.
i was kneeling in front of a dom straight, my head in his heavy hands...in the moment of coming he hold my deep down...

Those are the best times. I love when he grabs me head and fucks my face. The ultimate reward is when he shoves it all the way in and shoots his load down my throat.

 

[hotbtminla]

I swallowed the first time I gave a guy head and have done it ever since. If you want me to suck you off, you ARE going to shoot your cum in my mouth and I AM going to swallow every drop. Don’t argue with me about this (no one ever has, but just in case lol).

 

[indenver]

Years ago I heard a saying, lay one brick doesn't make you a bricklayer but suck one coc k makes you a cocksucker. It's amazing how true it is.

 

[henry777]

Swallow if the mood strikes.


My gay blog: http://mendujour.tumblr.com

 

[fellatio4ever]

Oh i love to swallow. I want every bit of cum that shoots out, drips out and gets squeezed out. Yum!

 

[mac_46_46]

If he cums in my mouth, which is always my goal, I will always swallow his load. I get tgus wonderful feeling when another man cums in my mouth.

 

[kamahori]

I must say it is a big turnoff for me having my load spat out, there's something offensive about that. Health concerns are not very rational - swallowing is pretty safe and not much safer than spitting out.

Of course no one should do something they're not comfortable with, but to avoid the situation I ask a direct question from the start. If the answer isn't a straight yes, I'll accept that, but make it a condition in turn that I won't shoot. I have very good self-control and I'd much rather hold the load in my balls than have it spat out before me.

I particularly dislike guys who say they 'may' swallow, or 'if they're turned on'. it's a total killer for me - If they then don't swallow, that's like telling you they didn't enjoy it. If they do, you're left wondering that you made them do something they didn't want to. At least a 'no' is a grown-up standpoint.

 

[deleted1230731]

What utter crap. You're lucky if you don't get a punch to the groin if you pull shit like that. You have no right to force any part of a sex act against someone's will. It's a complete violation of autonomy.

I considered reporting this post for a moment, but I thought better of it. I would like for this sort of callous disregard for individual dignity, that pops up on LPSG here and there with some regularity, to be exposed and known.

What makes you think that wasn't pre-negotiated? Wherein did I say, "FORCE"? You read "FORCE" into it. Must be your own baggage/filter.

You've never asked someone to go 'harder' or 'rougher' or said 'take me' or similar?

You might be shocked to know how many people want to be 'made' to do something. 'I'm going to resist, but take me anyway." That is a fantasy for a lot of people.

Don't assume I said "FORCE" when I didn't.

 

[kamahori]

Hm. To be fair, when someone is trying to spit and you (quote)
Put one hand under his jaw, and as soon as you come, pull your cock out, and close his jaw. With the other hand, pinch his nostrils closed. He might struggle, but he'll swallow.
that's pretty much the definition of forcing someone.

Not that I don't share the frustration at guys who spit, as I said above. But this territory of bottoms wanting to be 'made' to do things is so shifty - that's how a lot of women have been taught to act, and look what that has done to the relationship between opposite sexes. All these ambiguous situations lending themselves to misunderstanding, regret and even abuse.

It's so much more masculine and horny to have a bottom ask for it. I even make them repeat it until it comes out loud and clear. If they haven't got the balls to do that, I'm not interested. We all need to take responsibility for who we are. Or that's how I see it.