Spit vs. swallow and why is it important?

[Stephenmass]

I'm a spitter guys. Sorry. I love the feel of the cock in my mouth, my tongue stimulating the bottom of his dick, the head, I love the feel of that first squirt hitting the back of my mouth, the sour tingly sensation that tells me he's ejaculating his sperm into me. And then I'm left with that thick wad of slimy mucus pooling on my tongue, making me want to gag. I spit. Don't take it as rejection.

Perhaps if you didn't think of it as a "thick wad of slimy mucus"? I tend to cum a lot and love nonstop until I am finished. When I let it go I am usually down the back of his throat anyway so it just goes down easily.

 

[Stephenmass]

It feels damn good. Especially if the person keeps sucking after I cum. Just to make sure they get every last drop of my seed out of my balls and cock

I like to think of it as cleaning out the pipe!

 

[NudeDude71]

I think swallowing is better. Not so much about dominance in my opinion as it is about getting the full experience.

 

[Magnum10x2]

It's like pulling out when she's having an orgasm. RUDE and really uncool.

 

[9038421]

Swallow, less mess and all gone. Love to lick guys dick clean!

 

[Cocktail2099]

I've always swallowed cause that how I was taught. When I was young (late-teens), I met the first guy I hooked up with. He was a couple years older and always getting in trouble at work - often to get my attention and show me what a badass he was. I was so into him. He was very physical with me, he would rub his ass into my crotch, he would rub his crotch into my ass he'd grab my ass. And one day, he showed me his cock. I will never forget it - it was beautiful - big but not too much, perfectly shaped and with a bright pink head (he was pretty fair). He told me that he was hard and asked if I was - I was about to say 'no' cause it was work and when I thought about it I was. In the time it took him to take it out I was hard - 100%. I nodded 'yes', and he dropped to his knees and went to town on me. I was in heaven. In no time (2 minutes max) I was saying I was going to cum. He got very excited and started saying something urgent but with a cock in his mouth, so I didn't know what he said. I tried to pull my cock out of his mouth but he grabbed my ass and shoved his face deep onto me. I couldn't stop - I came, and came. He swallowed every drop. As he started to stand up and I was kinda floating, I said 'sorry, but I did warn you'. He looked at me dead in the eye - with a huge smile, licked his lips, and said 'no, I wanted your load, it was great'. I then proceeded to blow him and do the same. I consider this lesson to be a gift, and many men have benefited from it.

 

[deleted1074483]

i don't swallow and don't expect my partners to swall - i don't swallow cos i just don't like the taste of it and prefer he just cums over me, i don't mind the mess. I prefer to cum in his ass tbh as i like the thought that he's let me breed him. If he wishes to swallow i don't mind at all and happy to oblige.

I've never heard anyone complain that i don't swallow and its certainly not rejection, nor do i feel rejected, and my experience has been that most partners have not wished to swallow either.

 

[winesthel945]

Not everyone's cum tastes great. If you're a smoker, heavy drinker, been eating a lot of rich foods, etc., your cum can be bitter and nasty. Once the recipient of the BJ has reached the point of orgasmic inevitability, the giver's job is 99.9% complete and all that's left is to help them over the finish line. Finishing in their mouth, on their face, on their chest, over their shoulder, up their nose... the giver of the BJ has no further required duties in the matter and it's "dealer's choice."

If you're expecting them to swallow and bent out of shape that they didn't, that's on you. You should negotiate that before you even unzip your pants. And if someone declines, you should graciously accept what you can get, or move on. If someone pressures another into it, grab their head aggressively so that they can't pull away if they're trying to, etc., then they're lucky the giver doesn't bite their dumbass dick off. Non-consensual forcible cumming is a form of rape.

So take what you can get and be glad for it. Or communicate your desires and find a willing recipient for your manjuice. Otherwise you need to reset your expectations.

 

[erpap]

I just responded to another thread dealing with an oral sex question and it made me think about this topic. I don't like it when I cum from oral and the person takes it and then spits it out. Why? The pleasure aspect is now complete yet I want them to swallow as I am cuming rather than anything else. Is this that I want complete acceptance? There must be a psychological aspect to this, right? Plus, when someone then gets up and runs to the sink or elsewhere to spit, it also feels just a little bit like a rejection. But, the whole thing seems silly but it isn't.......What are your thoughts?

Swallow all the way! It’s the best feeling having a cock bust in my mouth.

 

[chpoof]

I always swallow my husband's cum; he has never swallowed mine. Do I feel rejected? Well, I wouldn't use a word that harsh to describe my feelings about it. But yeah, I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me. He gives me the best head I've ever had and is the only lover who's ever made me cum from oral, but when the big moment happens, he always takes my penis out of his mouth and finishes me off with his hand. Sometimes he will lick some of it off my penis and stomach afterward, so I know he doesn't have an aversion to it.

A few times I've actually started cumming while he was sucking me without letting him know, so I have gotten a few spurts in but never the full load. About a month ago or so, after I had done this, he told me, "You know, that wasn't so bad." I got excited and asked, "So are you saying you want to swallow it now?" He said, "Maybe." I thought, Yes! This is the moment I've been waiting for! But alas, no. He still gives me phenomenal BJs, but at the crucial moment he goes back to the usual routine.

It's not the be-all, end-all of our relationship, of course. He's still a phenomenal lover, and honestly, I'm happiest when I'm sucking his penis and he's feeding me his delicious cum, which I can never seem to get enough of. But deep down inside, I do wish he would reciprocate.

 

[brandon38]

I always swallow my husband's cum; he has never swallowed mine. Do I feel rejected? Well, I wouldn't use a word that harsh to describe my feelings about it. But yeah, I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me. He gives me the best head I've ever had and is the only lover who's ever made me cum from oral, but when the big moment happens, he always takes my penis out of his mouth and finishes me off with his hand. Sometimes he will lick some of it off my penis and stomach afterward, so I know he doesn't have an aversion to it.

A few times I've actually started cumming while he was sucking me without letting him know, so I have gotten a few spurts in but never the full load. About a month ago or so, after I had done this, he told me, "You know, that wasn't so bad." I got excited and asked, "So are you saying you want to swallow it now?" He said, "Maybe." I thought, Yes! This is the moment I've been waiting for! But alas, no. He still gives me phenomenal BJs, but at the crucial moment he goes back to the usual routine.

It's not the be-all, end-all of our relationship, of course. He's still a phenomenal lover, and honestly, I'm happiest when I'm sucking his penis and he's feeding me his delicious cum, which I can never seem to get enough of. But deep down inside, I do wish he would reciprocate.

Hopefully he will one you seem very happy with him so maybe he do for you one day you have keep us posted.

 

[chpoof]

Hopefully he will one you seem very happy with him so maybe he do for you one day you have keep us posted.

Thanks. If it never happens, it's OK. As long as I get the thrill of sucking him off and swallowing his sweet loads, I'm happy. I would just really like to experience it myself.

 

[brandon38]

Thanks. If it never happens, it's OK. As long as I get the thrill of sucking him off and swallowing his sweet loads, I'm happy. I would just really like to experience it myself.

I can understand she seem like very unstanded person who love him he lucky to have you .

 

[tenn77]

My first swallowing was with this much older guy with a very large cock especially for his age.

I was back against the bed sitting on the floor as he stood over me using my mouth.

The only thing I said before was I asked him to not cum in my mouth. Moving along he had my head pulled so tight as he began deep thursting and then I felt his balls tighten so I knew he was close. I kinda tried to push back but it was what it was and he yelled I'm going to nut which he did and he pumped it deep in my throat so there was no spit option.

I said after I asked him to not do that and why did he. Basically he said he wanted his seed inside me and the thought made him cum extra hard.

It kinda paved the way for me to swallow after that to be honest.

 

[badboybryce]

As long as I can ejaculate in your mouth until I’m done, I don’t care if you spit or swallow.

 

[Dick-me]

I dont like people spitting out my cum . When i ‘m about to cum i push my hard smelly sweaty cock ringed schlong all the way down that semen receptacle , and i emphatically declare
“ drink all that delicious semen , swallow , swallow, swallow “ and 98 per cent of the time it ‘s done exactly as I say . When i suck a cock, i drink the man ‘s semen as if my life depended upon it . I get Every last drop and finally at the end stick my pointy tongue deep into the piss hole and get another delicious drop . The guy usually falls in love w me after that and i have to tell him dude I’m not looking for love , this is all about semen not love !