Spitting in mouth

[s18865]

Hi @All,

first post here - nothing large cock specific, more about sex in general. Just wanted to ask you guys about a topic that I didn't really find a lot of discussion about - here or elsewhere. One of the biggest turn-ons for me (in addition to a big dick of course) is when the top (total bottom here) spits in my mouth. Even better if he puts his large hand(s) around my neck while doing so - not necessarily choking me (although that's also fine if it doesn't get excessive). Don't know why, but a guy's spit in my mouth is like ultimate submission for me, even more so than swalling his load.

Love it during foreplay when kneeling in front of the guy, sucking his dick and swallowing a load of spit every once in a while while looking up directly into his eyes. It's great if he collects a larger amount and just lets it drop directly into my mouth, making sure I swallow every drop of it. Also like it more agressively - him grabbing my neck and really forcefully spitting into my mouth and maybe slapping my face afterwards. And of course I love it while I have his big cock cock buried in my ass, facing him and taking his spit down my throat at the same time.

My boyfriend needed a bit of encouragement at first, but he undestood pretty quickly what I was up to when I looked at him with my mouth wide open, while he was fucking me on my back. Got into the more aggressive kind of sex pretty quickly though and now enjoys spitting, slapping, choking and putting his hand over my mouth while fucking me as much as I do.

Someone here have the same kind of preference/fetish? I know spitting is not that uncommon in porn - probably where I noticed for the first time how much of a turn on it is for me. But it's also not as frequent as I wish it were - mostly found in gonzo porn from TIMFuck and the likes.

Looking forward to your feedback!

 

[find83]

Sounds like you like being dominated. What is the question?

 

[Marcus44444]

I want david lawson spitting in my mouth please

 

[RowanB]

Total turn OFF for me.

If I see it in porn, I stop watching and find something else. If a guy tried to do it to me, he would get throat-punched...

Hardly innocent myself and quite like a bit of the rough stuff you've mentioned in your post, but so much as think about spitting in my direction and there'll be hell.

I'm a dirty boy, but that doesn't mean I'll be disrespected...

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I think some people take their cues from porn when they want to get creative. Of course you have to know your partner to know that they would be okay with something like this because it could ruin the mood for the other person otherwise. Multiple reasons why spit would come into play. It could be extra lube on a dry blowjob as a means of helping the person giving the bj a helping hand or it could be a sub and dom situation where humiliation is a part of the role play.

 

[hvdude]

Do you mean spitting like “you piece of shit” or swapping bodily fluids? If A then I agree with Rowan. If B then it’s more of a safe sex thing for you but does nothing for me.

 

[malakos]

I figured I was pretty kinky but recently LPSG seems to be collecting things that I don't get (first it was the "Daddy" thing, then castration fantasies, now this). What I don't get about it is what is so special about it? In my mind there's no substantial difference between it and making out. It's just a more distant and meager version of swapping spit.

 

[Nudistpig]

I figured I was pretty kinky but recently LPSG seems to be collecting things that I don't get (first it was the "Daddy" thing, then castration fantasies, now this). What I don't get about it is what is so special about it? In my mind there's no substantial difference between it and making out. It's just a more distant and meager version of swapping spit.

Two things:

1. porn tends to structure a lot of fantasy at least in terms of guys wanting to explore beyond boundaries. Fantasy, fetish, kink (or whatever label you want to give it, it's acting not reality and our responses are subjective) comes packaged and labelled so guys pick that stuff up easily and refer to it.

2. Boundaries are individual and what might seem odd, or unappealing to one may be a big break through for another. There is a substantial difference to my reading of what was posted because the act has been made deliberate, excessive and a bit vulgar, which is what he finds hot...

In all of it, Daddy, Castration, and Rough/"disrespectful" play its all about power, and who has it, and how its being expressed and exchanged. All three acts involve social taboo. So the thrill for most guys is to let themselves go further into a headspace or dynamic that they would have pushed back against before. There's something perversely sensual about thick saliva dropping down into your mouth from on high...it takes much more time than you expect, so it causes a whole range of emotions on the way (or it can), and ive had it where the act was intended to be humiliating but i swapped fear and disgust on the face at the last minute for bliss, giving him something unexpected and that really drove him nuts...in a sense, the spit had less to do with it than the power games we were playing... i've unpacked the other two a bit elsewhere.

 

[erpap]

I look at it as fantasy, kind of hot in a video. I don’t necessarily want it in real life.

 

[902369]

Yes I love this. I love being dominated. That’s the quickest way for me to cum hands free.

 

[IlStroke4U]

i love it

 

[BBB2.5]

Nothing wrong with getting totally turned on by what you like. I have never had a guy spit into my mouth. I do at times find it to be intriguing, but at the same time, not sure if I would like it. Now I have had guys reach up and place their hand around my throat. I remove it. It makes me nervous, not sure to what they have in mind as far a squeezing goes.

 

[bkmuscledad]

Two things:

1. porn tends to structure a lot of fantasy at least in terms of guys wanting to explore beyond boundaries. Fantasy, fetish, kink (or whatever label you want to give it, it's acting not reality and our responses are subjective) comes packaged and labelled so guys pick that stuff up easily and refer to it.

2. Boundaries are individual and what might seem odd, or unappealing to one may be a big break through for another. There is a substantial difference to my reading of what was posted because the act has been made deliberate, excessive and a bit vulgar, which is what he finds hot...

In all of it, Daddy, Castration, and Rough/"disrespectful" play its all about power, and who has it, and how its being expressed and exchanged. All three acts involve social taboo. So the thrill for most guys is to let themselves go further into a headspace or dynamic that they would have pushed back against before. There's something perversely sensual about thick saliva dropping down into your mouth from on high...it takes much more time than you expect, so it causes a whole range of emotions on the way (or it can), and ive had it where the act was intended to be humiliating but i swapped fear and disgust on the face at the last minute for bliss, giving him something unexpected and that really drove him nuts...in a sense, the spit had less to do with it than the power games we were playing... i've unpacked the other two a bit elsewhere.

I really like these comments, @Nudistpig . Well said!

 

[328982]

I'd rather kiss

 

[bkmuscledad]

Hi @All,

first post here - nothing large cock specific, more about sex in general. Just wanted to ask you guys about a topic that I didn't really find a lot of discussion about - here or elsewhere. One of the biggest turn-ons for me (in addition to a big dick of course) is when the top (total bottom here) spits in my mouth. Even better if he puts his large hand(s) around my neck while doing so - not necessarily choking me (although that's also fine if it doesn't get excessive). Don't know why, but a guy's spit in my mouth is like ultimate submission for me, even more so than swalling his load.

Love it during foreplay when kneeling in front of the guy, sucking his dick and swallowing a load of spit every once in a while while looking up directly into his eyes. It's great if he collects a larger amount and just lets it drop directly into my mouth, making sure I swallow every drop of it. Also like it more agressively - him grabbing my neck and really forcefully spitting into my mouth and maybe slapping my face afterwards. And of course I love it while I have his big cock cock buried in my ass, facing him and taking his spit down my throat at the same time.

My boyfriend needed a bit of encouragement at first, but he undestood pretty quickly what I was up to when I looked at him with my mouth wide open, while he was fucking me on my back. Got into the more aggressive kind of sex pretty quickly though and now enjoys spitting, slapping, choking and putting his hand over my mouth while fucking me as much as I do.

Someone here have the same kind of preference/fetish? I know spitting is not that uncommon in porn - probably where I noticed for the first time how much of a turn on it is for me. But it's also not as frequent as I wish it were - mostly found in gonzo porn from TIMFuck and the likes.

Looking forward to your feedback!

I have a playmate who's similar, and we discovered the things we both enjoy by pushing the envelope every time we've been together. I am a very considerate lover, and I never saw myself doing these things, and others as well, but it didn't take me long to develop a taste for them, once I was with someone who welcomed and enjoyed them. The key was that he was open, and communicated what he wanted me to do. Of course, if I was with someone different, who didn't like these things, I would approach things differently. I really get off seeing and feeling and hearing my lover to enjoy the things I'm doing to him or her.

 

[Nudistpig]

I figured I was pretty kinky but recently LPSG seems to be collecting things that I don't get (first it was the "Daddy" thing, then castration fantasies, now this). What I don't get about it is what is so special about it? In my mind there's no substantial difference between it and making out. It's just a more distant and meager version of swapping spit.

I mean, also, Freud, Oedipus, all of Western culture is kinda based on Daddy issues and castration. Shit comes up a lot in our mythology, so it's not surprising on that level either

 

[mikey007]

Hi @All,

first post here - nothing large cock specific, more about sex in general. Just wanted to ask you guys about a topic that I didn't really find a lot of discussion about - here or elsewhere. One of the biggest turn-ons for me (in addition to a big dick of course) is when the top (total bottom here) spits in my mouth. Even better if he puts his large hand(s) around my neck while doing so - not necessarily choking me (although that's also fine if it doesn't get excessive). Don't know why, but a guy's spit in my mouth is like ultimate submission for me, even more so than swalling his load.

Love it during foreplay when kneeling in front of the guy, sucking his dick and swallowing a load of spit every once in a while while looking up directly into his eyes. It's great if he collects a larger amount and just lets it drop directly into my mouth, making sure I swallow every drop of it. Also like it more agressively - him grabbing my neck and really forcefully spitting into my mouth and maybe slapping my face afterwards. And of course I love it while I have his big cock cock buried in my ass, facing him and taking his spit down my throat at the same time.

My boyfriend needed a bit of encouragement at first, but he undestood pretty quickly what I was up to when I looked at him with my mouth wide open, while he was fucking me on my back. Got into the more aggressive kind of sex pretty quickly though and now enjoys spitting, slapping, choking and putting his hand over my mouth while fucking me as much as I do.

Someone here have the same kind of preference/fetish? I know spitting is not that uncommon in porn - probably where I noticed for the first time how much of a turn on it is for me. But it's also not as frequent as I wish it were - mostly found in gonzo porn from TIMFuck and the likes.

Looking forward to your feedback!

Love it, thick gob dripping onto my tongue , or licking it off his dick

 

[Brodie888]

Everything mentioned is pretty normal to me. I have always been very submissive sexually and seek out guys who enjoy playing in this way.

While some here say certain acts such as spitting in your mouth is disrespectful. I disagree. A lot of submission is demonstrating devotion. You love your partner so much you will allow them to use you in any way they need.

 

[JackM]

Total turn OFF for me.

If I see it in porn, I stop watching and find something else. If a guy tried to do it to me, he would get throat-punched...

Hardly innocent myself and quite like a bit of the rough stuff you've mentioned in your post, but so much as think about spitting in my direction and there'll be hell.

I'm a dirty boy, but that doesn't mean I'll be disrespected...

Me too. I don't get off on people abusing each other and somehow it always looks like abuse.