spontaneous erections

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  1. strokinit

    strokinit New Member

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    So I have this problem. I am straight, but everytime I mess around with my guy friend, guy stuff like wrestle or anything i get aroused. I dont like him that way, but cant help getting all aroused. i had a sunburn and him putting aloe on my back made me rock hard! How can I stop this from happening? Its not just touching, but talk does it too. and its not just him, but anyone, male or female! Anything I can do? Thanks in advance for your help, I hate having to hide everytime he touches my arm!
     
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    uhm I wouldn't call it a spontaneous erection... those are those lovely things that teenager for no obvious reason

    I think that wrestling is a natural hardon producer for most any guy. Hormone surge of feeling another dude. It's not uncommon for males in war situations such as being in a fox hole in the heat of battle to get an erection, at least that's what I've read. Just massive hormone overload. Take a look on youtube at all the wrestling matches that have been recorded and the teens(mostly) popping woodies. (It is interesting in a prurient (?) way, also kind of sad have guys out there filming them w/o knowledge/consent.. but that's a whole other topic :smile: )

    When I was younger, say late teens, the slightest touch other than a handshake could arouse me. I think it had to do that I really didn't touch other ppl. I'm a loner mostly and well physical encounters such as hugging a friend could trigger an erection. Nothing sexual just the sensation of touch produced a hormone surge. Just get touched by people more and the huge woodies will eventually go away (unless you think it's someone hot :wink: )

    As for you just talking to people and getting aroused... Well what are you talking about? :) Penguins being eaten by seals or how big of boobs that hot chick has? Get out more, meet more people and see if it doesn't go away. Talk to that grandma at the bus stop about the weather... now that shouldn't make you aroused.:biggrin1:
     
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    Dude, enjoy your sexuality. Your friend probably loves the contact, too. You're on fire, bro. Relish it!
     
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    hey this helps alot. The talking is about sexual things. things that we have done with girls. stuff like that. I agree with the getting out and talking to poeople. I think the physical contact will help, not to far physical, but touch. you know what i mean. haha
     
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    any other thoughts?
     
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    looking at your handsome avatar, many pleasant thoughts :smile:
     
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    Well, you're certainly lively where it matters. Start complaining when it doesn't happen!
     
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    Just face it man, You're in heat...
    We are all animals LOL..
    :smile:
     
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    Well I just have to tell you that I've had similar reactions. I used to wrestle with one my friends all the time, and we both got erections. I think we both pretended they weren't there, even though we could cleary see each other's raging bulge. I guess it's just the idea of male bonding plus the hormones that was stimulating to me, because I could never feel comfortable talking about sex or having an erection around anyone other than him. It was cool to have a friend, like him, that I felt really comfortable around. I don't have that anymore with anyone, since he moved away.

    I also agree that the touching does it. I get aroused by the slightest touch, especially if it's by someone else. So there are definitely a lot of factors for it all.
     
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    I would say it is the touch big time, but also talking?
     
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    Well stud let the 1% gay side of you take over It won't make you less attractive to girls if you shoot a load with a buddy who gives you a hard on...and it will make you both a rounder less worried person. This is 2007
     
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    some guys naturally pop hard-ons all the time. the joke is they get one when the wind blows. maybe you are one of these? OTOH, a friend never got hard unless he was manipulated for sex.
     
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    My fella gets a woody eating his dinner sometimes.

    worrying about it may be more harmful - chill out, erections are normal.
     
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    Whenever I am bored or slightly sleepy because of being bored i get super hard. I'll be sitting in class staring blankly into space and totally pop a boner. It's funny but leads to quick j/o in the stall at school or work haha. oh well.
     
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    I agree its when you stop getting stiffies you should start to get worried
     
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    i popped a boner at prom dancing with one of my guy friends it was so unexpected he grabbed me and made me dance with him but if he felt it he didnt say anything we were slow dancing close
     
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    All men get hard ons when they least want it, it´s happened to all of us I´m sure. So if your friend should see your stiffie I think he´d be cool about it since it surly has happened to him when he least wanted it.
    It´s a wonderful thing with erections though, don´t be ashamed, be proud!
     
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    Ya but he thinks it is weird if i change (totally naked) in front of him, so how do I not pop wood around him?
     
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    Wow can I have what he is having? Sounds delicious.
     
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