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a couple of thoughts on this one;

- sex doesn't have to be penetrative, there are many many forms of 'having sex'
- its a fallacy that a bottom has to always spend hours preparing before sex; if you have a good diet, don't eat lots of crap, drink plenty of fluids etc, then it doesn't get 'messy'. If you eat lots of crap, drink lots of crap, then you will be filled with lots of crap, then it does get very messy.

i've had many bfs and we've had spontaneous sex lots of times and very rarely has it been messy. With my current bf with whom working from home at times together we've frequently engaged in random sex with no preparation at all and its been fine.

It is possible you may get a trace of something but thats all.

and ultimately gay sex can definitely be messy (as can all penetrative sex) with fluids everywhere etc let alone sh*t on your dick, it kind of comes with the territory to some extent.
 

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I've been bottoming for over 30 years and it is only in the last 5 years that I started cleaning out for sex. And I only started doing that because I started playing with big toys.

In the 25 years that I never cleaned out, that includes 5 years with my first boyfriend where I bottomed for him about 7 to10 times a week for those 5 years (I'm guessing close to 2,000 times). I never cleaned out and we never had a problem.

I can only remember 2 times that there was a problem. Both times, the tops were well hung and they went deep. It was messy.

I have no idea why it wasn't more of a problem. There was an occasional spot, but nothing bad. My diet was horrible (lots of fast food crap). The only reason I clean out now is because I like to play with some really big toys.
 

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I think spontaneous sex is disgusting lol. I can not deal with odors, not having a condom, and would like to avoid any accidental cases with shit. My biggest concern is how risky spontaneous sex is with strangers who could have anything. And also just bad odors that people produce throughout the day. That would completely ruin it for me. Preparation is everything. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to make sure you have a great experience, but after one bad experience, you never forget it.
 

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a couple of thoughts on this one;

- sex doesn't have to be penetrative, there are many many forms of 'having sex'
- its a fallacy that a bottom has to always spend hours preparing before sex; if you have a good diet, don't eat lots of crap, drink plenty of fluids etc, then it doesn't get 'messy'. If you eat lots of crap, drink lots of crap, then you will be filled with lots of crap, then it does get very messy.

i've had many bfs and we've had spontaneous sex lots of times and very rarely has it been messy. With my current bf with whom working from home at times together we've frequently engaged in random sex with no preparation at all and its been fine.

It is possible you may get a trace of something but thats all.

and ultimately gay sex can definitely be messy (as can all penetrative sex) with fluids everywhere etc let alone sh*t on your dick, it kind of comes with the territory to some extent.
I really appreciate that answer!! That’s mainly what I assumed.
 
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I have a shower shot in the bath and I rinse in the am b4 work and when I get home. I'll take take a anti diarrhea pill if I do a total cleanout. I love spontaneous and anonymous sex.
 

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I rarely had things turn out disastrously messy when I used to screw around a lot. Rarely, as another poster said, you do get "traces". Just remember to always wear a condom. This is however my experiences fucking around in mostly Japan, where the diets tend to be cleaner in general.
 

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I’ve always wondered how spontaneous sex works. Wouldnt you normally clean and prepare for anal? What I’m getting at is wouldnt things get really “messy” otherwise??
I’m sorry, if you’re expecting / wanting spontaneous gay sex, expect some ‘side effects’. It happens it’s to be expected. Unless you’re a total bottom and ‘stays ready’ at all times for your partner, you have to except the consequences.
 
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It seems to me that cleaning out is much more common now than it was ten or 20 years ago. It seems much more expected now than it used to be. Having to worry about it all the time certainly kills spontaneity... and spontaneous sex can be some of the best sex.
 

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I’ve always wondered how spontaneous sex works. Wouldnt you normally clean and prepare for anal? What I’m getting at is wouldnt things get really “messy” otherwise??

Just eat a good diet man - then you're good for sex whenever you feel in the mood. Get plenty of fibre and lay off the junk foods as much as possible and you'll be fine.
 
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