Spouse or SO: Visits LPSG, Aware, or no ?

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  1. SexyJean

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    I was wondering for the members here if their spouse (hubby or wife) or partner was aware of their membership here at LPSG? I haven't detected too many husband-wife couples who are active posters (or even members of LPSG).

    Myself, my husband doesn't know of my membership here. Partly, I want to keep this domain for myself as a resource for the both of us. Also, he's not into online clubs, chat, postings, etc. Outside of e-mail, he rarely checks things online (I probably do 99% of all the surfing in our household.).

    Anyway, guys, do your wives know? Are they or have they considered membership, or maybe even scanned occasionally for information? Ditto ladies -- have your husbands or partners considered coming here either to surf or to join?

    I'm curious as to how many members here have told their wives/husbands/partners about LPSG, how many haven't, and if they have considered or been urged to join or to visit occasionally (and if not, why not)?
     
  2. Altairion

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    I'm not in a relationship right now, but to me it would be extremely hard to share this with someone else. It really depends on how comfortable they would be with such a concept for me to decide to tell them. Of course if I was married to someone, then I would be significantly more adjusted to my wife and she should be willing to accept my hobbies as they stand.

    Currently, I've only told one person that I'm here. In the very near future, I will probably tell another friend when a good opportunity comes up. Of course both of these guys are gay, so it's not something that would be quite as awkward.
     
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    My bf knows i found the site but he is not curious about it.

    The funny thing is that he is not impress with his size as i am and can not understand whats the big deal because he says he does not think he is big as i say...and that he does not keep looking to see another men's penis sizes at locker room and anyway most men are not hard there because they are between men...

    I think he is just happy to have a working penis that gives pleasure.

    But at the same time he enjoys me telling him he is big.:tongue:

    Well i like here and have been learning a lot simple things , for exemple: i notice at first date sex he wore magnuns and the name remind me the tv serie...and i knew just durex name before... and i learn here that its for large penis...and i ask him days later that was the "proof" he knew he was big...he says he wears them because the others are tight...no big deal.

    Or the man is playing with my mind or he is really inocent as i was about it too !!!
     
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    In a word, no. My wife enjoys looking at nude bodies when we are at nudist resorts but like most women, a picture of a penis floating in space does little to sexually arouse her- even one overtly long.
     
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    :confused: :confused:

    I was not talking so much about the photos or pics or links and stuff that appear, more the written posts and topics that are discussed (some quite serious, some humorous, etc). Has your wife ever expressed an interest or curiousity in this site as opposed to other general adult-oriented sites you might surf, for example? LPSG is more of a message board and information site, with people sharing ideas, suggestions, past experiences, etc. Well, at least the threads I visit ! lol

    For myself, I've picked up some tips and have some ideas for my husband and I down the road (no sense in trying everything at once, right ?? :smile: ).

    I was thinking more of the couples posts, suggestions posts, share-an-experience posts, that kind of thing ThirteenBySeven, not the Members Gallery or avatars so much.
     
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    Yeah, my wife knows. In fact, she's a member of this website (Ironheartz.)

    We share a very honest and open relationship; in addition, we're swingers. She loves my dick... however, she'd love to have a ten-incher in her one day.

    I have no problems with that at all and I'd LOVE to see a guy that big penetrate her. (I'm 8.50 - 8.75 inches long, depending on how aroused I am.) I get off on the idea of a man-meat bigger than my own pounding away at her!!! Someday, someday...

    The thing is, we both love sex; I've got a nicely-sized cock; she's a size queen. We have a relationship in which we can openly discuss our fantasies and actually carry them out - together, or individually. We always fall deeper and deeper in love with each other without any end in sight, because we are able to share everything with each other.

    What such fun we always have together! :tongue:
     
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    Actually, I'm married to Gone A.


    Kidding, kidding.




    No I'm not.
     
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    Now that's a mystery.


    And the fact that I'm married to him too is a bigamistery!
     
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    Tonight, you sleep in the middle. I want to pepper your face with smoochles.
     
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    My Other would kill me... He is really the one that belongs on here but is WAY too inhibited. Mabee you know those 99% straight guys, way too high maintenence..
     
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    SexyJean, when I typed the above I was multi-tasking and time compressed. I would think a couples forum here would be fantastic for those of us who are in monogomous heterosexual relationships. The one ingredient that is somewhat rare here at lpsg.org is female input and that is to be expected because, after all, this is the Large Penis Support group. Going over your posts SexyJean, you do give some thoughtful female insight on lovemaking/relationship/day-to-day living with a man who is exceptionally large.

    Who knows, perhaps the new owner will experiment with a new forum.:fing02:
     
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    oh bronx and matt, i LOVE you both
     
  13. SexyJean

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    Gisella, that seems to be a staple here amoung the ladies here -- regardless of whether it's true or not. :biggrin1:
     
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    I am in an extremly serious,monogamous relationship(almost 1 year!!!)that will likely lead to marriage and lots of kids someday,my guy is fully aware of my membership(he even reads my posts!)He thinks it's wonderful that a woman can be so open and frank about her sexuality,besides,something like this is good for me,because I only lost my virginity a little over a month ago,and I could get good advice
     
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    Im only new here and a new relationship also. I havent told him about this place yet but probably will soon. Im sure he'll come in for a look but he is quite shy and i doubt he will be comfortable here. But im happy for him to leave it to me and if he ever decides to become a regular then im glad for him to.
     
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    I haven't told anyone that I joined the group. This is mainly because I have pictures of my genitals on the site, and it is one thing if people I don't know see my "junk" but it is different if someone at home, sees my "member" in all it's "eruptive glory".

    Maybe someday though, I am far from shy:biggrin1:
     
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    Honey, I think it's great that you're here. I also think it's great that you're in love with a serious guy and are looking at the possibility of marriage and the pitter-patter of (lots of!) little feet!

    Sometimes we think that this site is just full of swingers looking to detail conquests or experiences or brag a bit. I have no problem with those posts or the people attached to them -- they're good information to include, mind you -- but it's nice to hear from more 'sedate' individuals including married couples, 1st-timers like yourself, etc.

    I lost my virginity late like yourself and would have liked to have had a resource like LPSG to let me know what I was doing right, wrong, what guys liked, what they didn't, etc. It would have prepared me a bit better for some uncomfortable situations that I had to deal with with no help from anybody.

    Anyway, I'm glad you're getting good information and I wish you all the best with your very special guy! :smile:
     
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    I showed my girlfriend this site awhile back. She doesn't care.
     
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    Awwwww..........thanks SexyJean! I waited so long to have sex mainly because I just coulden't find a nice enough guy(mainly a guy who was serious about his life and career)And I wanted my first time to be with the guy that I knew I was going to marry someday,and my guy is all of that,plus we are both WILD about kids and we are very,very anxious to start our own family:smile:
     
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    Yes, my hubby knows. He's stood behind me when I've posted. He just laughed. I'm surprised I'm still hanging around here tho. I don't think I'm as interested in the penis side as I am in women's issues and the vagina.

    I don't think he would be interested in posting,even though he's pretty well hung, it has not been much of an issue-probably because I never really knew he was bigger than average. He's a big/tall guy and I think I just assumed everything would be big.
    Then you have everyday life, kids, jobs and stuff in general!

    I don't know if I would want him to post; he is a psychiatrist and he'd probably end up analyzing everyone. I often wonder if someone goes into a career because of their personality, or their personality develops because of their career. But he has the typical shrink personality and sometimes he doesn't know how to turn it off.

    He's probably the same as your hubby, he uses the computer for mail, research and continuing education. I'm the one who used the computer more for surfing and gaming. We really don't have any secrets from each other, and that's probably a good thing.
     
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