Spreading Rumors About Small Penis

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What do you think of someone confiding in you that people they dated had a small penis? I've had two friends that I like in the last couple of months share that someone they dated had a small penis and was one of the main reasons they discontinued dating each of them. One was a woman friend and the other was a gay male friend.

My opinion is that spreading a rumor like this is quite vile. It has really made me question my friendships with these two people. I know they both are overall nice people but I wonder why they think it is okay to spread rumors like that, true or not.

What do you think about people who share such gossip? Do you? If so, why? Why do you think people think its okay to do so?

It's troubling...
 

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I personally don't like it, I have a friend(female) who hung arounds us a lot when younger and she would talk about the size of guys cocks a lot around us. She was a true tom boy and not shy. I had the chance to fuck her and she even told me so but I didn't because I didn't want her to tell everybody I was small!! I always remember that of her.
 
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It’s a pretty vile. I’d never share penis size indiscriminately. It’s no one’s business. There is so much more to a man than the size of his penis. Gossip about size would make me reevaluate that person’s character.
 

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Personally and honesty, I would rather have a handsome face, kick ass body, and $10million dollars,
than be widely known as having a huge cock.
I have dated some really special men who might be considered "small."
If used properly and creatively, a smaller dick is just as good. (just saying)
 
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Well you must be a really close friend for your friends to tell you something like that . How did it come about? Did you ask them why they broke up and they said i prefer a guy with a bigger penis? Did they confide in you and say please don't tell anybody but so and so had a really small penis? Would it be different if your friends said that they stopped seeing them because their penis was to big ? As foe calling it a rumor, well it could be if you texted all your friends about it lol..
 

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Depends on the intentions, it’s okay if done in a confidential way, to save everyone from embarrassment. Like if someone was notifying a size queen that the person they are about to pursue is not well hung. It just saves all parties from wasting each other’s time.

But if done to embarrass someone, then definitely no. At a job once, a close coworker notified me that a rumor was going around that I slept with someone in the office and I had a small dick. It was a case of mistaken identity, because I hadn’t slept with anyone there. But It became such a headache, I just found another job, ha.
 

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What do you think of someone confiding in you that people they dated had a small penis? I've had two friends that I like in the last couple of months share that someone they dated had a small penis and was one of the main reasons they discontinued dating each of them. One was a woman friend and the other was a gay male friend.

My opinion is that spreading a rumor like this is quite vile. It has really made me question my friendships with these two people. I know they both are overall nice people but I wonder why they think it is okay to spread rumors like that, true or not.

What do you think about people who share such gossip? Do you? If so, why? Why do you think people think its okay to do so?

It's troubling...

I understand your thinking about this.
However, I think it depends a lot on the situation. If they don't reveal the identity of the person, I don't see it as problem.
Also, if you are married to or in an intimate relationship with the person, I think it's OK.
My wife talked openly about her previous lover's endowments, whether small (only one), or very large ( a couple of men).
I was OK with both.
I'm sure my first wife probably told her later lovers that my penis is small. It wouldn't bother me.
It's not like just passing on rumors.
 
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I guess it just depends on the connotation associated with a small penis. I agree with rayray that it isn’t necessarily a negative statement. I appreciate a penis of any size, but there are a multitude of qualities that may make someone incompatible. Just because someone isn’t the ideal partner someone else is searching for, it doesn’t make either of them a bad person; it just makes them incompatible. I also agree with nexolaris that it may have been just a confidential conversation.
 
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I'm of the opinion that it is a small person who gossips about others. To deliberately inform others of someone's small penis size when it could result in them suffering rejection is cruel. That is someone I wouldn't want as a friend.

It shouldn't matter, but the fact of the matter is there are those who consider it a deal breaker.
 

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I understand your thinking about this.
However, I think it depends a lot on the situation. If they don't reveal the identity of the person, I don't see it as problem.
Also, if you are married to or in an intimate relationship with the person, I think it's OK.
My wife talked openly about her previous lover's endowments, whether small (only one), or very large ( a couple of men).
I was OK with both.
I'm sure my first wife probably told her later lovers that my penis is small. It wouldn't bother me.
It's not like just passing on rumors.
In both cases I knew who they were talking about...one was actually a local celebrity chef who I don't know personally but everyone has heard of and the other is a common mutual friend. That's why it bothered my and made me question both's judgment.
 
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I'm of the opinion that it is a small person who gossips about others. To deliberately inform others of someone's small penis size when it could result in them suffering rejection is cruel. That is someone I wouldn't want as a friend.

It shouldn't matter, but the fact of the matter is there are those who consider it a deal breaker.
You get me. It made me question the two gossipers. Not the two people that were the object of the gossip. It says more about the gossiper than the gossipe.
 
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I've never thought about it in this way. I'm hung like a chipmunk. I don't think it's any different for women letting out my little secret than it is for the big boys. It's open season.

I once overheard my roommate in college outing me, with the additional advert that he was "lots bigger." He was a big, clumsy redhead. I take comfort knowing that I've probably had more women in a week than he has in his whole life -- big cock and all.

When I was finishing up college, I hung out a lot at a local diner/dance joint. There was this really hot-looking girl I'd always had the hots for, but for one reason or another we'd never gotten together. Until one night. I thought things went fairly well. Afterwards in bed, we enacted our own version of the Liza Minelli-Michael York bedroom scene in "Cabaret." I said something nice about her body, she complimented mine, so I rose up on my knees, mock flexed my muscles like Micael York did in the movie. She gave a wolf whistle and I joked, "Haven't I got the best body you've ever seen?"

Skip ahead a few nights. Coming into the restaurant, a friend pulled me aside and said the girl was really dissing me, telling everybody that I was a real jerk, asking her if didn't I have the best body she'd ever seen -- and, on top of that, I was rotten in bed and had a tiny cock. That it was done in jest wasn't mentioned. It was kind of funny. Apparently it didn't hurt me any with the girls. I really scored a lot after that. And, believe it or not, actually slept with her again a couple times. It was hot remembering her previous comments on my size and performance.

No, I have no problem with girls (or guys) talking about a guy's size. On the other hand, I make it a rule never myself to tell tales out of school. I feel the least a girl should expect is for me to keep my mouth shut about what went on in bed. But that's just me. If I worried about women letting on how small I'm hung, I'd never have sex.
 

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I think it depends. You say they were spreading the rumor but it could just be that they were just talking. Could also be that they were speaking ill, etc. I have no idea which version of it since i wasn't there. To me talk of size could be considered along the lines of someone talking about how their ex used to leave the toilet seat up or it could be their way of getting back at them like saying they couldn't bring them to orgasm. Could have been a casual that's why we couldn't make it work or a he's not man enough sort of thing.

So i say it depends.
 
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