squirting orgasm discussion for all

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  1. hrlyrdr37

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    How many of you ladies can achieve a squirting orgasm?

    Do you like the feeling?

    which is better clit orgasm, squirting orgasm, or orgasm by penetration?

    I first saw a woman squirt on porn and I was instantly fascinated I always hoped that one day I would get to experience it. Then I hooked up with this girl we were in 69 position I was really giving her a good fingering I felt her getting wetter and wetter then boom it happened all over me I thought it was a one time deal. I could not wait to see if it happened again. It did I felt like I had found the fountain of youth. That was 18 years ago and I have been able to make every woman I have been with squirt since then.
     
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    Yes I,ve done it once, too messy for my licking.

    Felt good a mix of orgasm and peeing at the same time.

    Yes i've read all about the periurethral glands and all as well.

    My opinion is yes it probably is a release of fluid from those glands mixed with pee, I dont think its female ejaculation as that is a attempt to explain our orgasms in terms of a mans. Can you tell me how you achieve a "squirting orgasm" without cliteral or penetrative stimulation ?
     
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    thats alot of reading there Dolfette
     
  4. dolfette

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    and that was just one search.
    'squirt' in thread titles on women's issues.
    i did not try 'squirting' or search the rest of the board.
     
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    wow, never realised it was such a big deal
     
  6. dolfette

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    i've never done it so i've no idea.
     
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    Ugh, I talk to an old friend about once a month, he's a guy I've known since I was 19, and he's obsessed with squirting. I hate these conversations. He insists that he's been able to make 90% of all the women he's ever slept with do it, and he used to be quite the man-whore. I never know how to respond to that because I haven't either and he implies that TheBF has got to be a crappy lover or something because I haven't. He won't accept my attempts to set him straight because his definition of a really great time in bed is apparently "squirting." I don't want to offend him, but I suspect that because he believes that, women either lie and hope he didn't notice or they just piss themselves so he'll stop trying already.
     
  8. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    ^ This.
     
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    I can only speak from my experience. I have only been able to make one woman squirt, one time. She was mortified when it happened. I had her legs rolled back to her shoulders and must have hit everything "right" She had never had a non clitoral orgasm before and she did not have a chance to enjoy this one. After the fact she said it was not as powerful as her "normal" orgasms. We read up on what happened and although she understands it was not her peeing on herself and me, that position, with that enthusiasm, was no longer welcome. To me, it stopped the action so I was fine without it repeating. BTW, I was with her for 15 years.
     
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    I didn't know such a thing was a goal. I don't and I don't care to. I never heard of it before I joined this site.

    I mean women don't get together to talk about such things. We're too busy talking about how big our lovers' penises (peni?) are.
     
  11. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    This was not something that was seen in porn until people were pushing the limits and making the possibility of female orgasm pretty much non-existent with the shit that guys insisted on doing and filming to meet their standards. When a woman is truly not enjoying the sex she is receiving, the guy ultimately feels like he *needs* some sort of liquid proof that an orgasm has happened. It's the desire to have something come out of the genitals like his body does because he is unable to read the signs of an orgasm if she's not squirting something.

    It's a popular trend that makes women feel inadequate if they don't perform in this way that men are seeing more and more in commercial porn. If you watch porn that has people urinating on one another intentionally, male or female, the urine looks clear and exactly like this streaming fluid that is clear and abundant.

    There is no gland that holds a pint of clear fluid that has ever been found during the exploration of the human body. Even a small skene's gland is incapable of filling up with the amount of fluid that is seen in porn.

    People are more comfortable with the idea of a woman "squirting" than they are "urinating" so the word squirting has become synonymous with female orgasm proof. This is not to say someone isn't orgasming, but it's pretty easy to bear down really really hard (as they always do) and shoot fluid out of the urethra.

    It happens all the time during the pushing phase of birth. You'd never notice the difference when you watch squirting porn.

    It's an acceptable fluid release for men to feel like they've accomplished something that otherwise would not feel satisfying as women are renowned for faking orgasms and being theatrical in porn. This sort of thing is a visual standard now becoming almost protocol in today's average video.

    Anyone could hit rubber duckies across the room with a full bladder and enough pushing. Let me also add that the possibility that the bladder is getting full from some reason that gets triggered by the Vagus nerve to cause one to need to urinate around the time of sexual encounters to flush the bladder from bacteria that might have worked its way into the bladder via the friction of intercourse is very much an evolutionary protective measure against infections. It all really makes sense as to why fluid would go into the bladder and get very full and need to come out.

    The only inlet and outlets to the bladder are the left and right ureter and the urethra. If you aren't pumping things into the urethra via a catheter, you are getting fluid in the bladder by means of the ureters (which comes from the kidneys).

    It's a magical little thing no one ever talked about, discovered or wrote about hundreds or thousands of years ago. It also seems rather coincidental that the amount of women who experience some urinary incontinence when they bear down hard enough also matches the same percentage of women who are able to bear down during orgasm and shoot fluid out of their urethra.

    Watch porn where they urinate on each other and be amazed at just how clear that mans urine looks and so goes the female urine when they want you to see the urine and not something called "Squirting".
     
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    I guess if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes, in person, then I would be suspicious myself. My first girlfriend was a squirter. It didn't happen all at once, but over a course of a year it went from a little dribble to a full ejaculation. She and I were both comfy with it and being we were both virgins and thought it was pretty normal. Later I found out not anybody can do it or feel uncomfortable doing it. I wonder about the urine thing myself, but the only thing I can add is, woman, in my experience, don't hold as much urine in their bladders. That Cytheria for example. The amount of fluid she ejaculates in large. In my experience a woman who had that much fluid in her bladder would not want to be having sex and would stop to use the bathroom. I know I can not orgasm with a full bladder. Plus, my first girlfriend, after having sex for 20 to 30 minutes, squirting and all, would then go the bathroom. I understand there is urine in the ejaculation of a woman, but that it is all urine is a bit hard for me to swallow.
     
  13. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Of course it's hard for you to swallow. Most men don't like the idea of urine flying at them, getting on their bed, floor and in their mouth.

    I prefer sex with a full bladder, but I still can't get the urine out of the bladder until about 30 minutes after sex when I'm not frisky anymore. Something shuts so tight it's unable to come out.

    Cytheria is filling her body with tons of water and holding it in. You would be astonished at the amount of fluid the bladder can hold. And some of those scenes are cut where it would be easy to fill back up and shoot some more.

    Watch dudes piss on women and tell me if it doesn't blow your mind on how much fluid is continuously coming out.

    It's not weird or impossible. The idea that it is normal, expected and possible for all women to do it is what is a myth.

    The bladder needing to be emptied before and after sex is normal and not a sign that fluid NEEDS to be released during sexual acts, it just happens when some people are letting the urethral sphincter relax or pushing so hard against the natural shut off effect of the sphincter when aroused.
     
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    It's piss?!
     
  15. ManlyBanisters

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    So where does the fluid come from? Where is it stored?

    Are you really saying there is a place in the female anatomy that stores MORE than the bladder? Could you find us a diagram of it, please?
     
  16. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    I'm thinking with the history of anatomy and millions of autopsies performed over the course of medical documentation of the human body we would know a little more about this place where fluid is stored near or around the bladder that is capable of holding as much as or more than the bladder is capable of.

    Grey's Anatomy, Medical Examiners and Ob/Gyn's have still not found this. It's either coming from the ureters or it's a medical anomaly found in a very small percentage of women. Particularly women who have a camera pointing towards their lady bits.
     
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    Very well said. Along with cum-on-her-face and a host of other middle-school minded antics, this is yet another porn industry idiocy.

    Kudos on the rest of what you said too.
     
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    Well I'd say 99% of women I have been with squirted. From age 16 to now (41). Some a little, some a lot. I don't believe it is urine, and When I am first with a woman, I never even talk about "squirting" and most are surprised and embarrassed when they do it. I reassure them it is ok and nothing to worry about....that in fact I love it. So not sure why it's a huge deal...women just need to be comfy with themselves and men need not push women to do it...I posted a vid in straight web site section of my current milf doing it.....ENJOY
     
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