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Well I'd say 99% of women I have been with squirted. From age 16 to now (41). Some a little, some a lot. I don't believe it is urine, and When I am first with a woman, I never even talk about "squirting" and most are surprised and embarrassed when they do it. I reassure them it is ok and nothing to worry about....that in fact I love it. So not sure why it's a huge deal...women just need to be comfy with themselves and men need not push women to do it...I posted a vid in straight web site section of my current milf doing it.....ENJOY


Sorry I don't enjoy either piss porn or self promoting blow hards.

Huge fail on both accounts.
 

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Wow, this subject really seems to divide views. It seems to bring out some of the classic "female hostility" that I'm just starting to get used to on the boards here.

My ex-gf was an abundant squirter. She used to soak the bed. A towel became mandatory every time we had sex.

I had never heard of it before. It entirely came from her, and was something she discovered on her own through masturbation. It was just one of the ways she orgasmed, and certainly not something she did "just to make me happy" - in many ways it was an inconvenience, as there was often a big mess left in the bed, when one towel wasn't enough to contain it all. Additionally, one time, a hotel charged us for 'wrecking' a mattress she had squirted all over.

The stuff that came out didn't smell like urine.

So in my experience, female ejaculation is a reality, and actually a very pleasurable experience.

I feel like I'm going to get flamed just for posting this. It really seems that on LPSG, it is a criminal offense to contradict certain dogmatic female members.
 
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my x was also a major squirter, this was back before the internet and before i even had seen porn or heard of golden showers. she was also very orgasmic, both vaginally and clitoral. even with an empty bladder she would squirt. sometimes it was quite thick and slimy, and sometimes more like water. squirting was usually from very deep penetration, but a few times were during oral.

im a dad of a boy and have gotten peed on my face while changing diapers before, and dealt with many peed beds,,,my x-wifes squirts never even had a hint of pee smell.
 
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Nice. Female hostility from certain members. Reminding us again of your all's take over of the women's forum telling us how to feel about our own bodies. When most of us masturbate more than you guys do and have had more orgasms in a day than you can have in a month, then we get told we aren't doing it right, haven't had the right guy, haven't let go or gotten comfortable with ourselves. But hey, keep on telling women how they are supposed to function and how it's all attached to our frigid nature of some kind. How's that workin' for ya? Oh yeah, it's met with the female hostility you are inviting upon yourselves.
 
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Women have been having orgasms for years. I believe you have to ask yourself how long porn squirting has be around. Urine is common in female orgasms because most women feel like they have to pee before/during an orgasm. I'm not a fan of porn squirting. I do believe (and I have witnessed this) a woman can gush a sweet tasting fluid before. It's not a lot and again it's been sweet in my experience. Beyond that, IT'S PISS. I believe the excitement of porn squirting comes from the fact that many men believe women fake orgasms. When men see women urinate (porn squirt) there's some certainty that she's had an orgasm. Again this is simply my opinion. Hell I'm no doctor either.
 

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Just spoke to my wife. She says her orgasms feel like she has to urinate and depending on the position and intensity, she can lose the battle of controlling it.
 

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Wow, this subject really seems to divide views. It seems to bring out some of the classic "female hostility" that I'm just starting to get used to on the boards here.

My ex-gf was an abundant squirter. She used to soak the bed. A towel became mandatory every time we had sex.

I had never heard of it before. It entirely came from her, and was something she discovered on her own through masturbation. It was just one of the ways she orgasmed, and certainly not something she did "just to make me happy" - in many ways it was an inconvenience, as there was often a big mess left in the bed, when one towel wasn't enough to contain it all. Additionally, one time, a hotel charged us for 'wrecking' a mattress she had squirted all over.

The stuff that came out didn't smell like urine.

So in my experience, female ejaculation is a reality, and actually a very pleasurable experience.

I feel like I'm going to get flamed just for posting this. It really seems that on LPSG, it is a criminal offense to contradict certain dogmatic female members.
Where does the fluid come from?
 

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I did not mean ALL women need to be comfy....but some have issues just like MEN do. We all need to be comfy and just be ourselves....and if a woman doesnt squirt, that doesnt mean she is any less than one who does......
 

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The thing is, I have no hang ups about it and have a piss fetish. Never seems to happen even if I want it to. There is something that prevents me from pissing and orgasming at the same time, sorta like how most men can do one or the other but not easily at the same time. So i have no emotions that need to be excepted. I am not pushing away any feelings of shame or embarrassment. I never have the urge to pee during an orgasm. I have the urge to pee when my bladder is being pressed on improperly during g spot stimilation.

So much stimulation from the inside with a curved finger or a curved dick or the angled positioning that literally milks out bladder contents in spurts as it pulls whatever is near it down and out of the body. Combine any extreme sensation with letting your urethral sphincter relax or pushing past it's ability to hold bladder contents out and you have what most people would call urinating.

Why would people think it is urine? Because there is no other fluid that can be in the bladder that would drip, drizzle or filtrate itself in the organ except from the kidneys. Unless the kidneys are involved in sexual fluid creation, it really makes no biological or physiological sense.

Even when trying to compare the skene's gland to a prostate that was mostly not necessary on a female body sort of like an appendix, it still really doesn't add up. Seriously, there is nothing a professional human body carver such a medical examiner or a medschool student has found in Grey'sAnatomy on a cadaver that could POSSIBLY explain this.

All we have are the same one or two studies on a very small cross section of females who happen to lose their urine at the same percentages strangely.

Ever hear of how if you get scared or so excited or laugh too hard or have any other extreme psychophysiological event, that you might accidentally pee yourself? Why would this fluid that is coming out during those happenings be drastically different than that which comes out during a powerful psychophysiological event such as an orgasm be so different? The kidneys have no way of knowing to produce something that is sweet, entirely clear (or sometimes creamy and opaque) in mass quantities.

It really makes no sense for it to be the standard response for a climax. A feminist perspective on female orgasm is of course going to except any possible thing that comes from the female orgasm as normal and zen because we should never criticize or promote any ideas that might bring shame or embarrassment on the female orgasmer now do we?

Squirting is an acceptable term for losing your bladder juice. Who the fuck cares? I quit trying to fit this mold of how all dudes want you to squirt. You know how many guys in the chatroom see you cam (even minus the pussy on cam) and ask "Can you squirt?" "Squirt for me baby" and even on pay cam sites people promote the ability to squirt because women have figured out that you can make a hell of a lot more money if you cater to the large crowd of niave men who will pay a mint just to have some visual proof of your orgasm because the thought of being lied to about the orgasm is more than their ego can handle.

They want it and women have found a way to comply, it's a generalization, but one I've noticed on the horizon of mainstream porn for a few years only.

When a guy is obsessed with getting a woman to squirt, insists it can happen and has been watching videos on the interwebz, pressuring women to think they can do it because so and so has done it. You are showing just how little you actually know and understand female anatomy.
 
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It's odd to me how this conversation is going. If you've 'squirted' then say so, if not, then don't say anything or set up some of the links already given to more discussion on this topic. The argument that this liquid is pee seems odd, since the proof is that the liquid is stored somewhere....so it's urine. There's nowhere else to store liquid in a woman's body....uh, if that's the case, what's the liquid we produce when excited? When we're 'wet' and ready for some hot sex? (or any kind of sex...lol) Is that urine?

I've seen the porn version of squirting...uh, yeah right. I've been with one man that I squirted with (or he explained I squirted) and believe me, it was not comfy. It was like massaging me in a way that was...well, forcing me to a whole new kind of orgasm. It's like potato chips and bailey's brownies. The 'regular orgasm' is the brownie, the squirting experience, for me, was potato chips....felt good sorta and was oddly addicting. I wanted more. And the sex after was sometimes much more satisfying. The regular orgasm is full, rich and satisfying. You don't want tons of them....(bailey's brownies) at least not in one sitting. :)

I dunno if this experience and there was more than once, this was his thing, but anyway, I don't know if this was 'squirting' or not. I was told it was. I didn't smell urine. But! I did panic that first time because it felt like I was going to pee the bed a few moments prior to the potato chip orgasm. lol. But only for a moment, as if you had to get to that point, not panic and then wow....but intense wow.

So, I guess I'm not much help. Maybe the guy was full of it, and I simply had a different type of orgasm, different spots were stimulated and viola, it was an orgasm, not Niagara Falls, but there was a lot wetness. More than normal for me? I don't know. Sorry. I guess I'd just not discount the whole concept of 'squirting' because of porn or because women don't have somewhere to store liquid other than our bladder....since we do get pretty damn wet when turned on and no way Jose is that urine.
 

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Lets consider these,
1. how much fluid can these "skenes" glands hold. why do they not show up on ultrasound ?
My guess is they hold very little, certainly not the amount attributed to squirting. So if I squirted 0.5 mls would that count ?
2. squirting- the female ejaculation. Implies its something better/beyond a normal orgasm. Better for whom ?
3. Does it contain urine ?
Having squirted once I would say yes, how do I know ? I pee everyday so I know when I'm emptying by bladder.
4. was it great? the orgasm was yes, the squirting, to messy for my liking.
5. can all women squirt ? maybe, but more importantly, do they want to, desire to and why.
Thats up to them, personally I prefere to pee in the toilet, thats just me.
 

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Well it makes no sense anatomy-wise. When a doctor uses a scope to look at the urethra and bladder, there is no special portal to another part of the body that could explain fluid other than urine. I've had and seen urethral/bladder surgeries and it's just not there. There is not a trap door inside of the bladder that just can't be seen by doctors but is large enough to emit large amount of fluid.

The fluid in the vagina varies because we can explain how it gets there. The slimy eggwhites are from the bartholin's glands about a 1/2 inch inside the introitus of the vagina. The cervix can produce eggwhite type mucous during ovulation. The creamy/opaque discharge we get throughout our cycle is produced by the vaginal walls as a self-cleansing liquid that also is higher when estrogen levels increase.

But there is nothing special about the urethra or the bladder that can produce the material difference in urine when it comes out during orgasm or sex. It's just not happening in the way people are thinking. Because they understand so little about the anatomy.
 
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It seems the woman that wrote the jezebel article USED to hold the same view as Mademoiselle Rouge : -

"When I first heard about female ejaculation, I thought it was a bullshit myth invented by women who accidentally pee during sex... ...until it happened to me."

But she finishes by saying : -

"I'm still not entirely sure why it even happened to me; the best I can come up with is that as I grow older and more experienced, I'm just getting better at getting off. I definitely have way better orgasms now at 28 than I did at 18."

Now that is not going to make Mademoiselle Rouge happy, but it's the opinion of a woman who has infinitely more personal experience of female ejaculation than she does, and hence, it's hard not to argue, is more valid.

Shejaculation: Or How I Learned To Stop Worrying And Love The Gush
 
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It seems the woman that wrote the jezebel article USED to hold the same view as Mademoiselle Rouge : -

"When I first heard about female ejaculation, I thought it was a bullshit myth invented by women who accidentally pee during sex... ...until it happened to me."

But she finishes by saying : -

"I'm still not entirely sure why it even happened to me; the best I can come up with is that as I grow older and more experienced, I'm just getting better at getting off. I definitely have way better orgasms now at 28 than I did at 18."

Now that is not going to make Mademoiselle Rouge happy, but it's the opinion of a woman who has infinitely more personal experience of female ejaculation than she does, and hence, it's hard not to argue, is more valid.

Shejaculation: Or How I Learned To Stop Worrying And Love The Gush

But you see, you are making this about psychological factors (like worrying and holding back) when it negates all scientific information about anatomy. The bladder doesn't have little holes leading to something else other than the ureters and the urethra leading out of the body. There isn't one inside the urethra either. It defies human possibility that one exists. People would get it infected all the time, it could get clogged up and not drain properly and be prone to cancerous cells and even worse- get small kidney/bladder stones trapped in it. It would present the same issues found in the cervix, bartholin's glands and the prostate gland when it comes to a percentage of the population.

It really doesn't add up in so many ways.

I have a lot of experience with genitourinary issues, as I've had many myself and needed operations and I was going to school to be a gynecological surgeon. There is just no real science to back up how psychology can alter holes that hold a lot of fluid because you've suddenly gotten over fears. What if you never had those fears to begin with?