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It's been a long as time since LPSG has a squirting thread. Squirt was all the rage for a while then, like all trends, it sort of faded into the background.

Kinda sad to still see so many misconceptions about how women's bodies work and why they work.

The following is for educational purposes only. Anyone caught frapping to this information will be visited by the Fairy of Orgasmic Famine. You will not see another orgasm for a long damn while.

What I know of squirting. *ahem* A ramble by ML.

Experience: Being really slutty. Working in a Women's Health Center that focused on sex-positive education and outreach. Working in an adult emporium and talking to an insane number of women about what gets them off and how.

I have noticed three styles of what I call female ejaculation.

1. The Pulse: A clear, slippery liquid ejaculate. Originates from the urethra, in small pulses that coincide with orgasmic contractions. Taste is nothing to sweet, the scent kind of musky. I suspect there is a congestion of fluid that builds up in the small glans encircling the urethra. Orgasmic contractions compress the urethral sponge and force out the fluid. To me, this is full legit female ejaculation since it most closely mimics male ejaculation. The idea of tying women's sexual response to something that necessarily correlates with the male response is a bit annoying to me.

How this was achieved. Most of the time the woman was on her back, with her legs pulled up and her knees angled out. Orgasms were built and teased for an extended time. Both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. The final orgasm, the one that produced the female ejaculation, was mostly g-spot massage.

2. The Gush. A flood of fluid expelled from the vagina by intense orgasmic contractions. The fluid can be clear, frothy, or creamy. Taste is. well, like pussy to sweet to milkish. How I think it works: depending on position and activity natural female lubrication pools in the cul-de-sac/posterior fornix. The contractions of orgasm collapse the vaginal barrel and push the fluid up and out.

How, I've seen the gush most often when a woman is laying on her back, with her hips up. I've also seen the gush after a woman changes positions, so it can happen independently of orgasm. Deep stimulation of the fornix seems to be the key to triggering a gush. The resulting *for the women I've been with* full body orgasm produces the type of deep vaginal contractions needed to push the fluid forward. Happens mostly during some type of toy play or fisting, with the gush happening around the toy/my wrist.

3. The Flood. This has happened just before orgasm or just after. And it looks like what it's called. A flood of fluid running down from or out of the vagina. To me, this is the hottest of all female ejaculation. Very erotic if it happens while you are going down on a woman. The taste is almost always sweet, the scent is sweet and almondy, very slippery, the perfect lube. My guess is the woman producing the flood is at full arousal, both body and mind. She's lost in the pleasure and wonderfully focused on feeling her orgasm and her arousal.

I've encountered the flood in various positions, triggered by all different types of stimuli. I believe The Flood is just something a woman does. The only external required is an attentive partner she trusts. It's extremely erotic to witness and be a part of.

Then there is pee. Orgasmic incontinence happens. Nothing to be embarrassed about. I consider it good form to let your partner know if you have had orgasmic incontinence in the past. I'll not object, it's just a matter of throwing down some extra towels. I'm a grown-up, I can handle a lil pee.

What you see in porn amateur and pro is urinating. There just isn't an organ that can hold that much fluid other than the bladder. It's not a matter of female prostaticIf fluid backing up into the bladder. And the bladder is a sealed organ protected by two urethral sphincters. If fluid could back up into the bladder would be at risk of bladder infections everytime she took a bath. So people claiming anything more than a couple of teaspoons of fluid are talking about pee.

That's it. TL/DR

Ladies can squirt. It's nothing like porn. You can do it or you can't. Don't let men pressure you into or feel bad because you don't.
 

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I wish I could remember the article that I read it's been years ago I would say 7 years ago or so it was right after I had my hysterectomy. I noticed that my vaginal walls when stroked properly during sex would just get very very wet with a watery fluid. Things felt good but I wouldn't call them orgasms and I knew it wasn't coming out of my urethra but anyway does article two goes on to describe how the vagina walls will begin to almost sweat with lubrication when properly aroused especially fast it responds to that. So some of the Milky and or creamy fluid coming out of the vagina can be completely independent of orgasm. It could simply be just our normal vaginal fluids for that time of the month. And the vagina is a self cleaning organ which produces discharge as a part of the cleansing process. That can build up to and come out during penetration of any sort
 

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On another note, does anyone have an opinion as to why scientists still can’t come to a consensus on this? Is female sexuality just preposterously understudied and the studies that are done...?

I just don’t get it. I stopped reading ‘scientific’ articles about female ejaculation because I was tired of reading doctors who insist that it’s just pee.
 
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I think maybe the rarity of female ejaculation makes it harder to study. It's not easy to find a group of self-described female ejaculators. Finding a non-biased group to put up the money and time is rarer still. There almost always an initial bias of the people running the study. They are either looking to confirm FE or dash any idea of women being able to ejaculate. Heaps of people are making heaps of money off of FE, from porn producers to sex-positive gurus preaching the superiority of FE and the toys, they happen to sell, that will make any woman FE.

Sadly the stigma of a sexually confident woman, the whole slut-shaming thing, is still a thing. Unless FE is presented as something a man can do to a woman to prove she achieved orgasm there is not much interest in knowing the exact how and whys. Hell, I think the Bermuda Triangle is less threatening/mysterious than the pink triangle to most people. :p

Medical studies, in general, have failed women. It's only recently that women have been used in case studies. That's why there are so many mysteries surrounding the female body. Like heart conditions. Almost all research and treatment studies were conducted on men. Women have different symptoms of a heart attack and need different treatment. As more women demand better treatment and fair representation in medical research, and as women move up the ranks of scientists in the field, there will be more accurate and in-depth exploration of the female body as a whole. Not just a hole. : unamused:

Damn, I am rambly today.
 

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Sometimes it is pee. I saw this masseuse one time he told me that he's able to make women squirt now let me tell you I wasn't paying for this session we met up on the pretenses of a sensual massage anyway I did not let him try on me just so you know. But I noticed when he was done rubbing my body and he threw the towels in a closed laundry bin that as soon as he opened it it smell like the worst rotted urine smell from all the P covered towels that were quote-unquote squirts
 
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I wish I could remember the article that I read it's been years ago I would say 7 years ago or so it was right after I had my hysterectomy. I noticed that my vaginal walls when stroked properly during sex would just get very very wet with a watery fluid. Things felt good but I wouldn't call them orgasms and I knew it wasn't coming out of my urethra but anyway does article two goes on to describe how the vagina walls will begin to almost sweat with lubrication when properly aroused especially fast it responds to that. So some of the Milky and or creamy fluid coming out of the vagina can be completely independent of orgasm. It could simply be just our normal vaginal fluids for that time of the month. And the vagina is a self cleaning organ which produces discharge as a part of the cleansing process. That can build up to and come out during penetration of any sort

If you ever stumble across the article I would love to read it. I like knowing why my body does what it does. Especially the parts that give me orgasms.

I should have specified in my post that when I mention the FE I am describing a considerably more body fluid than is typical of the vagina or the vagina during orgasm.

Cuz cooters are juicy by design. Hence, the squish mitten was coined.
 

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Also you can find the single scientific study that was done on the subject but there were only 7 participants I believe such a small portion of the female population it doesn't matter what they found in the article it doesn't represent anything to do with its frequency in the population.

But a large majority of women especially those who have had to push a baby out can have some urine leakage very easily which can sometimes be mistaken for squirting. My urologist who had to go in my bladder with a camera through my urethra thank God they knocked me out anyway he said there is nothing that can hold a large volume of fluid other than the bladder and strangely he said the amount of women that are said to be able to do this are also the same percentage of women who have urine leakage.
 
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If you ever stumble across the article I would love to read it. I like knowing why my body does what it does. Especially the parts that give me orgasms.

I should have specified in my post that when I mention the FE I am describing a considerably more body fluid than is typical of the vagina or the vagina during orgasm.

Cuz cooters are juicy by design. Hence, the squish mitten was coined.

If it doesn't sound like macaroni and cheese when you're done with her you've done something wrong
 

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Just my own experience, but I have only become a "squirter" in recent years and now consistently with my current lover.

Using the previous ladies terminology, (fabulous info and descriptions btw). I experience a flood. At first, it was only from manual stimulation but now it can happen in any position and with numerous forms of stimulation, and I have absolutely no control over it.

For me, I think it's a combination of feeling completely comfortable and confident in my sexuality and his responsiveness to me. He loves it!!
 

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Am I the only one here who doesn't mind having dry orgasms I mean I'm just rubbing my clit anyway to get off I don't even pay attention to my vagina when I masturbate it gets completely ignored sometimes I'll have my husband give me a little G-spot stimulation with his fingers while I rub my clit that produces the best orgasms ever. But it never happens during penetration. But anyway I'm glad that I can just roll over and go to sleep and not have a wet bed I am a very Persnickety person I would not want to have to wash the sheets every time we have sex. Hooray for non squirting for me I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything my orgasms are the bomb. All orgasms matter. Lol
 

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I am not a squirter. I have no desire to be a squirter. If the orgasms are really that much better I would probably dislocate a joint or die. Or both. Dislocate something then die. Regular orgasm charlie horses are bad enough.

I get pretty damn wet. I am human Astroglide. If I just go for a clit it and quit it orgasm, I am all good with being damp and rolling over for a nap, or going on about my day with a quick swipe from a washrag. If I am going to get into any penetration I know I am going to make a mess, throw down a towel.
 
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As a squirter I actually don't mind a moist orgasm rather than squirt.
I'm pretty fastidious about my bed and I'm NOT laying in a wet spot so
that means stripping the bed, putting them in the washing machine and putting on new linens...
having a shower...etc....*sigh*
Even if I lay on a towel it still follows the same routine.
For a quick wank or when energy is really low, squirting is too much fucking trouble.

I'm a lazy fuck = can squirt but chooses not to cuz...laundry.
 
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I’m a squirter. I’ve squirted during sex and fingering. It’s never been this massive explosion of a waterfall, but it sprays out. I always know when it’s about to happen because it builds like an orgasm. I don’t always squirt when I cum or have sex. It’s an angle I have to hit perfectly.
 

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To me, squirting does nothing to enhance orgasm. Alone, it inconveniences me, but not terribly. It seems to excite partners. It is an occasional symptom, or precursor of orgasm. Nothing more or less.

I most commonly experience what Mickey Lee described as #3, the flood, right before orgasm. I have had male partners stop or ejaculate because they thought that was my orgasm, even after being told on multiple occasions that it is not. I think of it more as a small spill, like a shot glass being tipped over. Mine smells like rasins. I have no idea what it tastes like. I mean, I've tasted it, but I do not remember.
 
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I had a long term partner who was a bit OCD/a germaphobe and he hated it. Hated it. Grossed him out. In order to not interrupt the action, I'd actively try NOT to squirt. Can't tell you how many times that mental distraction would cheat me out of a good orgasm. Even though I'm no longer with him, I sometimes get in my own head about it. Pffft.
 

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I had a long term partner who was a bit OCD/a germaphobe and he hated it. Hated it. Grossed him out. In order to not interrupt the action, I'd actively try NOT to squirt. Can't tell you how many times that mental distraction would cheat me out of a good orgasm. Even though I'm no longer with him, I sometimes get in my own head about it. Pffft.
After what I have experienced, I'm chalking up every guy who dislikes pussy juice as gay and dumping them that second. Doesn't matter what else we have.
 

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I’m wondering about the situations that the women on here, who do squirt, find themselves in. Does it happen during sex, do you masturbate and do it alone, just curious. Also if you have had a guy with you, what have you come across in terms of how they react to you squirting? I’m kind of nervous and we haven’t watched any squirting porn together (probably a good thing based on what I’m learning on this thread.
I squirted only twice and I remember both because of the leg shaking orgasms.
Both;
- During sex
- After a long time building up emotionally. Knowing that it is going to happen but doing something else while thinking about it. A party and watching a movie together. I get really built up for the occasion.
- After loooong making out and foreplay.
- With girthy guys. One experienced and the other a teenie.
The experienced knew what to do. Where to pressurise the C and the G. Kept his hands and mouth busy. Definitely working his way to make me squirt. Happened during missionary.
Young gun was aware of his size but just wanted to pump his way to the peak. I had to be the conductor and do the pulling and pushing. It happened during scissors position which I also believe should be ideal between "slutty" girls. :)
I don't masturbate nowadays but no squirt during those days.

The experienced one had a victory smile, obviously and the other guy was clueless but surprised at the intensity. And as per Mickey's wonderful post, I squirted at level 1.

I hope this helps albeit based on a miniscule sampling batch.

Finally, if a guy told me to take a shower after ejaculating on my face, I'd tell sumbich to lick it clean and kick his sorry ass out of the door. Naked. Well, that's just me.
 

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Just my own experience, but I have only become a "squirter" in recent years and now consistently with my current lover.

Using the previous ladies terminology, (fabulous info and descriptions btw). I experience a flood. At first, it was only from manual stimulation but now it can happen in any position and with numerous forms of stimulation, and I have absolutely no control over it.

For me, I think it's a combination of feeling completely comfortable and confident in my sexuality and his responsiveness to me. He loves it!!
Can I ask how you brought this up with him? I’m not really that shy online, but for some reason being in person I have a harder time talking about things like this. I’m not sure what to say.

The communication between you and your current lover sounds excellent.
 

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I had to be the conductor and do the pulling and pushing. It happened during scissors position which I also believe should be ideal between girls. :)

I like your boss attitude

The experienced one had a victory smile, obviously and the other guy was clueless but surprised at the intensity.

:joy: :joy:

So you’ve only done it in bed? I make such a mess I prefer to do it in the shower. It will go through to the mattress pad XP
 
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Insofar as addressing it with a partner, sometimes letting it just happen will do.

I was “lucky” and the squirting happened in video play while he was away.
The response was in the oh my god, that’s beautiful range.
We tried to get me that wound up at other points, but it can be tough for me to orgasm in general, and to gush/squirt right before is rarer still.

So, video play since then has netted one, and a session where he wisely said, it doesn’t have to happen.

Come to think of it, he’s very good with “if it happens, great, if it doesn’t, let’s have fun anyway.”
Knowing his expectations v desires is freeing.
 

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Come to think of it, he’s very good with “if it happens, great, if it doesn’t, let’s have fun anyway.”
Knowing his expectations v desires is freeing.

Thanks for your input Scarlet. It sounds like you and your partner are both incredibly compassionate and sweet to each other. I especially enjoyed reading your comments about him on the ‘She Won’t Admit She Likes It’ thread. Especially the gentle chiding and playful redirecting :)

I know my brain gives him hard ons.

Is there a clapping emoji on here? I’ve looked but haven’t found one
 
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