St8 guys flirting w/ gay men?

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I have been fortunate enough to have received 3 overt flirtations from handsome , married male coworkers, all of whom were fellow schoolteachers, which happened during the school day(in all 3 cases we were alone for the moment) at the public high school where I worked in Salinas, CA.

We were very discreet. neither spouses, students, coworkers, the principal or anyone else knew. In the first case, it was with the water polo coach whose classroom was next door to mine. He saw me in the private coaches' shower room, and hit on me right there. He was quite enamored of my penis. The second and third cases happened a year or two later, and in both cases, the water polo coach had mentioned to both teachers that i was well -endowed.

I was thrilled, needless to say, from the attention of 3 men that I found attractive, and I respected as friends and good coworkers as well.

I have also been hit on by a few male parents of my students. That has been a bit awkward, although flattering and exciting at the same time.

I wont even get into the many times male high school students I presumed were straight have flirted with me. That is a universal taboo that requires a variety of quick exit strategies that do not humiliate or embarrass the student.

So, yes, straight guys do flirt with gay men. It is perfectly normal and rather common. Dont be shocked or dismayed. It is all part of being human and expressing desire.
 

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cruztbone said:
I have been fortunate enough to have received 3 overt flirtations from handsome , married male coworkers....

So, yes, straight guys do flirt with gay men. It is perfectly normal and rather common. Dont be shocked or dismayed. It is all part of being human and expressing desire.

What you describe is fun, and I think everyone enjoys it and goes away happier for it.

But to do it as a farce at someone's expense isn't fun or funny.
 

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I really don't like it when straight men flirt with me because of all the heartache I've allowed myself to suffer. I think the toughest time was in college with a close male friend who flirted with me playfully and at other times, it really felt like something else.

It got to a point where I finally looked him square in the eyes and asked him directly to stop what he was doing because it was borderline teasing and killing me because it only caused my feelings to grow stronger.
:frown1:

It really didn't help that his house was the party house and other questionable things happened...

Sinner or Saint... I felt like I was being noble but... ugh.

Flirting bad!
 

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I think it is both amusing and surprising that "straight" men with huge cocks would want to flirt with a gay guy!

Having said that, I also think it is both amusing and surprising at how easy it is to get these straight men so worked up that they want you to suck them off.

Experience has taught me that I get to suck these men off simply because I am discreet and will not tell.

How straight does that make the men?

Put it this way: airplane/aeroplane crash + desert island + horny + noone except a gay man = a very compromised straight man experiencing his best blow job of his life!
 

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back.sliden said:
Str8 guy to str8 guy, all we have to do/say is anything that makes the gay guys think we'll go the whole way with them. It's alot of fun. Even though we know we won't ever go that far. It's hilarious to watch them get all hot and flustered, and then when we walk away they look like lost puppies. It's even more fun when they start cussing you out because of it, and get pissed off. Then I look into their eyes and say, "Sweetie, what happen?" and put my hand on their shoulder. :biggrin1:

Uh huh. Unless of course hes bigger and meaner than you, and decides to pin your scrawny ass down and jam your innards with nothing between your bleeding rectum and the veins in his dick but used Crisco.

This thread and specifically this post smells a little shitty. Oh wait - that's just the mud hole you formerly referred to as your ass.

And how was it for you, "Sweetie"?

You are hot though. I checked out your profile pic. You should totally model for like LL Bean. I mean you look like you're cut straight out of their catalog, bro!
 

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vinny_spiruccino said:
Uh huh. Unless of course hes bigger and meaner than you, and decides to pin your scrawny ass down and jam your innards with nothing between your bleeding rectum and the veins in his dick but used Crisco.

This thread and specifically this post smells a little shitty. Oh wait - that's just the mud hole you formerly referred to as your ass.

And how was it for you, "Sweetie"?

You are hot though. I checked out your profile pic. You should totally model for like LL Bean. I mean you look like you're cut straight out of their catalog, bro!
Vinny, have I told you lately that I love you?
 

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hootie said:
Joking between friend is one thing, watching someone squirm is not nice at all. That is just cruel and mean. I have flirted with a few gay friends. We had good laughs over it. I flirt with women friends. They all know it's just hot air.

I couldn't agree more. If you're swinging your dick around in a locker room, and then take offense when a gay guy gives it a little tug in mid helicopter mode, then you're an asshole. I'd say the same thing about a straight woman who was swinging her fresh from the plastic surgeon's implants in every direction and then takes offense to somebody lifting a boob to check for scars. Unless you're swinging from a pole while shaking your new boobs in a guy's face then don't act violated when he gives one of your tits a little squeeze and doesn't throw a dollar bill at your feet. And men, unless you're willing to fill every orifice in a lockerroom with that big meaty dick of yours, make sure you don't hang a towel from your raging hard-on and scream "Look! It's a towel rack!" :biggrin1:
 

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fratpack said:
Well, it is just as much fun for me to flirt with straight guys who are really jerks and watch them squirm because I get a kick out of it too. Especially a lot of fun in front of their friends because he will never hear the end of it. Even better outing a "straight" guy and in front of his friends, the world is a cruel two way street. Because as much "fun" as straight people have laughing at the gays, don't ever think there won't be payback.

that is just sad. I don't laugh at anyone because of their orientation. that is just wrong. now i might laugh at your pot belly while you are in a speedo but I wouldn't let you see. I just remember this bumper sticker that is so true

MEAN PEOPLE SUCK
 

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c'mon guys, str8 men don't really flirt with gay men....that's just a gay fantasy.
 

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I've been hit on by str8 guys before..... I've even managed to pick up one or two over the years. Mostly I know it's because str8 guys like being flattered and having the attention.... some are just horny and want a BJ.
 

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man, no disrespect intended. str8 men crave pussy, or bj's frome WOMEN...they love women...I think the only time they might accept sexual attention from another man is if they are in prison, or very openminded...unlikely...
 

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lol jayroo...still a gay j/o fantasy...str8 men are grossed out by our male/male sex...but I guess many of us will always still think of their dicks as more delicious than other gays men's equipment...to each his own, hm?
 

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mainer1 said:
lol jayroo...still a gay j/o fantasy...str8 men are grossed out by our male/male sex...but I guess many of us will always still think of their dicks as more delicious than other gays men's equipment...to each his own, hm?
that's not true. like in jayroo's "objection", i've seen straight guys flirt with gay guys to get their way PLENTY of times!!!
 

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Spladle said:
Wouldn't the fact that they're hitting on gay men make them gay rather than straight? I'm cnfuzzd.

Go ahead, click the link. It won't hurt you!
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