horribleperson said:
i have a number of stalkers they are all 12-16yo girls who live in my neighborhood.
I hear that. My boyfriend's little sister tries to hug me and generally touch me more than my b/f and g/f together. Plus she calls me "Thor" and, when no one else is around us, has asked me how my hammer is doing. One time she showed up in the pool house shower, at the same time as me. Since I thought every one else had gone to the house, I was showering naked. I quickly turned around and YELLED at her, "GO AWAY!"
I've caught the neighbor two daughters watching me work in the yard; when they see me look right at them, they run away giggling.
But I don't worry too much about that.
The only time I've worried is when I got a letter that started with:
You don't need to worry. I'm not some nut job. I bought your address from a license-plate website lookup company.
The Ohio DMV used to earn extra cash that way. In all, there were three letters from this person. The letters, amongst other things, told me not to wear a particular sweeter because it doesn't match my winter complexion, a friend I was at the art museum with wasn't tall enough for me or she should wear high-heels when around me, that I looked better with long hair but the short hair was sexy in a military sort of way, my "masculinity" was too "prominently visible" in the jeans with the hole in the "other knee" and i looked like a slut in them. (My old laundry day jeans had a small hole in the right knee, as opposed to the left leg that I hang down when commando, which was why I was doing laundry, no more underwear.)
The third letter had a self-addressed return envelope with it and expressed "great dismay" about my not having "sought contact at our encounters." That was when I called a friend at the DA office, she took care of everything for me and I never got another letter again. Plus a police officer friend of mine volunteered to spend a few extra nights a week at my place, I wouldn't have objected to that anyway.
