never had an online stalker. years ago, i had 2 female stalkers. for awhile I had both of them stalking me. I was able to shake the one, because she had a good job and work ethic, so she could not stalk me full time. with both, I laid low for awhile, broke my normal routine. one night I came out to go to a bar, they both were sitting down the street in their cars. followed me to the bar, i wonder if they ever met. I started leaving my house around 4 pm, instead of 9pm and drove to a nearby city, and dated and stayed with an old GF on weekends for awhile. I told my old gf what was going on and she wanted to find both of them and tell them I wasn't worth it. Ha Ha. This succeeded in pissing them both off, and I got rid of them. only to have the one return for awhile later. the one was a terrible fuck,cute but thin, and the other was very pretty and nice, great body, not bad in bed, but did not want to go out with me any more, BUT wanted to make sure I did not go out with someone else. when I disappeared on weekends she got very pissed, and confronted me, "who are you fucking??" " I demand to know?" She had issues, her parents were divorced, she was the oldest and her dad had beat on her mom. I never hit or beat on her, and she told her gf that I did, and her GF told her she was lying. Never figured that one out. she continued to harass me and later me and my wife for a few yrs until we moved away. we told almost no one when we moved and 2-3 months after we were in our new city and home, we found that she was making inquiries as to our whereabouts. she never found us, and moved to God knows where.