starting a relationship!

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Hello guys

I need somewhere to express my concers on how and where to start a relationship.

I've been single for two years and they've been both good and bad, in july 2011 i broke up with my ex-boyfriend (it was a very un healty relationship) and a few months later another Ex boyfriend of mine past away.
Since then i havent had a relationship (or sex), sometimes i feel blocked and even scared that the past might comeback again. But now i feel ready to be in a relationship, ready to date again, i feel confident enough to carry a relationship but i can't seem to find potential in anyone.

I would really apreciate if you could help me in this case (especially on how to pick the good and stay away from the bad).

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Think carefully about how you would like to meet people ...

- work / sports / social clubs
- bars
- online
- etc.

Even within one category, there are different options ( e.g., different bars / nights attracting different kinds of people ) ...

But, importantly, it's not all about categories and headlines. People are individuals. It takes a little while for two people to get to know each other. It takes some attention, and effort.

For yourself, just take it easy, slowly, step by step. Make sure you have a little support from others - colleagues, family, friends, whatever ... but don't turn it into a big drama.

Just take it easy, step by step, eyes wide open.

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broke up with my partner of 12 year about 1 1/2 yrs ago. had no idea it was ending..he walked out on me while I was at work...came home to a note on the bed and empty closets. still in the dark about it and have had no communication with him since. (long, long story) anyway. Im starting to date and there are a lot of ups and downs to it. but met a guy a few weeks ago that ive been communicating with . hes nice, handsome and It just feels good. take it slow and see what develops. In love, you have to be prepared to win some and to loose some I guess.....