I have always done more than my share of the housework and raising my sons.
Here, women complain that this change has meant more work for them. I am sure that it has meant exactly that for many.
Now, you know who you are, and, should have known your husbands B-E-F-O-R-E you said "I do"; however, I ask you to honestly answer the following questions.
1.) Did you ever think that "you could change him"? Newsflash: You were buying a lemon, not a lemon meringue pie.
2.) Were you only interested in men that "you had to fight for"? Guess what: You picked the wrong battle! You should never have to do that. You just communicated that you would do everything.
3.) You were not marrying someone better looking that you were, and, by extension someone that would put you onto a pedestal. Surprise: It is not handsome men that make bad husbands, but, apathetic ones. Luckily, they come in all shapes and sizes, so judging a book by its cover won't work.