Curious bottom here, I love being fucked but the second I get penetrated I lose my erection. Sometimes able to maintain it with a dick pill or two, but is there a way to train myself to be able to be hard while getting fucked? My cock would look so good hard and bouncing on someone’s stomach…
Sorry, I have the same situation. When I am being fucked, there are only two things in my mind:
1. The great feeling that the fucking is giving my ass and ( hopefully) prostate. Or, the terrible feeling from someone who obviously doesn't know how to fuck properly.
2. Making the top feel as good about fucking me as I feel getting it from him. I want to give him the most pleasure I can, so it will be a memorable experience. I am here to serve him.
With all of that, the last thing on my mind is having a hard cock; it's just not important. Would I like one? Yes, but the other things are more important. Enjoy the experience and celebrate the feelings that you do get. It will make for more satisfying sex. Good luck.