Staying hard while bottoming

[StuJr]

i think there is something really hot about allowing your dick to do what it wants, while being fucked. i dont like to jerk off a lot, when my BF is in me. . . just do my 'bottom' job, and let my dick and my hole do their own thing.

I'm the same way. I don't jerk myself off usually while I'm getting fucked, but my cock naturally gets rock hard. I've had guys comment on how hard it gets. I love it when a guy has been fucking me for some time, then squirts some lube on my dick and starts jerking me while he's pounding my ass. I'm usually a dribbler, but I've shot cum up to my chin when he's done that.

In porn, I've noticed that the top rarely touches the cock of the bottom. I especially enjoy when the top does jack off the bottom. So hot.

 

[lbmaine]

I have a different point of view ,, i extremely enjoy bottoming, and when i'm deeply enjoying the fuck session , i don't think about my cock. I focus only on my fucked ass, my cock usually hard in the start and as get more and more anal pleasure, it starts to relax till it become floppy at the end , even i can cum hands free from it.
So when you fuck a real bottom , don't care about his cock, just pay attention to the look on his face..

I have to agree...face to face..my legs on his shoulders...my dick isn't even being thought of!! :smile:

 

[amiable15]

i've bottomed 3 time. on all 3 of those occasions, my dick was soft. but i assure you, i was thoroughly enjoying myself.

someone made a point earlier in the thread. about watching porn and seeing a bottom being fucked but having a soft dick. i'm the exact same way. i guess it's one of those things where my fantasy =/= my reality. either way though. i love being fucked.. and i love porn where a bottom is hard while being fucked.

 

[wappingite]

I bottomed the other day for a top who wanted me flat on my stomach. As I get rock hard, it was a bit uncomfortable to have my fully hard dick pressed down like that. I had to build a rhythm to push him up with my thighs and bum on his backstrokes in order to give my cock some relief. Lol.

 

[mobilephone]

Sometimes I don't stay hard if I'm being fucked particularly hard.

If it happens, I make the most of the situation, once the top is ready, I'll cum with a flaccid to a semi, then still get a full erection ready to go again.

If I do stay hard, it's completely rock hard, and the urge to not cum becomes so strong I have to get my arms pinned down.

 

[cbxer55]

Strictly referring to dildo use here. I can be totally soft. I like to start on my back, legs up. Insert a dildo, I'm hard real fast. I stay in this position for awhile, then switch to an on top position with a larger dildo. At this point I start pissing precum in huge amounts. I like to tease myself for awhile. When I cum, I start oozing large amounts of cum before I ever feel the ejaculation happen. Makes quite a mess, so much so that I put a towel down on the floor to catch it all. Never have cum hands-free, but gotten Oh So Close.

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

I stay hard when very turned on, particularly when I'm riding a big hard cock, I love to cum all over his stomach.

Can go soft when in doggy position however.

Exactly the same here.

 

[1Cody]

I don't know, it seems like when I bttm it is all about the tops pleasure and getting him off. I know that a guy gave me a handjob once while getting me from behind. I was hard and he kept at it until I came. I will pay more attention from now on.

 

[deleted1000191]

As long as I have a cock in my ass, I don't care if I am hard. I had four guys fuck me in one session, and after I was penetrated the first time, I don't think I was hard from then on.

 

[cedarizzo]

Staying hard while I'm bottoming has never been a problem, I'm always rock hard before, during and after. The only time I lost my erection while bottoming was when my ex used to some extremely large dildos on me. And even then, I went from rock hard to semi-hard.

 

[chadstallion]

cant stay hard when being fucked.

 

[kentgwm]

Never had a problem staying hard while getting fucked. The problem is more having to prevent cumming too soon.

 

[Brodie888]

I think for most bottoms, the level of enjoyment has nothing to do with having an erection or not.

In my opinion it just comes down to where the bottom's thoughts are focused. A lot of bottoms focus on the feeling in their ass and optimizing the pleasure to the top so what their cock is doing doesn't even come into it. Others focus on how erotic being fucked is and the need to cum so they will tend to stay hard.

There's no right or wrong, just different.

 

[erpap]

Stay hard while being fucked, and cum hands free as well.

 

[Mister2101]

I think for most bottoms, the level of enjoyment has nothing to do with having an erection or not.

In my opinion it just comes down to where the bottom's thoughts are focused. A lot of bottoms focus on the feeling in their ass and optimizing the pleasure to the top so what their cock is doing doesn't even come into it. Others focus on how erotic being fucked is and the need to cum so they will tend to stay hard.

There's no right or wrong, just different.

I love it when my ass is totally relaxed getting fucked....and I am focusing completely on my ass and the pleasure that is slowly building from deep inside of me. The erotic thoughts and emotional release from knowing that another man is inside of me, giving me this immense pleasure...and then I look down and see that my own cock is rock hard and leaking tons of precum.......puts my mind and body in a wonderful place.....just nothing like it......

 

[buttfuckbro]

depends on the bro doing the fucking for me.
if he's hot and hard and rough and the mood fits, I'm stiff the whole time
I've also been totally hard during a more gently spoon sesh, but the dude was thick AF and knew how to bounce in me

I've been fucked a few times where it felt really good but my dick went a lil soft
I still enjoyed it and have came semi-hard during a rough slam fuck on my back

if I ride it, I almost always stay hard

 

[Xry777]

I go limp as soon as he gets started. That doesn't mean I don't like to bottom.

 

[muskokan]

i am a total bottom and only am hard when someone is playing with or sucking on my cock. i do not believe that not being hard is not being turned on, rather it is indicative of my total obsession with the cock i am paying attention to. As a bottom it is not imperative to cum, rather it is my task to give whomever is topping me the best experience my body can give him; if he makes me cum that is a bonus but not the focus.

 

[deleted1000191]

I used to stay hard when I was younger. I'm 67 now, and when I'm being fucked, I seldom get hard, but do have a steady stream of cum leaking from my cock.

 

[hotbtminla]

Some guys are hard-wired to be able to get or maintain an erection while being fucked. Others are hard-wired not to be able.

I sometimes get kinda half-hard but that usually has more to do with what, if any, foreplay came beforehand. I don't really pay any attention to my dick when I'm getting fucked; all of my focus is on the super intense pleasure I feel from getting my hole fucked, and how much I love to get deep dicked and used by a horned up guy to get his nut.

Whether I get an erection or not is completely separate from whether I'm enjoying it, or sexually stimulated.