staying in a lousy relationship - body or cock?

[GS_PL]

If you have a lousy relationship that you want to get out of, which of the two features of your partner keep you reluctantly lingering, his super physique that you're attracted to, or his incredible penis, which is challenging to leave even though it's attached to a terrible human being? This is a question posed to those in any kind of relationship (in other words, all sexes).

My sister when she was nineteen dumped a boyfriend for having too small of a penis, even though other than that, she liked him in all other aspects. She ended up marrying a guy who wasn't in good shape but had a monster cock. That didn't last long, but she bragged about how well-endowed the son they had together is. Now, her ex IS in fantastic shape - the divorce triggered being bit by the fitness bug, and now she wants him back. Her son wants nothing to do with her, and like dad has muscles to go with his 3rd leg.

 

[Sagittarius84]

My relationship with my ex lasted maybe 2 more yrs than it should have because the sex was good, reliably mutually pleasurable, and most of all consistent. Add to that a physique that somehow both encompassed the ideals of feminine petiteness(5'5-6" narrow waist) and the voluptuous appeal of big breasts and nice sized hips(not too much of a butt tho, lol), it was easy to overlook the toxic traits that made her a bad gf, and a bad possible candidate to bring forth my children into this world.

 

[GS_PL]

Was the breakup amicable, and did you bring a child or children into the world with someone less toxic? Shallow follow-up : if her ass was more to your liking, would you still be with her?

 

[Sagittarius84]

Was the breakup amicable, and did you bring a child or children into the world with someone less toxic? Shallow follow-up : if her ass was more to your liking, would you still be with her?

Fairly amicable breakup, have two kids with current wife, much less toxic.
No, as I said earlier the physical compatibility kept me around longer than I should have, but it was doomed no matter what she looked like or how good the sex was.

 

[deleted1074483]

good sex in a relationship can always make other decisions difficult for sure - not sure that comes down to dick size or body type? Good sex is good sex with that person with whatever attribures they have. And if you both have equal libidos and have that 'need' for sex that can confuse the matters even more for sure.

I'm sure this is true of gay or straight relationships?

I've had a couple of ex's where we became fwbs after we broke up as we both realised the relationship wasn't meeting our wider needs but where the sex was amazing - but the break ups were mutual not because of any toxicity or bad feelings.

When we met new partners we moved on but remain friends.

 

[Iwanthead]

Or maybe you stay based on partner capable of deepthroating your cock, and partner knows that is your want to for your ultimate pleasure.

 

[HungBoyRN]

For me it was the perfect ass. Not so much a relationship as it was a FWB situation, but the sex was very intimate, passionate, and just plain hot. When he started lying around the 4-year mark about random stuff with almost every contact (text, sex, or just being in the same room), I tried to tell myself it didn't matter as long as I could fuck that perfect hole. It went on for about another year until I realized that with every lie he told me, thinking I bought it, he was making a fool out of me.