I'm sure this has been discussed, but what ways do you dudes have to hold off your orgasm? The hotspot on my cock is so extremely sensitive (it doesn't help that i've enlarged that area over time, either) that I cannot hold out long enough for my wife to cum until the second, and sometimes the third round with her. I often go thru the alphabet backwards in my mind, stuff like that--real sexy, let me tell you. Just wondering what works for the other men here. I'm serious about this, thanks.