Stays hard forever

[rawbone8]

I agree that the director calls the shot.

Perhaps it makes it a little easier for the consumer to visualize that it's his (the viewer's own) dick spraying up there on the star's face, tits or ass, while he performs his own soloist money shot from his sofa.

I'd think too that the porn performer is responsible for getting it out in impressive juicy spurts and landing it on his target for the benefit of the lens. It makes sense that he'd be better technically able to ensure that it goes where it's supposed to go, and on cue. If the stroking is out of sync it might just dribble disappointingly when the scene calls for more trajectory.

If the director wanted a male performer to cum on demand much sooner I'm sure he'd do that too.

 

[B_Hickboy]

Okay, I haven't posted a sex question in a long time, but recently I've met several guys who had what seemed like eternal erections. Now, I'm not complaining, mind you, but it does seem odd. I was wondering if any members here on the board are like this. They get very hard easily, stay hard for as long as I want sex, then when they want to get off, the have to jack off really hard.

Now, none of this is a problem, quite the opposite, I was just wondering how many guys are like that consistantly?

So anyway, Mme Z., how are you getting on with this situation? Does it bother you that these guys look like they need to JO in order to get their rocks?

 

[Aplus]

You SO missed my point. They are not doing it because it is the only way they can cum. They are doing it because that is how they are TOLD to do it. I know guys (and girls) that have done porn. Trust me.

There are more than 10,000 porno films being made every year, but yet a relatively small number of male performers in them. I didn't miss your point, my point is that these guys are not machines, and its not nearly as easy as they make it look. Watch a few of those behind-the-scenes segments of the dvd's. If you watch enough of them, or the right ones, you'll see some guys struggling to ejaculate. Not saying it happens all the time or necessarily a large percentage of the time, but I do know it happens. I've seen it with my own eyes, and plus I too have talked with a few pornstars over the years, and I've heard it from some of them also.

 

[Lex]

There are more than 10,000 porno films being made every year, but yet a relatively small number of male performers in them. I didn't miss your point, my point is that these guys are not machines, and its not nearly as easy as they make it look. Watch a few of those behind-the-scenes segments of the dvd's. If you watch enough of them, or the right ones, you'll see some guys struggling to ejaculate. Not saying it happens all the time or necessarily a large percentage of the time, but I do know it happens. I've seen it with my own eyes, and plus I too have talked with a few pornstars over the years, and I've heard it from some of them also.

Okay--let me clarify--I do agree that the guys have a tough time ejaculating for the cum shot and that making pron (As an actor) is VERY hard (given today's vid technology, it is relatively easy to produce them). This is often (from my discussions with stars) from the fact that they have cum MANY times while making the scene. I was disputing the idea that these guys can ONLY cum from manual stimulation. These guys have to have sex on camera with a bunch of people there--the cum, get fluffed between takes, etc. There are a ton of things that happen than never make the final cut. My apologies if I seemed testy.

 

[Dr. Bubbles]

Hi Zora,

I have never encountered what you have described and am not sure how I would respond to it. Naturally, we like to have multiples, so a BIG GREEDY grin would definitely be on my face. However, I also realize that there comes a time when the "well runs dry."

So, with that said... do you help the guy out and help him to finish? I mean, you said he had to do it "hard." Are you able to help out or is that something that he just has to complete on his own, with you there watching of course.

Is that a silly question???

 

[madame_zora]

Ha, good question, Dr. Bubbles. I'll talk about the guy I see most frequently. He's about my age, very fit, works out all the time. It's different every time, but he usually takes about an hour of solid pretty hard sex before he even gets close. Sometimes he just cums, but usually we take turns jacking him off. Doesn't seem to matter who's the finisher.
I'd never leave him alone for the good part.

 

[RideRocket]

Hi Zora -
I think most of it's mental. Men either want to gratify themselves, or satisfy the woman they are with. Either way works as long as each person knows what the other wants.

As for me, I've found that the quicker I finish (if I truly put my mind to it, under 5 minutes), the shorter my refractory period is before I'm hard again. On the other hand, the longer I go (about 30 minutes), the longer my 'down' time. But the longer I go, the more satisfying my orgasms are.

In the long run though, you just can't have a bad orgasm!

 

[madame_zora]

Hi Zora -
I think most of it's mental. Men either want to gratify themselves, or satisfy the woman they are with. Either way works as long as each person knows what the other wants.

As for me, I've found that the quicker I finish (if I truly put my mind to it, under 5 minutes), the shorter my refractory period is before I'm hard again. On the other hand, the longer I go (about 30 minutes), the longer my 'down' time. But the longer I go, the more satisfying my orgasms are.

In the long run though, you just can't have a bad orgasm!

Yeah, that's a lot of it. Men who practise holding back seem to have a tougher time when they're ready to shoot. I am of the opinion that as long as we're both having fun it isn't a problem. Everyone's so different, it's just kind of nice to know going in that I won't be let down.

 

[Geo]

Yeah, that's a lot of it. Men who practise holding back seem to have a tougher time when they're ready to shoot. I am of the opinion that as long as we're both having fun it isn't a problem. Everyone's so different, it's just kind of nice to know going in that I won't be let down.

Yes if I hold back a while and I am really turned on I'll shoot and then I can keep going for some reason and go for more, but it is not every time and I never really have sorted out what the factor is (but the holding back has something to do with it) but it sure is neat when it happens! That is why I don't use condoms (I have one lover and ONLY one I prefer just one person and no condoms) because there is no fuss-n-muss and I can just continue on and I like "target practice" lol too

 

[B_horribleperson]

after a good 60minutes or so of fuckin, im ready to cum.

 

[madame_zora]

Yeah, I knew there had to be some long-timers on here. 60 mintues of fucking is a HELL of a long time.

Hickboy, it's going fine. My favorite lover just came in under a half hour for the first time the other day without j/o. I've been talking about it to him, a little. He's just always been like that and didn't really know it was unusual (married for over 20 years and hasn't slept around a lot). Not on drugs, not suffering from emotional problems, just unique. Anyway, since I love to give head, I get to do it as much as I want, get fucked as long as I want, and still get to play with it afterward, most times. Why on earth wouldn't I be happy about that? Funny thing is with him, after he comes once, he usually wants to come again. It happens much faster the second time and it's exciting for both of us to play with his cock. I think for me mentally knowing what a voracious appetite he has is a big turn on. Usually it's me with the big appetite and no one to play with to completion.

 

[D_Salmaine Sharpshlong]

It seems like sometimes I have a hard time not cumming to soon and other times it takes forever. Often, if I am about to come but can control it so that I don't it then takes a long time to come. Also, I have a cock ring, and my wife loves it when I wear it. With it on I can often stay hard even after I come and then keep going and come again. It all depends on the mood and the chemistry of the moment. I would recommend trying a cock ring for guys who want a really hard erection. I've used one for a long time with no problems.

 

[Blue]

Madame Zora, what you have described sounds a lot like me about 2-3 years ago. My girlfriend and I would have sex several times a day at 1+ hours per session. She would come dozens of times before I was even close and it could then take quite a while of some intesne jacking off before I was done. And every once in a while I could actually go again without stopping. Those were extra fun. These days I can still last a respectable amount of time, but we almost have it down to a science so it just doesn't take that long anymore because we know what we want. That and I was younger, in better shape ,jerked off more, and had WAY more free time. Our record was her having 53 orgasms before I came one time in a session that lasted between 1 and 1.5 hours. Several times she has been in the 20's and occassionally in the 30's, but we have never quite come close to that mark of 53 again. And she always thought it was funny that I stayed at least semi hard after sex, and even now I have to admit she rarely sees me completely flaccid.

 

[GoneA]

i find that lately [in the last 2 years] i have more control over my orgasm. if i want to [FONT=&quot]ejaculate[/FONT] in minutes ("a quickie" as i like to call it) or if i want a much, much more protracted amount of time, i can decide. i haven't been with any one person in quite some time but, i find that on the rare occasion, when i do 'hook-up' with someone, they are quite appreciative of my erectile prowess.

 

[GoneA]

i've been following the argument betwixt Lex and Aplus and i must say, i'm more inclined to side with Lex. unfortunately, i've seen several pornography documentaries and the things i've heard buttress Lex's argument.

 

[madame_zora]

i find that lately [in the last 2 years] i have more control over my orgasm. if i want to [FONT=&quot]ejaculate[/FONT] in minutes ("a quickie" as i like to call it) or if i want a much, much more protracted amount of time, i can decide. i haven't been with any one person in quite some time but, i find that on the rare occasion, when i do 'hook-up' with someone, they are quite appreciative of my erectile prowess.

*sigh* I just want to hear you growl the words "erectile prowess" in my ear.

 

[rawbone8]

*sigh* I just want to hear you growl the words "erectile prowess" in my ear.

There's a whole crew here ready with boom mikes, make-up, lights, cameras, and director's chair ready for this scene.

How many takes is up to the professionalism of the "talent"

*stand-ins, extras and lighting doubles: form a line on the right and hush-up*

quiet on the set, roll speed...ACTION!

 

[pippi]

Yeah, I knew there had to be some long-timers on here. 60 mintues of fucking is a HELL of a long time.

good to see a realistic view here. 60 minutes of penetration is like ages long. most people are done in some minutes and it only seems longer.
i guess thats two subjects, where a lot of braging is going and a lot of people are misinformed: penis size and duration of penetration.
both is shorter than people tell and then you think

 

[B_horribleperson]

yup PIPPI is right my penis is only 2 inches long and i only last 1 minute.

 

[nudepaul]

Well, when I was in my early 30's I could still maintain an erection for a long time. The longest was one day where my partner and I had oral sex from 8:05 am until 1:45 pm and I stayed hard the entire time - of course I was also a bit sore - and I don't mean just my mouth and tongue