Stealing A Glance At Your Crotch

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If you were sitting in a restaurant having a coffee on your own and a guy sitting opposite you was occasionally stealing glances between your legs, but in a very discreet and fleeting way how may you feel or react. Just quick glances that didn't linger but left you in no doubt that this area seemed to be where his eyes were falling upon.

It happened to me whereupon I stole discreet glances and the man was with his family so it was just me enjoying the view. He did look back several times but his expression was inscrutable and possibly wondered if I was actually looking. He looked well so it was hard not to have a furtive glance but he seemed to catch me a few times. Then I decided not to look again as it is not fair to a man dining out with his family. We both paid our bills and went our separate ways. I wonder still how he may have experienced this. Possibly wanted to tell me to FO. Or else he didn't care. How would you have felt?
 

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I get guys taking sneaky glances, unless they're being ridiculously overt it's fine with me. I've got a big bulge and people are inquisitive, same as I'd be caught out looking at a nice big cleavage, camel toe or ass.
 
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Don't really care. Mike hung got it right. It's one of those things you're not supposed to look at, which makes it harder not to look at.
 

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If he did look back you were sterling. Perhaps thinking if you knew him from somewhere or perhaps if he had spilled something or let the fly open.
Uncomfortable perhaps annoyed.
What do you expect it would happen he would leave his family until midnight when the spell was broken and he can go back to his wife as nothing has happened?
 
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I think I have been in a coffee shop , sitting down a total of 3 times. I always try to take the window seat as they, face away from the crowds, and I get to be alone .

The OP is lucky . The guy could have gotten offended and wanted to prove his manhood to his family; or the wife could have gotten offended and tried to start a scene / fight. Either way it would have ended badly, ( word to the wise )

To answer the OP. If I were there and someone took a look , so what. One glance / look , no big deal. Trust me , discrete does not mean clandestine. Your facial expression / eyes focus and neck position are readable by anyone with an awareness of their surroundings
Two / Three / four looks, then you are cruising' and I may call you out . Guys react no differently than women, when they have no interest in the attention they are getting
 
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So Ronin’s post made me go back and read the OP. He’s right.

I focused more on the title than the post. Were I the guy, and you kept glancing at my crotch, my first thought would be “does that guy keep looking at my dick?”. More ‘glancing’ and I would think “that dude’s a fucking weirdo”. I might call you out on it if you kept it up. In my younger days it might have started a fight.
 

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If I thought a guy was staring at my crotch, my first thought would be that it's a little weird. My second thought is that he would be awfully disappointed to discover that I'm straight and average. LOL
 

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I'm not normal. I often walk around in public wearing mesh shorts that not only show my vdl, but you can actually see my dick thru the mesh. I wear thin polyester shorts that obviously show my vdl. I often have weights on my sack for stretching purposes, that when combined with my above mentioned clothes (I am always commando), allows my shit to bounce around like crazy and push up against the shorts. I have posted plenty of pictures/videos showing my attire. I do that, but never look to see if anyone is looking at me.

If I were sitting at a table and did notice a guy looking at my crotch, I would be ok with it as long as he wasn't being a jerk about it. If he kept it up I would sit differently so as to stop the show. If a woman was looking at me, I wouldn't change my sitting position. To be totally honest here, I am not aware of either happening regarding my crotch.
 
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Take it as a compliment… it happens, I take nonissue with it, if they turn it into something creepy like trying to take pictures which I’ve had in coffee shops before…. Then I’m gonna get mad, but otherwise…. Bank the visual for later and be on your way
 
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