Steam room etiquette

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Being a fit, attractive guy, joining in on their fun is up to them, and you are not doing anything wrong by being there. If they wanted privacy, they'd go to a room, and if they wanted you to join, they'd wave you over or nod yes. Otherwise, enjoy the show. If you were old, unattractive, AND had a small cock like me, you likely wouldn't get a front row seat.
I agree. It is about the exhibition.
 

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I have hiked my towel and it seems like it always gets the attention I'm looking for. I do get a sense for the guys or guy in there with me so it does work well for me. I learned that from a guy who hiked his towel while I was there... I took the bait and we had a great time.
 
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I have hiked my towel and it seems like it always gets the attention I'm looking for. I do get a sense for the guys or guy in there with me so it does work well for me. I learned that from a guy who hiked his towel while I was there... I took the bait and we had a great time.
Love this—sounds hot, too.
 
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That would be ok for me in a coed situation, but I find it strange in a men only setting.
Gyms do not like the idea of bare bottoms sitting on steam room benches . So , you sit on the towel - nothing says you have to have the towel wrapped tight .Learn to read the room , look at the others and just scratch or adjust your package. If others do the same, proceed
 

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Gyms do not like the idea of bare bottoms sitting on steam room benches . So , you sit on the towel - nothing says you have to have the towel wrapped tight .Learn to read the room , look at the others and just scratch or adjust your package. If others do the same, proceed
In every steam room I've been in there was a water hose to use before you sit down and when you leave to clean the bench, so there are no problems of hygiene.
 

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I always feel overdressed wearing a towel or swim shorts in a steam room, but most gyms and hotels in the UK insist on it these days. Fortunately, I live near Brighton where there are several naturist or gay orientated spas, and I can enjoy the steam room naked. And if I like the look of the company laid out opposite, it's only a short journey upstairs where the fun happens.
 

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In the steam room at our gym at work, guys enter with a towel and place that on the bench before they sit down completely naked. No one seemed uncomfortable in that environment.
 

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I have question about public hook-ups. I've witnessed several, but never done it myself. It seems like, once two guys start, pretty much anyone can join in. But what do you do if you're not open to allowing just anyone to participate?
I disagree on that. Most of the times I did something public I didn't mind people watching, but didn't want other people joining unless clearly invited.

And several times I stopped because people tried to join :p