which of them are good, some are bad, some are a little of both. long nails, high heels, skirts? well they look beautiful and feminine, but they also have a foot binding like aspect to them...there's a lot of things you cannot do when you have them. you must sit a certain way to avoid exposing yourself, you can't run & jump, you'd struggle to change a tyre. what about showing your emotions? or being nurturing? what about being physically smaller and more frail? ...so what do you embrace? reject? accept with a few reservations?